Stop Believing the Lies: How Conditioning Steals Your Purpose

Your Purpose is BUILT IN - Your Thinking is the Only Thing Keeping You From It

In this episode of Fatima Bey The MindShifter - Guesting, Fatima joins In the Groove With Todd and Jackie for a deep MindShift conversation about purpose, confidence, identity, and why your thinking determines far more than your circumstances ever will. From going through a full career collapse during the pandemic to realizing that MindShift work had always been her true calling, Fatima explains why most people are not actually stuck. They are simply repeating unchallenged thinking. This conversation explores MindShift at its core, how confidence is trained out of people, why tools fail without thinking shifts, and how teenagers are navigating identity in a hyperconnected world. This episode is for anyone at a pivotal point who knows change is necessary and is ready to stop avoiding responsibility for their own growth. CHAPTERS 00:00 MindShift Intro - From fitting brides to shifting minds 02:54 What MindShift really means and why thinking comes first 05:40 You are never stuck unless you choose to be 06:44 Losing everything and finding purpose during the pandemic 09:34 Why tools fail without a MindShift 14:01 Confidence work - Unlearning what was never true 15:52 Brides, bodies, and belief - Seeing yourself clearly 21:14 Change has no age limit - Growth at 70 23:17 Teen MindShift - Identity in a hyperconnected world 31:34 MindShifting Moment - Your value existed before achievement QUOTES “Your purpose is already built in. MindShift is not about becoming valuable. It is about uncovering what already exists.” “Most people do not need more tools. They need a MindShift before the tools can work.” “You are never stuck unless you decide to stay there. MindShift begins with choice.” “Value does not come after achievement. Value comes first. That is the MindShift.” KEY MINDSHIFTS * Being stuck is rarely about circumstances. It is about unchallenged thinking. MindShift begins when responsibility replaces resignation. * Change does not arrive through motivation alone. It happens when thinking shifts before behavior ever does. * The MindShifter identity was not created by crisis. It was revealed when comfort disappeared and purpose had nowhere left to hide. * Tools fail when thinking stays the same. MindShift works because it addresses the root before the strategy. * Purpose is not something you earn later. MindShift reveals what was already built into you from the start. * Teenagers are not lost. They are overloaded with voices, expectations, and constant comparison. MindShift brings clarity where noise dominates. * Identity confusion is not weakness. It is a natural human stage that becomes dangerous when guidance is absent. * Technology connects faster than it connects deeper. MindShift teaches discernment, not disconnection. * Confidence is not missing in most people. It was trained out of them. MindShift helps restore what was taken. * Not everyone wants change. MindShift work begins only when a person is willing to be honest about their responsibility in their own life. Learn more about Fatima Bey The MindShifter and explore all guest appearances in one place: https://www.fatimabey.com/guesting [https://www.fatimabey.com/guesting] Featured Host: In The Groove With Todd and Jackie https://www.toddandjackie.com/ [https://www.toddandjackie.com/] Thank you for listening. Original air date: December 26, 2025 Conversations that shift your thinking so you can shift your future. 👉 One-on-one coaching for clarity and inner growth: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching] 👉 The MindShifter Audio Blog for deep reflection: FatimaBey.com/audioblog [FatimaBey.com/audioblog] 👉 MindShift Digital for identity-based business strategy: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital] 👉 Media, speaking, and collaborations: FatimaBey.com/media [FatimaBey.com/media] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Stop Believing the Lies: How Conditioning Steals Your Purpose

