From Fired Twice to Founder: Lori Pfeiffer Murphy on Rebuilding Her Identity on Her Comeback

From Fired Twice to Founder: Lori Pfeiffer Murphy on Rebuilding Her Identity on Her Comeback

HER COMEBACK PODCAST with Host Michelle Thompson https://hercomebackpodcast.com/ [https://hercomebackpodcast.com/] From Fired Twice to Founder: Lori Pfeiffer Murphy on Rebuilding Her Identity Guest: Lori Pfeiffer Murphy — Author, Entrepreneur, Title Industry Leader & Co-Founder, Rising Tides Foundation This week Michelle sits down with SWFL entrepreneur Lori Pfeiffer Murphy for a candid conversation about identity, pride, and starting over more than once. Lori shares how being let go twice, first from a director-track role at Aveda and later during the COVID-19 shutdown, forced her to separate her sense of self from her job title and rebuild from the ground up. She talks about the mentors who shaped her, the grandfather whose words became the title of her book, and the mission behind Rising Tides Foundation's new project: converting an Airstream into a traveling salon to bring free haircuts, dignity, and hope to people going through hard seasons. The conversation closes with Lori's honest reflections on faith, forgiveness, and being available to anyone walking through their own uncertainty. Connect with Lori: • Facebook: Lori Pfeiffer Murphy • Instagram: @lpfeiffer1971 • Book: Today Is the First Day of the Rest of Your Life — available on Amazon Key Topics & Timestamps • [00:02:00] How all of Lori's roles connect back to one purpose: serving others • [00:04:00] Getting let go from her director-track path at Aveda after her pride got in the way • [00:05:00] A second job loss during COVID-19 and the identity crisis that followed • [00:07:00] The pivot into real estate, title, and becoming a broker — choosing to determine her own income • [00:10:00] Her "why" — raising three children as a single mom and modeling that you don't stay in failure • [00:13:00] First steps for anyone in the middle of uncertainty — prayer, quiet, and gratitude • [00:15:00] Rediscovering herself through solo walks, journaling, and doing things alone • [00:17:00] Using business — title work and real estate — as a platform to serve, not just earn • [00:19:00] The Daymaker story and why compassion matters even when you don't know what someone is carrying • [00:21:00] The mentors who shaped her — her friend Julie at Aveda and her brother's honest feedback • [00:24:00] The moment she stopped chasing a title and started defining success on her own terms • [00:25:00] Rising Tides Foundation — its mission, past fundraisers, and the new Airstream traveling salon project Resources & Links Mentioned • Lori's book: Today Is the First Day of the Rest of Your Life (Amazon) • Michelle's book: Courageously You: Seven Simple Frameworks to Create the Life You Love — amazon.com/dp/B0H5717G3D • michellethompsoncoaching.com [http://michellethompsoncoaching.com] — book a call with Michelle Episode CTA Subscribe on YouTube, and if you're ready to start living your next chapter, head to michellethompsoncoaching.com [http://michellethompsoncoaching.com] to book a call with Michelle.

I Didn't Even Know What Pie I Liked: A Mom's Journey Back to Herself, Her Comeback with Audra Phelps

