A Sub is Born! | What "Secretary" Get's Right About BDSM

A Sub is Born! | What "Secretary" Get's Right About BDSM

It all begins with a worm... stay with us. Ariel and Morgan dive into one of the most iconic, campy, and controversial BDSM films of the early 2000s.  From awkward, deeply unsexy vanilla sex to one of the most unexpectedly erotic “no contact” scenes we’ve ever seen, this episode breaks down why Secretary works, where it doesn’t, and why people are still arguing about it. They get into it all: *  The Peter problem: when she’s asking for domination and he’s giving… absolutely nothing  *  The worm scene — anticipation, power, and why it’s somehow one of the sexiest moments in the film  *  Why “no safeword, no conversation” is doing a LOT of heavy lifting  *  The difference between kink as emotional connection vs kink as self-harm replacement Plus: hand spasms, breath work that deserves awards, and a masterclass in how to build tension without actually touching. For this one, we've got no notes. (Okay… some notes.) Want to watch along? Our reaction covers the Peter scene: 01:08:00, the worm scene: 01:10:00, and the aftercare/gardening scene at 1:41:00. We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.  ----------------------------------------- CREDITS — SECRETARY (2002) Director: Steven Shainberg Writers: Erin Cressida Wilson; Steven Shainberg Source Material: Based on the short story by Mary Gaitskill Producers: Andrew Fierberg; Amy Hobby; Steven Shainberg Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Maggie Gyllenhaal; James Spader; Jeremy Davies © 2002 Lionsgate / Slough Pond / Double A Films. All rights reserved. Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/fakingitthepod] 🔗 Connect & Support the Show 👀 Watch the Video Version: See our reactions! The video podcast is available on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/2pacQuQYIX8Zk35PojvdFy?si=4010eaafe8bd401d] and YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFak0FO-13L0CDNeuxORA3exZ6C_zDB6W]. 💌 Suggest a Scene & Get Bonuses: Join our Patreon to request movies for us to break down and access exclusive bonus episodes HERE! [https://www.patreon.com/cw/fakingitthepod] 📱 Follow Us for Chaos: Get behind-the-scenes content and updates on Instagram @FakingItThePod [https://www.instagram.com/fakingitthepod/] 🌐 Visit Our Website: Find all our links and more at FakingItThePod.com [https://www.fakingitthepod.com/] 🎶Theme Song is Faking It by Mike Goetz [https://www.instagram.com/thefuzzthatwuzz/] 🎧 Subscribe for Free: Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast app. 💬 Review Us: Love the show? Give us 5 stars! It helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers! Legal Disclaimer The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are our own. This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only. Nothing here is intended to defame, slander, or infringe upon any individual or entity. All trademarks and copyrights remain the property of their respective owners.

No Lube, No Warning | Spilling the Beans on the Intimacy of “Brokeback Mountain”

This episode is sponsored by: taking your time. Ariel and Morgan are diving into Brokeback Mountain: the film that changed queer representation forever… and also left us with a lot of questions about how these scenes actually function.  From the infamous first tent scene to the long-awaited reunion, we’re breaking down what’s working, what’s not, and why these moments feel so tense without ever fully landing. They get into it all: * The reality of prep, lubrication, and pacing (and what’s missing here)  * How tension overtakes intimacy and why that leaves the scenes feeling incomplete  * The difference between awkwardness that serves the story vs. awkwardness that comes from unclear choreography * How the intimacy goes from zero to 100… and tends to stay there forever Plus: beans, spit logistics, near broken noses, and a very real conversation about how these scenes would be approached differently today with an intimacy coordinator. We also zoom out to talk about the film’s massive cultural impact, the historical context it exists in, and why representation matters, even when the intimacy itself  needs room for growth. Justice for lube. That’s all we’re saying. Want to watch along? Our reaction covers the Tent scene: 00:27:30, the Rasslin' scene: 00:32:51, and the Reunion scene: 01:03:07. We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.  ----------------------------------------- CREDITS — BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN Director: Ang Lee Writers: Larry McMurtry; Diana Ossana Source Material: Based on the short story by Annie Proulx Producers: Diana Ossana; James Schamus Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Heath Ledger; Jake Gyllenhaal; Michelle Williams; Randy Quaid © 2005 Focus Features / River Road Entertainment / Good Machine. All rights reserved. ----------------------------------------- Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/fakingitthepod] 🔗 Connect & Support the Show 👀 Watch the Video Version: See our reactions! The video podcast is available on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/2pacQuQYIX8Zk35PojvdFy?si=4010eaafe8bd401d] and YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFak0FO-13L0CDNeuxORA3exZ6C_zDB6W]. 💌 Suggest a Scene & Get Bonuses: Join our Patreon to request movies for us to break down and access exclusive bonus episodes HERE! [https://www.patreon.com/cw/fakingitthepod] 📱 Follow Us for Chaos: Get behind-the-scenes content and updates on Instagram @FakingItThePod [https://www.instagram.com/fakingitthepod/] 🌐 Visit Our Website: Find all our links and more at FakingItThePod.com [https://www.fakingitthepod.com/] 🎶Theme Song is Faking It by Mike Goetz [https://www.instagram.com/thefuzzthatwuzz/] 🎧 Subscribe for Free: Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast app. 💬 Review Us: Love the show? Give us 5 stars! It helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers! Legal Disclaimer The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are our own. This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only. Nothing here is intended to defame, slander, or infringe upon any individual or entity. All trademarks and copyrights remain the property of their respective owners.

