#150: The Indian Girl's Guide To Escaping The Middle Class Trap FOREVER

#154: 9 Underrated Habits To End Brainrot & Finally Enter Your Smart Girl Era

We've started confusing consuming information with actually being smart. We read every Substack, watch every explainer, save a thousand posts we'll never open again — and somehow end up foggier, more scattered, and more forgetful than ever. That's brainrot. And no amount of it will ever make you sharp. So this is 9 principles to end the brainrot and become genuinely, dangerously smart — not the kind of smart that wins a quiz, but the kind that thinks clearly, sees through the noise, and stays three steps ahead of the room. Grab a notebook and actually take notes. Let's get into it. ⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – Why consuming more isn't making you smarter01:20 – Over-consumption into insight03:22 – Real-world exposure06:46 – Contrarian views09:08 – Rebuild your attention11:11 – Learn how incentives work13:57 – Develop taste16:44 – Systems, not self-blame18:42 – Second order Thinking20:27 – Strong opinions, loosely heldIf this one hit, do me a favour — like the podcast video so it reaches more women who need it, and tell me in the comments which principle you're starting with this week. I read every single one. Rate and follow this page for more on becoming hotter, smarter, and richer. Your smart girl era starts here.

#153: Dear Indian Women, THIS is How You Start Investing

If you're a woman in your 20s or 30s who's wanted to start investing but has no clue where to begin — this is the only video you need. I went from completely broke at 26 to financially independent by 31, and learning how to invest is the single biggest thing that got me there. So in this beginner's guide, I'm breaking down exactly how I'd start investing from scratch if I had to do it all over again today — in the simplest way possible, with no jargon, no gatekeeping, and starting with as little as ₹500. Everything I wish someone had told me when I started.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro01:08 Step 1 — Your Money Foundation 07:13 Step 2 — Define Your Goals10:04 Step 3 — How To Actually Start Investing11:51 Step 4 — What To Invest In 17:43 Step 5 — How Much To Invest, And How Aggressively21:00 Step 6 — Automate & Simplify (SIPs explained)23:02 Step 7 — Don't Panic When The Market Drops25:06 My Personal Investing PhilosophyA quick, important note: I'm not a financial advisor, and this video isn't financial advice — it's simply what I've learned and what works for me personally. Always do your own research before making any money decisions.If this helped even a little, subscribe — this is the first in a money series I'm building for women who want to feel smarter, richer, and genuinely free with their money. And drop your questions below, I read them all.💌 LET'S BE FRIENDSInstagram → @adetedahiyaSubstack → https://adete.substack.com/🏅 My best guides to help TRANSFORM your life: 1. Become more attractive using Psychology: https://youtu.be/L1Q8NH--7Hw?si=ixvRHm2QcbVE5vFD2. Ultimate 60-day glow-up guide: https://youtu.be/E8GF4GxrV9c?si=WH1v4AXKac_gqLAN3. How to become a whole new person in 90 days: https://youtu.be/cobei65XCh8?si=wkgfQ_zjp3ltBs3s4. Simplest Guide to Becoming a high-value woman: https://youtu.be/lPzpVDzWhw4?si=uyruIoa09BPUOnY_

#152: 9 Glow Up Tips To Always Always Look Pretty and Elegant

In this podcast video, I'm breaking down 9 microhabits that make you look elegant and expensive — without spending more or trying too hard. From creating a signature and mastering visual weight, to colour pairings, fragrance, proportions, and how to actually handle trends, these are the small shifts that change how the world perceives you. And the best part? Barely any of it is about money.If you've ever looked at someone and thought, "she just looks expensive," — this is exactly how she does it.✨ Hit subscribe for more videos on becoming the hottest, most empowered, richest version of yourself.00:00 — Intro00:42 — Create a signature02:49 — Expand your references05:26 — Master your outfit density07:44 — Learn how to use texture09:27 — Learn colour pairings12:10 — Keep your skin exposure intentional13:50 — Match your fragrance to your visual identity15:08 — Learn your proportions17:19 — Fall for trends, but smartly#lookexpensive #elegance #quietluxury #personalstyle #femininity #selfimprovement********************✨ Subscribe to the most positive newsletter on the internet: https://adete.substack.com/ [https://adete.substack.com/]***********************

