How to Raise Rich Kids

The 6 Phases of Wealth Expansion

There is a moment that predictably, reliably happens before every big financial leap in your life. You are standing in front of a financial decision that once felt impossibly far away, the dream that was once just a seed in your heart finally about to be made manifest in the world... and instead of feeling confident, you feel terrified. The woman doubling her rates when she's fully booked feels it. The woman buying her first investment property feels it. The woman interviewing tax strategists, restructuring assets, and making multi-million-dollar decisions feels it. The numbers change. But the 6 Phases of Wealth Expansion remain the same across every cycle leading up to your next Financial Leap. Because every new level of wealth introduces a new level of complexity, responsibility, and uncertainty. In this episode, I'm breaking down The 6 Phases of Wealth Expansion—a framework for understanding the wildly predictable cycle that accompanies every major financial leap. Whether you're investing your first $10,000 or navigating the sale of your company for a cool 9 figures, you'll learn: --the intelligence of your fear and how to work with it as a partner that helps you --how sophisticated women acclimate to increasing levels of wealth --why we actively want to allow uncertainty and its role in expanding our wealth --and how to become the woman who can confidently and easefully expand into your next big wealth milestone The fear doesn't disappear as your wealth grows. The object of the fear simply changes. And learning to navigate the Wealth Expansion Cycle will be one of the most important wealth-building skills you'll ever develop.For women looking for support in expanding into the $1-3 million net worth level you can head here to apply for private mentorship with me: https://houseofarete.com/services [https://houseofarete.com/services] To dive deeper into my essays and audio drops on Apex Woman living head here to subscribe to my Substack: https://houseofarete.substack.com/ [https://houseofarete.substack.com/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit houseofarete.substack.com [https://houseofarete.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

How to Raise Rich Kids

You know what nobody tells you about being first generation wealthy? At some point, after the investments and the success and the “we can finally breathe” part… you realize the next challenge isn’t making more money. It’s figuring out how not to accidentally not ruin your children because of it. Which sounds dramatic, but the research consistently shows that affluent kids struggle MORE with anxiety, depression, perfectionism, and substance abuse than the average. (Not exactly the brochure we got...) In this episode, I'm surfacing the hidden emotional and cultural patterns that often emerge inside affluence:pressure to achieve, emotional disconnection, entitlement, drift, and the quiet loss of meaning that can happen when survival is no longer necessary. Drawing from research on affluent adolescents, intergenerational wealth studies, and the recurring rise-and-fall cycles seen in both families and civilizations, this conversation asks a deeper question: How do we preserve the virtues that created the wealth… while releasing the suffering? We explore: --why 70% of wealthy families lose wealth by the second generation --what research reveals about thriving affluent families --the two root causes of why affluent children often struggle (and what to do about it) --how to raise children who aren't entitled but rather grounded, capable, connected, and emotionally secure inside financial affluence --and why family story, meaning, and contribution matter more than most people realize This episode is about the deeper art of creating generational wealth:not merely creating successful children… but raising human beings capable of holding wealth, love, responsibility, beauty, freedom, and power well. Because money is just a very small part of what your children will inherit. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit houseofarete.substack.com [https://houseofarete.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Cycle Breakers: The Power of Changing Your Family's Future

I recently stood in a graveyard in Croatia surrounded by generations of people who carried my mother's maiden name. Hundreds of years in the same small port town.Ships coming in and out, and my family the men that worked them.The same life. And 100 years ago, at 15 years old, my great-grandfather left. He crossed an ocean as a boy and became a man in America, creating an entirely different future for the generations that came after him. I’ve been thinking about that ever since. About the people in our families who make decisions that change EVERYTHING for the generations that follow. The quiet, extraordinary power of the person who decides:My children will not endure or experience what I have. In this conversation, we explore what it actually means to become a cycle breaker:not just financially… but emotionally, relationally, spiritually, and energetically. As the first generation creating wealth it comes with a unique history that lives in our bodies: --stress about money --parents constantly working --emotional volatility in the home --scarcity, addiction, chaos, or survival mode You know what it feels like to inherit a nervous system shaped around enduring life instead of fully living it. This episode is about becoming the person who changes the trajectory of what gets passed down. The woman who: --builds extraordinary wealth without burnout --creates deep love and intimacy without contracting, rupturing, or wanting chaos in relationships --experiences success without losing connection to her heart and spiritual depth --turns survival into thriving You are not here to merely continue your family’s patterns. If you choose to, you become the one who changes what becomes possible for everyone who comes after you. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit houseofarete.substack.com [https://houseofarete.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

