Building Confidence When You’ve Been Convinced to Sit Down and Shut Up

The Advice Episode: Victim Mentality Shifts, Busting Ruts, and Intuition or Paranoia?

Episode 6: The Advice Episode: Victim Mentality Shifts, Busting Ruts, and Intuition or Paranoia? In this episode, I fulfilled the listener request from my Instagram poll to give advice (actually solicited this time!) from audience submissions. I talk about how to take accountability and responsibility to shift from victim mindset to thriving in healing (please, for the love of all things, do not associate this with shit that it's not meant to be associated with. This doesn't have anything to do at all with politics. Not that kind of podcast). I also give a few examples of how to break out of a rut from the day-to-day monotony of life. Most of those suggestions don't cost very much, if anything. Try them out and give me some feedback! Finally, I touch a little bit on how to tell intuition from paranoia. There's quite a difference, in my experience. What's it feel like for you? Thank y'all to everyone that submitted your question a couple weeks back. I appreciate and apologize that it took so long to get this out there. Got something you want me to talk about? Leave a comment or hit me up in DMs on the socials (yes, it's really me replying to everyone.) Mentioned in this episode: Check out my Intuitive Tarot Reading, currently$110 off with code ⁠⁠⁠STORIES90⁠⁠⁠ [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/products/intuitive-tarot-reading]. Want episodes early, member-only perks, and discounts? Support the podcast and ⁠⁠⁠get extra content here⁠⁠⁠ [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/supporters/perks]. Thank You to My Onyx & Raven Members: Nikki H., Kelsey W., RK Garrett, Coney Ham, Chelseaavert, MySavageHeart, & Ceruleanfirefly 🖤 🎵 Music from #Uppbeat(free for Creators!): ⁠⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate⁠⁠⁠ [https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate] Licensecode: WGPWQMXO9NMD10FU

No Broomsticks, Just Breakthroughs: How Enchant With Circe Worked Through Her Healing With Witchcraft

Episode 5: No Broomsticks, Just Breakthroughs: HowEnchant With Circe Worked Through Her Healing With Witchcraft In this episode, I sat down with Lizz aka EnchantWithCirce [https://instagram.com/enchantwithcirce] to talk about how her introduction to witchcraft helped her with hard-hitting breakthroughs. We discuss synchronicity, explosive growth, inner temples, and making discoveries she may have never known without her practice. Mentioned in this episode: Where to find Circe: https://enchantwithcirce.com/ [https://enchantwithcirce.com/] https://www.instagram.com/enchantwithcirce/ [https://www.instagram.com/enchantwithcirce/] https://bsky.app/profile/enchantwithcirce.com [https://bsky.app/profile/enchantwithcirce.com]Launching Soonhttps://www.tiktok.com/@enchantwithcirce [https://www.tiktok.com/@enchantwithcirce] https://www.youtube.com/@enchantwithcirce [https://www.youtube.com/@enchantwithcirce] Products Mentioned or Recommended (affiliate links): Psychic Witch⁠ [https://amzn.to/4mXdpH7] by Mat Auryn (If you don't buy anything else, buy this) Mastering Magick [https://amzn.to/41ec7yZ] by Mat Auryn The Psychic Art of Tarot [https://amzn.to/4oQUm34] by Mat Auryn (We're fans, can you tell?) Tarot Mucha Deck [https://amzn.to/47BzTJ5] Tarot of the Divine [https://amzn.to/3HANG8o] by Yoshi YoshitaniStar Spinner Tarot [https://amzn.to/4lGHFFd] Check out my Intuitive Tarot Reading, currently$110off with code ⁠⁠STORIES90⁠⁠ [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/products/intuitive-tarot-reading]. Want episodes early, member-only perks, and discounts? Support the podcast and ⁠⁠get extra content here⁠⁠ [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/supporters/perks]. Thank You to My Onyx & Raven Members: Nikki H., Kelsey W., RK Garrett, Coney Ham, Chelseaavert, MySavageHeart, & Ceruleanfirefly 🖤 🎵 Music from #Uppbeat(free for Creators!): ⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate⁠⁠ [https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate] Licensecode: WGPWQMXO9NMD10FU