Her Throbbing Labia | Hormones Gone Rogue in "PEN15"

This one is so real it hurts. Ariel and Morgan dive into PEN15 (Season 1, Episode 3: “Ojichan”). From the very first moment of “wait… what is happening to my body?” to the full spiral of can’t-stop-won’t-stop self-discovery, this episode captures the chaos, confusion, and intensity of discovering desire with absolutely no roadmap. They get into it all: *  The painfully accurate portrayal of first arousal: awkward, obsessive, and completely all-consuming  *  Why casting adult actors as teens might allow the show to explore this safely without crossing ethical lines *  The way PEN15 captures the feeling of “I must be the only one experiencing this”  *  How shame, secrecy, and silence around sex education shape those early experiences  It’s cringey. It’s deeply familiar. And it turns one of the most private human experiences into comedy gold. Want to watch along? Our reaction covers Maya's first discovery (00:00:41), the Closet/Walkman scene (00:09:22), and the Classroom montage (00:04:14) We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.  👉 Before you say anything - yes, Ariel mispronounced Maya Erskine’s last name. We know. We’re sorry. We love her. ----------------------------------------- CREDITS — PEN15 (S1E3 “Ojichan”) Creators: Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle; Sam Zvibleman Director: Daniel Gray Longino Writers: Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle; Sam Zvibleman Producers: Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle; Sam Zvibleman Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle © 2019 Hulu / Lonely Island Classics, Odenkirk Provissiero Entertainment, AwesomenessTV. All rights reserved. ----------------------------------------- Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/fakingitthepod] 🔗 Connect & Support the Show 👀 Watch the Video Version: See our reactions! The video podcast is available on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/2pacQuQYIX8Zk35PojvdFy?si=4010eaafe8bd401d] and YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFak0FO-13L0CDNeuxORA3exZ6C_zDB6W]. 💌 Suggest a Scene & Get Bonuses: Join our Patreon to request movies for us to break down and access exclusive bonus episodes HERE! [https://www.patreon.com/cw/fakingitthepod] 📱 Follow Us for Chaos: Get behind-the-scenes content and updates on Instagram @FakingItThePod [https://www.instagram.com/fakingitthepod/] 🌐 Visit Our Website: Find all our links and more at FakingItThePod.com [https://www.fakingitthepod.com/] 🎶Theme Song is Faking It by Mike Goetz [https://www.instagram.com/thefuzzthatwuzz/] 🎧 Subscribe for Free: Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast app. 💬 Review Us: Love the show? Give us 5 stars! It helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers! Legal Disclaimer The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are our own. This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only. Nothing here is intended to defame, slander, or infringe upon any individual or entity. All trademarks and copyrights remain the property of their respective owners.

Hardcore Vanilla | The Unhinged Sex Scenes of "Buffy The Vampire Slayer" Explained

