What If Wealth Isn't About Money? | #46

What If Wealth Isn't About Money? | #46

What if the life you're chasing isn't the life you actually want? In this episode of Get Your House in Order, host Elke Rubach sits down with financial strategist and entrepreneur Mary Lyons, The Wealth Woman, to challenge everything we've been taught about money, success, and happiness. From breaking free of scarcity mindsets to redefining what abundance really means, Mary shares why wealth should be a tool for freedom—not a scorecard for achievement. Together, they explore how our money stories shape our decisions, why comparing ourselves to others is a losing game, and how intentional financial planning can help create a life that's rich in purpose, joy, and meaningful experiences. In This Episode: * Why more money doesn't automatically create more happiness * The difference between spending to impress and spending to enrich your life * How to align your finances with your values and dreams * The conversations every couple should have about money * Why true wealth is about freedom, not accumulation At the end of the day, money is just a tool. The real question is: What kind of life are you building with it? Connect with Mary Lyons Website: https://thewealthwoman.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marylyonswealthwoman/ Instagram: @thewealthwoman Host: Elke Rubach rubachwealth.com | LinkedIn: Elke Rubach

Wealth With Purpose, Not Performance | #45

What if chasing higher returns is actually costing you the life you want? In this episode, host Elke Rubach sits down with Gary Preisser, Managing Partner of Stonebrier Wealth Advisors, to challenge one of the biggest myths in wealth management—that success is about picking the right investments. Instead, Gary shares a powerful shift: treating money not as a scorecard, but as a tool designed to serve a specific purpose. Together, they explore how clarity, intention, and better questions can transform not just your portfolio—but your entire life. From redefining financial success to introducing frameworks like the "cash flow clock," Gary explains how aligning wealth with purpose, timing, and long-term stewardship can simplify decision-making and create deeper meaning. Key Takeaways: * Why "assets are not trophies"—and what they should be instead * The costly mistake of focusing on performance over purpose * How asking better questions leads to clearer, more effective financial strategies This conversation will change the way you think about money—and what it's really meant to do for you. Connect with Gary Preisser: https://www.stonebriarwealthadvisors.com/team/gary-preisser Host: Elke Rubach rubachwealth.com | LinkedIn: Elke Rubach

Get Your House in Order First | #44

What if the key to better business... is fixing yourself first? In this episode, Elke Rubach sits down with entrepreneur and real estate professional James Milonas to explore the deeper meaning behind "getting your house in order." From early lessons in discipline and work ethic to building a people-first business, James shares how intentional living, authentic connection, and internal clarity shape lasting success—especially under pressure. This conversation goes beyond strategy and into the mindset, habits, and character required to lead well in uncertain times—reminding us that what's happening internally always shows up externally. Key takeaways: * Why leadership starts with self-discipline, health, and mental clarity * The power of authentic human connection in a sales-driven world * How your internal state directly reflects in your environment and results If you're building something meaningful—or trying to hold it together when things feel uncertain—this episode will challenge you to start from within. Because before you fix the business... you have to fix the foundation. Connect with James Milonas: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesmilonas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesmilonas Host: Elke Rubach rubachwealth.com | LinkedIn: Elke Rubach

Giving with Purpose, Not Just Wealth with Robin Turack | #43

What if true impact isn't about how much you give—but how intentionally you give it? In this episode, host Elke Rubach sits down with philanthropic strategist Robin Turack to explore how giving evolves from a personal passion into a purposeful legacy. With over 25 years of experience across major institutions and community initiatives, Robin shares how anyone—not just the ultra-wealthy—can approach philanthropy with clarity, structure, and lasting impact. From her early days seeking connection through charity work to advising donors on strategic giving, her journey reveals the deeper meaning behind contribution. Key Takeaways: * Philanthropy is for everyone: You don't need millions—just intention and strategy * From wealth to impact: A mindset shift that transforms giving into legacy * Connection drives contribution: Community and shared purpose are at the heart of meaningful philanthropy When you align your values with your actions, giving becomes more than generosity—it becomes a powerful way to shape the world around you. Start where you are, give with purpose, and watch the ripple effect unfold. Connect: Guest: Robin Turack https://peartreecanada.com/team/robin-turack/ 👤 Host: Elke Rubach rubachwealth.com | LinkedIn: Elke Rubach

Why Success Still Feels Off with Sarah Draper | #42

You can have everything—and still feel like something's missing. In this episode, host Elke Rubach sits down with leadership strategist Sarah Draper, founder of Leading Well Strategies, to explore why high performers often feel stuck despite outwardnsuccess. Drawing from her work with executives and leadership teams, Sarah shares how years of achievement can quietly lead to misalignment, burnout, and a loss of personal clarity—especially during major life transitions. Together, they unpack how success without self-awareness can create invisible gaps—and what it really takes to realign your life and leadership from the inside out. Key takeaways: * Why high achievers lose themselves in the pursuit of success * The hidden cost of living in "survival mode" for too long * How transitions (career, family, retirement) reveal deeper misalignment If you've ever wondered why success doesn't feel the way you thought it would—this conversation will help you reconnect with what truly matters. Connect with the guest: Sarah Draper – https://www.leadingwellstrategies.com/meet-sarah [https://www.leadingwellstrategies.com/meet-sarah] 👤 Host: Elke Rubach rubachwealth.com | LinkedIn: Elke Rubach