Fatima Bey The MindShifter joins Claudia Noriega Bernstein for a raw, transformative conversation about how conditioning steals our purpose and keeps us living beneath our potential. From confidence issues to cultural programming, Fatima breaks down how we inherit limiting beliefs and why unlearning is just as important as learning. This episode challenges parents, women, and anyone stuck in patterns of self-doubt to recognize the thought seeds they're planting—and the lies they've been believing. Fatima and Claudia dive into the power of words, the danger of negative self-talk, and how two friends helped Fatima recondition herself by refusing to let her speak badly about herself. They discuss why gifts reveal purpose, how conditioning shapes everything from career choices to self-worth, and what it takes to break free from cultural expectations that tell us we're only valuable in certain ways. If you're ready to stop giving discounts on your value and start living your divine purpose, this conversation will shift your mind. Chapters 00:00 — Introduction to Mind Shifting and Coaching 02:49 — The Importance of Confidence in Personal Growth 05:57 — Unlearning Conditioning and Finding Purpose 09:03 — Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact on Self-Perception 12:11 — The Connection Between Gifts and Purpose 14:48 — Empowering Women and Building Self-Worth 18:01 — The Role of Positive Reinforcement in Parenting 21:05 — Sowing Seeds of Positivity 23:57 — The Power of Words and Self-Talk 26:54 — Reconditioning Negative Self-Perceptions 29:50 — The Impact of Conditioning on Relationships 33:00 — Conclusion and Call to Action MindShift Moments * Confidence is often the biggest obstacle for clients. * Unlearning negative conditioning is crucial for personal growth. * Cultural conditioning affects self-perception across all demographics. * Gifts and talents are often linked to one's purpose. * Empowering women is essential for building self-worth. * Positive reinforcement in parenting shapes children's self-esteem. * Words have the power to uplift or diminish self-worth. * Reconditioning negative self-talk is necessary for healing. * Conditioning impacts how we treat ourselves and others. * Every interaction can plant seeds of positivity or negativity. Sound Bites "Confidence is often the biggest obstacle for clients." "Gifts and talents are often linked to one's purpose." "Empowering women is essential for building self-worth." Featured Host Claudia Noriega Bernstein — Empowerment Coach & Author https://claudianoriegabernstein.com/media/ [https://claudianoriegabernstein.com/media/] Thank you for listening. Original Air Date: Sep 23, 2025 Conversations that shift your thinking so you can shift your future. 👉 One-on-one coaching for clarity and inner growth: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching] 👉 The MindShifter Audio Blog for deep reflection: FatimaBey.com/audioblog [FatimaBey.com/audioblog] 👉 MindShift Digital for identity-based business strategy: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital] 👉 Media, speaking, and collaborations: FatimaBey.com/media [FatimaBey.com/media] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The MindShift of Podcasting: My Lessons from Two Years of Impact with Dave Campbell

Fatima Bey The MindShifter returns to the How To Podcast series with Dave Campbell for a powerful, transparent conversation about what truly makes a podcast thrive. After two years of consistent weekly episodes, Fatima breaks down the systems she built, the mistakes she stopped making, and the mindset shifts that helped her podcast rank on top global lists. This episode dives deep into purpose, impact, workflow, guest selection, hard conversations, and why your podcast needs real gas in the tank if you want to last. Dave and Fatima talk about what most podcasters get wrong, why so many quit before episode 50, how to navigate difficult topics with care, and the value of building your podcast home on your own website. If you want to grow a podcast with purpose, clarity, and longevity, this conversation will shift how you think about your entire approach. Chapters 00:00 — Opening Music and Introduction 00:12 — Fatima’s Return to the How To Podcast Series 00:41 — Dave Campbell on Fatima’s Impact and Website 02:15 — Two Years of Podcasting: What Fatima Has Learned 03:23 — Hitting Top Podcast Lists and Staying Consistent 05:14 — Why Most Podcasters Quit Before Episode 50 07:14 — Quality Over Perfection and Recording Challenges 09:23 — Fatima’s True Why: Impact Over Impressing People 12:40 — Finding Your Gas: The Real Motivation Behind a Podcast 14:25 — Tackling Hard Topics and Offering Value 17:46 — Micro-Topics, Mental Health, and Serving Teens Worldwide 19:16 — Systems, Workflows, and the Power of Streamlined Onboarding 25:26 — The Hot Dog Stand Principle for Vetting Guests 38:10 — Paid Awards vs. Real Recognition 40:15 — Why Fatima Built Her Podcast Home on Her Website MindShift Moments * Impact matters more than numbers in podcasting. * Consistency is the most important habit you can build. * Knowing your purpose guides everything you create. * Hard conversations open doors to meaningful change. * Systems and workflows make podcasting sustainable. * The Hot Dog Stand Principle helps you protect your audience. * A strong website can elevate your podcast presence. * Real recognition is earned through value, not payments. * Offering nutrients instead of noise sets your show apart. * A great podcast grows through continual evolution. Sound Bites "Your podcast needs gas to drive." "I talk about real serious stuff." "Your podcast is a restaurant." Featured Host Dave Campbell — How To Podcast Series https://howtopodcast.ca/ [https://howtopodcast.ca/] Thank you for listening. Original Air Date: October, 27, 2025 Conversations that shift your thinking so you can shift your future. 👉 One-on-one coaching for clarity and inner growth: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching] 👉 The MindShifter Audio Blog for deep reflection: FatimaBey.com/audioblog [FatimaBey.com/audioblog] 👉 MindShift Digital for identity-based business strategy: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital] 👉 Media, speaking, and collaborations: FatimaBey.com/media [FatimaBey.com/media] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Shifting your Mindset to Find your Why with Fatima Bey - Guesting on The Unscripted Podcast