Late Diagnosed with ADHD - The Gifted Kid's Curse featuring Rachel K. Garrett

Episode 4: Late Diagnosed with ADHD - The Gifted Kid's Curse featuring Rachel K. Garrett. In this episode, I talk to one of my favorite people with one of those fancy Alphabet Soup degrees. She saw my spicy brain long before I believed that’s what it was. We cover topics ranging from why people get diagnosed with ADHD later in life (particularly women), why more people are getting diagnosed as neurodivergent, and what our experiences were like when we got our shiny labels of crazy. This one’s a long one, but I promise it’s worth it.   Check out my Intuitive Tarot Reading, currently $110off with code ⁠STORIES90⁠ [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/products/intuitive-tarot-reading]. Want episodes early, member-only perks, and discounts? Support the podcast and ⁠get extra content here⁠ [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/supporters/perks]. Next Episode:I sit down with one of the fastest growing witches, EnchantwithCirce [https://www.instagram.com/enchantwithcirce], that I’ve ever met to talk about Doing the Work™ and what happens when you outgrow folks that won’t. Thank You to My Onyx & Raven Members: Nikki H., Kelsey W., RK Garrett, Coney Ham, Chelseaavert, MySavageHeart, & Ceruleanfirefly 🖤 🎵 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): ⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate⁠ [https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate]License code: WGPWQMXO9NMD10FU

Building Confidence When You’ve Been Convinced to Sit Down and Shut Up

Episode 3: Building Confidence When You’ve Been Told to Sit Down and Shut Up Ever been told to "have more confidence" like it’s something you can just pick up from the store? Yeah, no. In this episode, I take you all the way back to where my lack of confidence started: from playground bullying to abusive relationships to that time I thought losing weight would magically fix my brain (spoiler: it didn’t). In this episode, we’re talking about: * The root causes of my low confidence (and how society loved to feed it to me) * How I went from self-deprecating chameleon to “take no shit” grown woman * The techniques I still use when those inner voices get loud * And why people get real mad when you stop hating yourself Confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you build. And it is possible to build it, even if you’ve been walking barefoot over broken glass for most of your life. Let me teach you how.Mentioned in this Episode: Check out my Intuitive Tarot Reading, currently $90 off with code STORIES90 [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/products/intuitive-tarot-reading]. Want episodes early, member-only perks, and discounts? Support the podcast and get extra content here [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/supporters/perks]. Next Week: We get into late-stage ADHD diagnosis with my therapist, Rachel: aka the woman who saw my spicy brain before I did. We’re talking grief, revelation, and the “holy shit” moments of learning how your brain actually works. Thank You to My Onyx & Raven Members: Nikki H., Kelsey W., RK Garrett, Coney Ham, Chelseaavert, & Ceruleanfirefly 🖤 🎵 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate [https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate] License code: WGPWQMXO9NMD10FU

Decision Fatigue and the Invisibility of Mental Labor: How I Handle it with Soft Structure

Episode 2: Decision Fatigue and the Invisibility of Mental Labor: How I Handle it with Soft Structure This week, we’re talking about decision fatigue and the invisible weight of mental labor. You know, all the shit nobody sees but somehow still needs to get done. I’m breaking down how I manage it without breaking myself in the process, using what I call the Soft Structure method: a flexible, ADHD-friendly planning system that helps me be honest about my energy while taking care of my responsibilities. We'll get into: * Why decision fatigue is real as hell and what happened when I ignored it. * What mental labor looks like and how to bring it to light. * The nitty gritty of my Soft Structure method and how to make it work for you * How to get the printable version of the Soft Structure guide. * How to use things like body doubling and the modified Pomodoro method to keep from getting lost in the sauce. Mentioned in this episode: The Honeyman Method video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQFZNQS6eQ0]: the original inspiration that went alongside one of my therapy appointments to help me build my version. Download the Soft Structure Planner PDF [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/products/soft-structure-guide]: totally free, editable in Canva or easy to print/use digitally. Memberships & Perks [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/supporters/perks]: How to get early access, behind-the-scenes, and random content from me. Before everybody else. Members Only Feed [https://fatpeoplemagic.com/supporters]: The place where my subscribers can tap in directly to access the good stuff they paid for. A huge thank you to my Onyx & Raven members: Nikki H., Kelsey W., RK Garrett, Coney Ham, Chelseaavert, & Ceruleanfirefly 🖤 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/alamance/evaporate License code: WGPWQMXO9NMD10FU