👉 BIG OLD SPOILERS AHEAD! YOU'VE BEEN WARNED! The Buffy reboot/reimagining isn't happening for now. We are devastated. So naturally, we need to talk about Buffy and Spike in season 6.  Ariel and Morgan are finally diving into Buffy the Vampire Slayer where things are darker, messier, and include a whole lot more property damage 👀. From literally breaking a house down during sex to invisible hookups to whatever the hell is happening on that balcony… they have thoughts. They get into it all: *  The iconic Buffy/Spike “Smashed” scene: why it’s so hot and makes zero logistical sense  *  How the show tries to portray Buffy’s rock bottom through sex (and where it succeeds vs. fails)  *  The invisibility scene as a surprisingly perfect example of how simulated sex actually works on set *  Why the show keeps saying Buffy and Spike are kinky… while showing the most vanilla execution imaginable  *  The difference between toxic intimacy vs. BDSM, and why those are not the same thing  Plus: pants continuity crimes, mystery penetration logistics, and a full breakdown of our personal histories with Spuffy. Want to watch along? Our reaction covers "Smashed” (House scene): ~00:39:39, “Gone” (Invisibility scene): ~00:28:08, and “Dead Things” (Balcony scene): ~00:20:25 We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.  ----------------------------------------- CREDITS — BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER Creators: Joss Whedon “Smashed” (Season 6, Episode 9) Director: Turi Meyer Writers: Drew Z. Greenberg; Rebecca Rand Kirshner; Steven S. DeKnight “Gone” (Season 6, Episode 11) Director: David Fury Writers: David Fury; Rebecca Rand Kirshner; Steven S. DeKnight “Dead Things” (Season 6, Episode 13) Director: James A. Contner Writers: Steven S. DeKnight; Rebecca Rand Kirshner; Drew Z. Greenberg Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Sarah Michelle Gellar; James Marsters; Nicholas Brendon; Emma Caulfield; Alyson Hannigan © 1997–2003 Mutant Enemy, Inc. / 20th Century Fox Television. All rights reserved. ----------------------------------------- Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/fakingitthepod] 🔗 Connect & Support the Show 👀 Watch the Video Version: See our reactions! The video podcast is available on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/2pacQuQYIX8Zk35PojvdFy?si=4010eaafe8bd401d] and YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFak0FO-13L0CDNeuxORA3exZ6C_zDB6W]. 💌 Suggest a Scene & Get Bonuses: Join our Patreon to request movies for us to break down and access exclusive bonus episodes HERE! [https://www.patreon.com/cw/fakingitthepod] 📱 Follow Us for Chaos: Get behind-the-scenes content and updates on Instagram @FakingItThePod [https://www.instagram.com/fakingitthepod/] 🌐 Visit Our Website: Find all our links and more at FakingItThePod.com [https://www.fakingitthepod.com/] 🎶Theme Song is Faking It by Mike Goetz [https://www.instagram.com/thefuzzthatwuzz/] 🎧 Subscribe for Free: Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast app. 💬 Review Us: Love the show? Give us 5 stars! It helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers! Legal Disclaimer The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are our own. This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only. Nothing here is intended to defame, slander, or infringe upon any individual or entity. All trademarks and copyrights remain the property of their respective owners.

Orgasm Against The Machine | Sci-Fi, Stripteases, and Sex in “Barbarella”

Get ready for one of the most bizarre and brazen films of a generation. In this episode, Ariel and Morgan travel back to 1968’s sci-fi cult classic Barbarella — a movie where Jane Fonda strips out of a spacesuit in zero gravity and later defeats a villain using… an orgasm machine. Yes. Really. The hosts break down how the film uses erotic spectacle, camp, and absurdity to create scenes that are both wildly objectifying and oddly revolutionary for their time. They get into it all: * How the famous zero-gravity striptease opening uses choreography, framing, and floating credits to tease and shock the audience  * Why the “Excessive Machine” scene was extremely bold for mainstream cinema in 1968 * Fascinating power dynamics where the villain weaponizes pleasure and the hero literally sets the situation on fire. * Why early Hollywood often treated sex as visual spectacle first and human experience second It’s campy. It’s chaotic. And somehow still iconic.  Want to watch along? Our reaction covers the opening striptease (0:00:00) and the excessive machine scene (Time Code: ~1:15:00). We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.  ----------------------------------------- CREDITS — Barbarella Director: Roger Vadim Writers: Terry Southern; Roger Vadim; Claude Brulé; Vittorio Bonicelli Source Material: Based on the comic Barbarella by Jean-Claude Forest Producer: Dino De Laurentiis Actors: Jane Fonda; Milo O’Shea © 1968 Dino De Laurentiis Cinematografica / Paramount Pictures. All rights reserved. ----------------------------------------- Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/fakingitthepod] 🔗 Connect & Support the Show 👀 Watch the Video Version: See our reactions! The video podcast is available on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/2pacQuQYIX8Zk35PojvdFy?si=4010eaafe8bd401d] and YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFak0FO-13L0CDNeuxORA3exZ6C_zDB6W]. 💌 Suggest a Scene & Get Bonuses: Join our Patreon to request movies for us to break down and access exclusive bonus episodes HERE! [https://www.patreon.com/cw/fakingitthepod] 📱 Follow Us for Chaos: Get behind-the-scenes content and updates on Instagram @FakingItThePod [https://www.instagram.com/fakingitthepod/] 🌐 Visit Our Website: Find all our links and more at FakingItThePod.com [https://www.fakingitthepod.com/] 🎶Theme Song is Faking It by Mike Goetz [https://www.instagram.com/thefuzzthatwuzz/] 🎧 Subscribe for Free: Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast app. 💬 Review Us: Love the show? Give us 5 stars! It helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers! Legal Disclaimer The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are our own. This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only. Nothing here is intended to defame, slander, or infringe upon any individual or entity. All trademarks and copyrights remain the property of their respective owners.