Sex, Seltzers and Things We Should’ve Asked First

Sex, Seltzers and Things We Should’ve Asked First

Welcome to the premiere episode of In Bed With Sangya Season 2, where we talk pleasure, play, and everything in between. This one’s all about consent — not just as a checklist, but as a culture.In this episode, Aashish, Shweta, and Tanisha unpack the subtleties of asking for consent in intimate situations. Because let’s be honest: it’s easy to say “consent matters,” but how do you actually make it feel easy, sexy, and real in the moment? What if you’re nervous, unsure, or trying to keep the mood light? And what happens when alcohol is in the mix?To explore this, the hosts play a game. Each person presents a scenario where consent is often ignored, assumed, or awkwardly handled. The other two must find a way to ask for it—lightly, clearly, and sexily—while also being okay with a "no." The catch? They’re sipping on IST hard seltzers the whole time, and as the drinks flow, so does the chaos. The sharper lines get blurrier, the responses get messier, and the scenarios get harder to navigate.Because that’s the point: alcohol complicates consent, even in the safest of spaces.Through slurred words, giggles, and stumbles, this episode reveals how challenging it can be to maintain clarity, respect, and playfulness when your inhibitions start to lower—even with people you trust deeply.So, whether you’re exploring new dynamics, redefining boundaries, or just want to know how to make consent feel less intimidating and more natural, this episode is for you.🍑 Flirty. Funny. Fuzzy. But always honest.Watch, laugh, learn. And maybe rethink what makes consent sexy.About Sangya Project:Founded by a queer and poly family, Sangya Project is India’s first manufacturer of intimacy products for all desi bodies. Sangya aims to create destigmatised, trauma-informed and kink-affirmative education that continuously makes room for new stories and new perspectives— where your needs will always come first.Links:Websites: Sangya Project: www.sangyaproject.comIST Hard Seltzer: https://www.drinkist.in/Sangya Project Insta: https://www.instagram.com/sangyaproject IST Hard Seltzer Insta: https://www.instagram.com/drink.ist/Sangya Project Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/sangyaproject Tanisha RK Insta: https://www.instagram.com/sharkhootery Aashish M Insta: https://www.instagram.com/agnibankai

Choosing Strap Ons and Screwing Up

On this episode of In Bed With Sangya, Aashish and Tanisha revisit their first memory of using a strap on together. Watch them open up about their mistakes, their insecurities and fears together and the importance of asking yourself and your partner some difficult questions before buying your first strap. Join them as they ask each other why they wanted to try a strap-on in the first place, what it meant to them as individuals and as a couple, and how they customised pleasure to better serve their needs and designed Sangya’s first ever Made in India product– the S6 Strap On. About In Bed With Sangya: Born from the queer and polyamorous family that founded pleasure brand Sangya Project, In Bed With Sangya is their vibrant attempt at making sense of sex, pleasure, BDSM, relationships and intimacy through their own lived experiences and yours. New episode out every Monday. Links: website: https://www.sangyaproject.com Sangya Project Insta: https://www.instagram.com/sangyaproject/ Sangya Project Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SangyaProject/ Tanisha RK Insta: https://www.instagram.com/sharkhootery/ Aashish M Insta: https://www.instagram.com/agnibankai/

Why is BDSM confused with mental health issues? Ft. Khushboo Bist

Khushboo Bist takes control of the Sangya bed! Aashish and Tanisha break away from their usual podcast format and invite intimacy coach and sex educator Khushboo to play host. Armed with fantastic questions from her own audience and communities, Khushboo grills your favourite Kink Educators and Doms at Sangya to dispel myths on BDSM and explore what it really means for intimacy, mental health and love. Together, they uncover what about BDSM is hot, and everything that's... not. Join them as they talk about how vanilla sex can be just as risky as BDSM play and how playing with kinks that are right for you can help build intimacy, connection and confidence.

BDSM in India: Who is it for and how do people try it?

What does the BDSM community in India look like? Are we just inspired by the West or do we have our own desi contexts and identities that lead us to the world of dominance, submission and bondage too? Aashish and Tanisha speak with Blue, an active member of India's BDSM community and subreddits, where kink has long been alive, thriving and rapidly growing into more. TW: This episode contains mentions of consent violations, CNC and fluid play. Discretion is advised.

Porn Addiction & Masturbation: How Much Is Too much?

Sangya goes Live! We recorded a Live AMA on Instagram where you asked us questions on sex, BDSM, swinging, cuckolding, pegging, addictions, porn and so much more! Here's Part 1 where Aashish and Tanisha look at the differences between high libido and addictions, and the big wide world of porn.