Episode Overview What happens when the life you built around someone else's blueprint stops fitting who you are? In this deeply moving episode of Her Comeback, Michelle sits down with Audra Phelps — coach, former Mormon mom, and founder of the RECLAIMED program — connecting across the globe from Southwest Florida to Southeast Asia. Audra shares her extraordinary story of leaving a high-demand religion after 13 years, rebuilding her identity across two continents, and creating a coaching program to help other mothers do the same. This conversation is raw, real, and full of insight for any woman who has ever felt like a stranger in her own life. Audra Phelps is an NLP and neuroscience-based life coach who specializes in supporting former Mormon mothers as they reclaim their identity, redefine their parenting, and rebuild their lives after leaving a high-demand religion. What You'll Hear in This Episode * The slow erosion of a life that didn't fit. Audra describes the years she spent inside the Mormon church doing everything "right" while suffering from debilitating panic attacks and depression. * How moving overseas became the catalyst. Leaving the United States and relocating to Kazakhstan gave Audra something she had never experienced * Learning who she wasn't — and then who she was. After making the decision to leave the church, Audra knew clearly who she was not, but rebuilding a sense of self from the ground up was a longer, more tender process. * Parenting as the motivator. Audra's greatest fear after leaving was: how do I raise my kids without the blueprint? That fear became her fuel. * The word that changed everything: RECLAIMED. Audra explains why this word sits at the heart of her coaching practice. * The apple pie moment. Eight years after leaving the church, Audra found herself making an apple pie from scratch for Thanksgiving — resentful, exhausted, and realizing she didn't even like apple pie. * What self-trust actually looks like. Audra describes a woman who has done this work as someone who can observe without engagement * The NLP framework behind the work. Audra breaks down Neuro-Linguistic Programming in plain language RECLAIMED is Audra's signature 8-week intensive coaching program designed specifically for former Mormon moms. The program includes a guided curriculum, group coaching, and one-on-one coaching calls Connect with Audra Phelps 🌐 Website & Free Masterclass: mamaaudra.com [http://mamaaudra.com] 📲 Social Media: @MamaAudra on all platforms Visit the website to access Audra's free masterclass and schedule a discovery call to explore whether the RECLAIMED program is the right fit for you. From Michelle: "Courageously You: Seven Simple Frameworks to Create the Life You Love" is available now on Amazon. 📚 Get the book: amazon.com/dp/B0H5717G3D [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0H5717G3D] 🎙️ Schedule your call with Michelle: https://www.michellethompsoncoaching.com/contact [https://www.michellethompsoncoaching.com/contact]

What Does It Mean to Age with Purpose? Her Comeback with Robin Kencel

What Does It Mean to Age with Purpose? | Robin Kencel What if the next chapter of your life isn't about reinventing yourself — but rediscovering who you were always meant to be? In this rich conversation, Michelle sits down with Robin Kencel — certified spiritual director, seven-time Pro-Am ballroom champion, hospice volunteer, and the voice behind the Substack Aging with Purpose. Robin brings wisdom earned across six careers, a pageant stage, a broken foot, and a pilgrimage to Lourdes — and she's not slowing down at 68. In this episode, you'll hear: * What spiritual direction actually is (and why it's not therapy or Bible study) * Why midlife is such a powerful turning point — and what happens when the roles that defined us start to fall away * The biggest lie women tell themselves after 50 ("I'm too old") — and how to rewrite it * How to begin listening to your inner life again, starting with the practice of stillness * The difference between reinventing yourself and rediscovering who you were made to be * Why women over 50 feel invisible — and why Robin refuses to hand that power over * How improv acting gave Robin unexpected confidence — and what that means for you * The one habit-building strategy Robin swears by (hint: James Clear would agree) Robin's challenge to you: Start with a list. What are your non-negotiables? What did you love as a child? What's one thing that's been quietly calling you? Then do a little bit of that thing — every single day. Connect with Robin Kencel: 🌐 robinkencel.com [http://robinkencel.com] 📧 Substack: Aging with Purpose 📱 Social: @robinkencel Episode Sponsor This episode is sponsored by author Patti Brown. You may remember Patti from Season 1 — she left quite an impression, and for good reason. https://youtu.be/xXHI7_0SNpo?si=TCY99pVK67vP45Co [https://youtu.be/xXHI7_0SNpo?si=TCY99pVK67vP45Co] 📖 The Quiet Voice — A collection of personal essays about struggling with addiction and finding a way out, not through force, but by learning to follow that quiet inner voice we all carry. A feel-good story of overcoming, gratitude, and hope. 👉 https://a.co/d/0eymx9c8 [https://a.co/d/0eymx9c8] 🐢 Lola and the Sea Turtle — Patti's beautiful children's book, perfect for the little ones in your life. 👉 https://a.co/d/0gzOmlcZ [https://a.co/d/0gzOmlcZ] Look her up. You'll be glad you did. Courageously You: Seven Simple Frameworks to Create the Life You Love by Michelle Thompson is available on Amazon starting June 25th. Mark your calendar, set a reminder, and share it with a friend who needs it. 📍 hercomebackpodcast.com [http://hercomebackpodcast.com]