#151: 8 Hot Girl Beauty Secrets To Have Gorgeous Hair (Most Skip This)

Most of us waste a fortune on hair products and see zero results — because we're following random Instagram hacks instead of actually understanding what our hair needs to look healthy, shiny, and effortlessly good. So this is the only hair podcast video you actually need. The real science behind why your hair behaves the way it does, what to do, what's a scam, and the products that genuinely work — at every price point. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Get your notepads out.📌 CHAPTERS00:00 Intro + The Stop List02:07 1. Feed The Follicle03:33 2. Treat Your Scalp Like Skin05:29 3. The Right Method & Products12:39 4. Stop The Friction14:03 5. Using Heat On Your Hair16:45 6. How To Fix Frizz18:43 7. Protect From Sun & Pollution20:38 8. Salon Treatments🧴 MY EXACT ROUTINE (oily scalp + dry hair girlie)Pre-wash:Inde Wild Champi Oil (lengths only)The Ordinary Hair Growth Serum (scalp)Redken Acidic Bonding Treatment (twice a month)Shampoo:L'Oréal Hyaluron Moisture (first wash)Kérastase Bain Gloss Absolu (second wash)Kérastase Bain Divalent (clarifying, every 2 weeks)Conditioner:L'Oréal Hyaluron Moisture ConditionerKérastase Masque Hydra-Apaisant (weekly)Glossing: L'Oréal Elvive Glycolic GlossPost-shower:Moroccanoil Volumising MousseBBlunt Heat ProtectantLeave-ins (rotating):Kérastase Nutritive 8H Magic Night SerumL'Oréal Extraordinary OilRedken Leave-In Conditioning TreatmentFinishing oil: L'Oréal Extraordinary Oil OR Kérastase Glow DropsSun protection: Hair Pure Hair & Scalp Sunscreen Spray (Tira)Sleep: Silk/satin pillowcase + loose low braid⚠️ Reminder from the podcast video: please don't start any supplements off a YouTube video. Get bloodwork done and consult a doctor first. 💭 Comment below: which of these were you getting completely wrong? I want to know.********************✨Subscribe to the most positive newsletter on the internet: ⁠https://adete.substack.com/ [https://adete.substack.com/]***********************

#150: The Indian Girl's Guide To Escaping The Middle Class Trap FOREVER

If you're a woman in India in your 20s or 30s, this is the financial independence roadmap nobody handed you. Because for Indian women, money isn't just money — it's control, it's safety, it's the option to walk away. And most of us were raised to depend, not to decide. In this podcast video, I'm breaking down the 10 steps to actually become financially independent as an Indian woman — in the right order, from the ground up. Not the generic "just start an SIP" advice. The real version. How to control your money before you grow it, how to build a freedom fund that lets you leave any situation, how to protect what you build from the people who'll quietly drain it, and how to invest so your future self never has to ask anyone for anything.Grab your chai, your notepad, and let's build you a life where you never have to ask for money again. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:11 — Why financial independence is different for Indian women02:08 — Step 1: Control your money05:53 — Step 2: Control the decision-making08:36 — Step 3: Build your independence stack12:22 — Step 4: Build your freedom fund18:15 — Step 5: Frontload your savings21:13 — Step 6: Invest like your life depends on it27:38 — Step 7: Get your own CA29:34 — Step 8: Build a fence around your money32:16 — Step 9: Plan for your retirement35:05 — Step 10: Treat this as a lifelong practice37:20 — Recap If this podcast video gave you even one thing to act on this week — save it, send it to a woman who needs it, and let me know in the comments which step you're starting with. 💛Hotter. Smarter. Richer. Self-approved.