The Upper Limit on Receiving (You Didn't Know You Had)

I realized I had a receiving ceiling on Mother’s Day. Somewhere between the Chanel earrings and the Louis Vuitton bag—my fourth gift of the day—I felt my body tighten… and briefly wondered if I should ask my husband to return it. Which didn’t make sense. I understand our finances. We invest millions. I know exactly what we can “afford.” And still—being given to like that…being loved with that level of care, attention, and ease— felt like too much. But this feeling isn’t new— I’ve seen it wear a hundred different costumes in a million different ways for me and my clients. It often looks like: * when a client pays in full and it feels almost uncomfortable * when money comes in easily and you start questioning it or feel like “it doesn’t count” somehow * when you hesitate to hire help, even though you can afford it * when you deflect attention, love, or support * when things start working, flowing, expanding… and your body responds by contracting because it’s “too much” Different situations. Same pattern. An upper limit on your capacity to receive. And if you don’t see this, it will quietly cap everything—your income, your ease, your relationships, your love, your wealth, your ability to feel fully supported. Because the problem isn’t that there isn’t enough available to us. The problem is all the ways we’ve learned—subtly, over time—to contract, resist, and stop the constant stream of goodness that is wanting to flow in. We feel this acutely as first-generation wealthy women. We were taught how to work for everything and we grew up in households where scarcity was our lived experience. So we learned how to earn.We learned how to prove.We learned how to carry it all, be the strong one, and break barriers with our will and grit. But we were never taught how to: * let money be easy * let support hold us * let love land without deflecting it * let life expand to the true Heaven on Earth frequency that is our birthright In this episode, I take you inside the upper limit on receiving—the invisible threshold that determines how much wealth, ease, love, and goodness you’ll actually allow into your life. We break down: * why receiving can feel harder than earning * the subconscious beliefs that create the “this is too much” response * how this shows up at every level—from your first $10K month to multi-millions And most importantly— I walk you through a tangible mind–body–spirit process to expand your capacity in real time, so you can stop tightening around the very things you say you want. Because the truth is: More is trying to reach you. And somewhere along the way, you learned to block and upper limit the field of abundance. And the next level of your life? It will not require more effort— you mastered that level, got the blue ribbon, and graduated from that version of life. Your next level will simply require you to let more in, and we’re diving deep into the art of that today. Craving support on your journey? Head here [https://houseofarete.com/services] to explore options, from VIP Days to longer term private mentorship. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit houseofarete.substack.com [https://houseofarete.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Turned On Women Build Better Lives

Most women are trying to build a life they love… from spreadsheets, self-help mantras, and a conditioned to be overachieving way of relating to their goals and life. And then they wonder why it all feels a little… beige. A little “this looks right on paper but why do I want to burn it down and move to Bali??" This episode is about the thing no one taught you to trust: your desire. Specifically-- how to tune into and follow the wisdom of your pussy. Not the watered-down, socially acceptable version.Not the “I’d be happy with whatever” version. The real one.The inconvenient one.The one that makes your body lean forward before your brain can approve it. Because if your life doesn’t turn you on…another strategy, vacation, or retreat isn't going to fix it. It’s because you built it without eros. In this episode, we’re dismantling the myth that your pussy is “just for sex” (honestly, who approved that rebrand?) and reclaiming it as what it actually is: -your source of aliveness-your compass for desire-your access point to creation, wealth, and a life that feels like something You’ll learn: — why living from your mind creates success that feels like a chore— why living from your heart feels beautiful… but often lacks edge and direction— what eros actually is (hint: it’s not just sexual, it’s the pulse of life itself)— how to move from desire → power → love → strategy (instead of starting with a 5-year plan and a prayer)This is for the woman who has done everything “right”… …who has "it all on paper" but doesn't feel tuned in and turned on by her own life. A life with texture.With heat.With pull. A life where her desire doesn’t get negotiated down to something reasonable… but expanded into something extraordinary. Press play if you’re ready to start creating a life that feels better than a five star resort on a random Tuesday. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit houseofarete.substack.com [https://houseofarete.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]