What did you dream of as a child? What makes you righteously angry? In this powerful guest appearance on The Unscripted Podcast, International MindShift Coach Fatima Bey reveals the three essential questions you must answer to uncover your life's purpose. Learn the difference between being impressive versus impactful, why balance is the key to a successful life, and how you can turn your unique calling into a fulfilling career or business. To work with Fatima and shift your thinking for your own success, visit her at https://www.fatimabey.com [https://www.google.com/url?sa=E&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fatimabey.com] Chapters: 0:00 - Welcome to The Unscripted Podcast 0:35 - Introducing Special Guest, Fatima Bey The Mind Shifter 1:07 - My Journey: From Seamstress to International MindShift Coach 2:03 - The 4 Pillars of My Coaching: Balance, Purpose, Career & Teens 5:08 - The BIG Question: How Do You Help People Find Their Purpose? 6:40 - Question 1: What Did You Dream of as a Child? 8:54 - Question 2: What Makes You Righteously Angry? 10:32 - Question 3: What Are Your True Gifts & Talents? 11:51 - How to Marry Your Answers to Find Your Perfect Career 13:14 - Why True Fulfillment Comes from Purpose, Not Money 17:05 - The Power of Psychology in Coaching & Finding Patterns 20:29 - What Does Coaching with Fatima Bey Look Like? 23:14 - A Tough Question: Balancing Two Passionate Businesses 24:52 - A Client's Life-Changing Story: How Coaching Made a Real-World Impact 33:23 - The Single Most Important Question You Can Ask Yourself MindShift Moments * Fatima is a dual entrepreneur, running a sewing business and coaching. * Her coaching focuses on shifting mindsets to help clients find balance. * Finding one's purpose often requires introspection and self-discovery. * Money is not the key to fulfillment; purpose is essential. * Coaching is customized to meet individual needs and goals. * Introspection is crucial for personal growth and understanding oneself. * Fatima emphasizes the importance of being willing to change. * Righteous anger can indicate areas where one is meant to make a difference. * Balance in life and work is essential for overall well-being. * Fatima's approach combines humor and empathy in her coaching Sound Bites "What gets you righteously angry?" "I want real results." "You are one person doing both." Featured Host The Unscripted Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/08fuc9bFQuY3snkyrqN1AK [https://open.spotify.com/show/08fuc9bFQuY3snkyrqN1AK] Original airdate: June 06, 2024 Conversations that shift your thinking so you can shift your future. 👉 One-on-one coaching for clarity and inner growth: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching] 👉 The MindShifter Audio Blog for deep reflection: FatimaBey.com/audioblog [FatimaBey.com/audioblog] 👉 MindShift Digital for identity-based business strategy: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital] 👉 Media, speaking, and collaborations: FatimaBey.com/media [FatimaBey.com/media] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Ditch Fear, Find Balance & Shift Your Life: My "Advancing With Amy" Interview

What did you dream of as a child? What makes you righteously angry? In this powerful guest interview on the "Advancing With Amy" podcast, International MindShift Coach Fatima Bey reveals the three foundational questions that unlock your life's true purpose. Learn the difference between just surviving and truly thriving, and how shifting your thinking is the key to lasting success. To work with Fatima and shift your thinking for your own success, visit her at https://www.fatimabey.com [https://www.fatimabey.com] Chapters: 0:00 - Welcome to Advancing With Amy 1:36 - What it means to be a "Mind Shifter" 5:08 - How Do You Help People Find Their Purpose? 6:40 - Question 1: What Did You Dream of as a Child? 8:54 - Question 2: What Makes You Righteously Angry? 10:32 - Question 3: What Are Your True Gifts & Talents? 21:04 - A Client's Life-Changing Story: The Transformation of Jannah 26:40 - My Own Journey to Self-Worth and Confidence 31:34 - How My Coaching Works for Adults & Grown-Up Teens 37:41 - The Power of Deep Introspection MindShift Moments * Fatima emphasizes the importance of shifting one's thinking for success. * She believes that self-worth is crucial for personal growth. * Fatima's coaching is tailored to individual needs, avoiding cookie-cutter approaches. * She highlights the challenges of working with teens and the need for honest conversations. * Mental health encompasses more than just disorders; it includes overall well-being. * Fatima shares the transformative story of a young girl named Janaya. * She encourages individuals to confront uncomfortable topics for growth. * Finding purpose is essential for making meaningful life choices. * Fatima's methods focus on helping people live fully, not just exist. * Balance is key to achieving success in various aspects of life. Sound Bites "We all need some sort of mind shifting." "I don't do cookie cutter." "I want to help you live, not just exist." Featured Host Amy Taylor — Mental Health Warrior & Neurodivergent Advocate https://advancingwithamy.buzzsprout.com/2434582/episodes [https://advancingwithamy.buzzsprout.com/2434582/episodes] Original Airdate: 07/11/24 Conversations that shift your thinking so you can shift your future. 👉 One-on-one coaching for clarity and inner growth: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-coaching] 👉 The MindShifter Audio Blog for deep reflection: FatimaBey.com/audioblog [FatimaBey.com/audioblog] 👉 MindShift Digital for identity-based business strategy: FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital [FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital] 👉 Media, speaking, and collaborations: FatimaBey.com/media [FatimaBey.com/media] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.