The Hidden Cost of Success - Her Comeback with Kellie Grutko

Episode Notes: Her Comeback with Kellie Grutko In this episode, Michelle sits down with Kellie Grutko, founder of Purposeful Pivot and a North Carolina–based coach for women navigating "post-success reinvention." After 30+ years in corporate marketing, Kellie shares the moment she realized success had become its own trap—and what she now calls "post-success drift," the slow disconnect between external achievement and internal direction. What you'll learn: * The "hidden cost of success" — why doing everything right can still leave you feeling stuck, and why no one checks in once you've "made it" * How to recognize drift even when life looks great on paper (Sunday scaries, fading motivation, pulling back from people and projects) * Why reinvention doesn't mean starting over — it means using the skills and wisdom you've already built toward something new * Kellie's PIVOT framework: Prepare your mindset, Identity exploration, Vision crafting, Opportunity mapping, Tailoring your path * The difference between burnout and a true pivot signal * Why confidence comes after action, not before — and how small steps build momentum * A simple two-column exercise to identify what brings you joy (and what doesn't) * Kellie's free "Hidden Cost of Success" assessment Memorable moment: Kellie shares a story about a client so steeped in corporate language she couldn't answer a simple question for herself — until Kellie asked her to imagine she'd never worked there at all. Connect with Kellie: Website: purposefulpivot.net [http://purposefulpivot.net] (free assessment on the resources page) Email: Kellieg@purposefulpivot.net [Kellieg@purposefulpivot.net] LinkedIn: Kellie Grutko A note from Michelle: Courageously You officially launches June 25th on Amazon! If today's conversation resonated, the book goes even deeper into frameworks like this one—with stories, reflection questions, and tools to actually do the work. Sign up for updates at hercomebackpodcast.com [http://hercomebackpodcast.com] so you're first to know when it drops.

Scooping Her Way to Freedom: From Corporate Project Manager to Full-Time Entrepreneur — Her Comeback with Gayle Todd

https://hercomebackpodcast.com/ [https://hercomebackpodcast.com/] Episode Overview In this episode, Michelle sits down with Gayle Todd, a Southwest Florida resident and kindred spirit, who spent decades as a software analyst and project manager for her county government — and then, at 62, quietly planted a brand-new flag. Gayle launched a pet waste removal franchise, Scoop Soldiers, as a side business while still holding down her corporate job, and two and a half years later, she's walking out the door with over 200 customers, her own territory, and retirement plans that start with running, not resting. This conversation is packed with honest talk about fear, identity shifts, asking for help, and what it really takes to build something from scratch when everyone else might expect you to coast. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to start — Gayle's answer is a clear, joyful no. Key Topics Covered From Bored to Bold: The Moment Everything Changed Gayle didn't have a dramatic wake-up call — she had a slow burn. A decade after earning her master's, she found herself restless and concerned about spending another ten years in the same seat. That quiet dissatisfaction was the spark that sent her searching for something of her own. Why a Franchise — and Why This One With a love of animals and the reality of a full-time job, Gayle needed something she could run nights and weekends without building infrastructure from scratch. After six months to nearly a year of rigorous due diligence — interviewing three competing franchises — she chose Scoop Soldiers for one reason above all: they were a true partner, not just a franchisor. The Cost of Building Two Lives at Once Gayle is refreshingly honest about what those first two and a half years actually required — nights, weekends, burned personal time, a life partner who showed up to her events just so they could spend time together, and a moment, about a year in, when she nearly handed the keys back to the franchise owner. What pulled her through? Asking for help — the hardest thing she's ever done. Shifting Identity: From Employee to Owner After decades of building someone else's vision, stepping into ownership felt like freedom — and a little like standing at the edge of a cliff. Gayle talks about how corporate restructuring, salary caps, and position demotions were the final push she needed to stop waiting and start moving. The Myth That Entrepreneurship Has an Age Limit At nearly 65, Gayle is proof that "too late" is a story we tell ourselves. She shares the advice that changed her perspective on going back for her master's — and it applies just as powerfully to starting a business: you're going to be that age anyway. Wouldn't you rather have something to show for it? Asking for Help as a Comeback Strategy Gayle's biggest comeback moment wasn't a win — it was hitting a wall. Staffing issues, routing problems, a business that felt out of control. Her breakthrough came when she finally called her franchise support team and said, "I need help." The lesson she carries forward: ego is the enemy of progress, and the right mentors will show up when we're ready to receive them. Connect with Gayle Todd Website: scoopsoldiers.com [http://scoopsoldiers.com] Email: gayletodd@scoopsoldiers.com [gailtodd@scoopsoldiers.com] Host Michelle Thompson's book Courageously You: Seven Simple Frameworks to Create The Life You Love launches June 25!