98. The Lie of Perfectionism (and Why It's Keeping You Stuck)

101. How to live for Jesus in a self-focused world with Morgan Krueger

In this episode of the Inner Revival podcast, Monika Kirkland interviews Morgan, who shares her journey of faith, writing, and the importance of magnifying God over ourselves. They discuss the cultural pressures women face, the anxiety stemming from a me-focused society, and the transformative power of surrendering to God. Morgan emphasizes the need for community, confession, and the healing that comes from being known. The conversation culminates in a heartfelt prayer for listeners seeking freedom from shame and anxiety. Takeaways: * Cultural pressures lead to anxiety and a me-focused mindset. * Transformation comes from presence and surrender to God. * The cycle of seeking fulfillment in external achievements is unending. * Surrendering to God leads to true freedom and peace. * Community and confession are vital for healing from shame. * God's covering is better than our own attempts to hide. * We must rely on the Holy Spirit in our daily lives. * True freedom is found in knowing and being known by others. CONNECT WITH MORGAN Her Instagram: @morganwkrueger [https://www.instagram.com/morganwkrueger/] Her Website: www.morgankrueger.com [https://www.morgankrueger.com/links?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGn-Ee3FuBTjgVFKoK7P3m8TM1n3ivN6-6SUuQhgffrxxJtnTHG6wR8slLPFa0_aem_RDoyLlJn_5N_AHE0vrpvxQ] Her Book: Made To Magnify [https://amzn.to/3Rva7Ag] CONNECT WITH MONIKA The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE [https://linktr.ee/monikakirkland?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeL9qUo2tsZfPje_SvJ8F6AqI5ADb3cgzZdDNaTbtd3DMtsNCUXpC7-U-P08w_aem_jB5S_-Y6Jl-yWmtJNbyQOg]

100. What Faithful but Flawed Mothers Teach Us About Parenting with Rhonda Stoppe

In this heartfelt conversation, Monika Kirkland and Rhonda Stoppe explore the challenges and joys of motherhood, emphasizing the importance of mentorship, grace, and learning from the flawed yet faithful mothers in the Bible. Rhonda shares her personal experiences with mom guilt, the significance of repentance, and the need for older women to guide younger mothers. The discussion highlights the transformative power of vulnerability and the impact of spiritual growth on parenting. Takeaways: * Many moms feel stuck in a cycle of guilt and shame. * Guilt doesn't empower change; it keeps us stuck. * Older women can provide invaluable mentorship to younger moms. * Flawed mothers in the Bible offer relatable lessons. * Repentance is key to modeling grace for our children. * Motherhood is a sacred ministry that shapes future generations. * The mundane aspects of motherhood are significant. * Forgiveness is essential in family dynamics. * We need to lean into grace after making mistakes. * Every mother has the potential to influence the next generation. CONNECT WITH RHONDA Her Instagram: @rhondastoppe [https://www.instagram.com/rhondastoppe] Her Website: www.rhondastoppe.com [https://www.rhondastoppe.com] Her Latest Book: Moms Of The Bible [https://amzn.to/3P7jjKw] CONNECT WITH MONIKA The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE [https://linktr.ee/monikakirkland?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeL9qUo2tsZfPje_SvJ8F6AqI5ADb3cgzZdDNaTbtd3DMtsNCUXpC7-U-P08w_aem_jB5S_-Y6Jl-yWmtJNbyQOg]

99. Turning Pain Into Purpose: Writing, Worship, and Real-Life Testimonies with Linda Kozar

In this episode of the Inner Revival podcast, Monika Kirkland engages in a heartfelt conversation with Linda, exploring the intertwining of life experiences and the art of writing. They discuss the challenges of writing both fiction and nonfiction, the importance of prayer and community during trials, and the transformative power of worship. The conversation emphasizes the significance of sharing personal testimonies and the authority gained through overcoming hardships, ultimately encouraging listeners to hold onto God's promises during difficult times. Takeaways: * Prayer is essential for discernment during hardships and spiritual warfare. * Community support is vital in overcoming personal struggles and hardships. * Worship can be a powerful tool for lifting spirits during difficult times. * Sharing testimonies can provide hope and encouragement to others. * Experiencing trials can lead to a sense of authority in prayer. * Praying scripture can be a lifeline during challenging seasons. CONNECT WITH LINDA Her Instagram: @lindakozar [https://www.instagram.com/lindakozar/] Her Website: www.lindakozar.com [https://www.lindakozar.com] Her Books [https://www.lindakozar.com/books.html] CONNECT WITH MONIKA The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE [https://linktr.ee/monikakirkland?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeL9qUo2tsZfPje_SvJ8F6AqI5ADb3cgzZdDNaTbtd3DMtsNCUXpC7-U-P08w_aem_jB5S_-Y6Jl-yWmtJNbyQOg]

98. The Lie of Perfectionism (and Why It's Keeping You Stuck)

In this episode of the Inner Revival podcast, Monika Kirkland discusses the themes of perfectionism and self-hatred, exploring how these issues manifest in our lives and the freedom that can be found in Christ. She shares personal anecdotes and insights on how the pursuit of perfection can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-loathing, and emphasizes the importance of understanding our worth through God's love rather than societal validation. The conversation also touches on the dangers of comparison and the need for self-acceptance and healing through faith. Takeaways: * Perfectionism often stems from a fear of rejection. * The pursuit of perfection can lead to self-hatred. * Validation from others is fleeting and unreliable. * God's love is unconditional and transformative. * Comparison can lead to envy and discontent. * True worth comes from our identity in Christ. * Healing requires acknowledging our imperfections. * Celebrating others can foster a spirit of gratitude. * Freedom in Christ allows us to let go of self-loathing. * Encountering God's love is essential for inner revival. CONNECT WITH MONIKA The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE [https://linktr.ee/monikakirkland?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeL9qUo2tsZfPje_SvJ8F6AqI5ADb3cgzZdDNaTbtd3DMtsNCUXpC7-U-P08w_aem_jB5S_-Y6Jl-yWmtJNbyQOg]

97. I Asked Why God Allowed Pain And Suffering (Here's Four Things I Found)

In this episode of the Inner Revival podcast, Monika Kirkland shares her personal struggles with illness and the challenges of suffering. She delves into the theological questions surrounding suffering and evil, exploring the concept of theodicy and the role of free will. Monika emphasizes that suffering can arise from personal choices, the actions of others, and the influence of evil forces. Ultimately, she reassures listeners of God's presence and goodness amidst suffering, encouraging them to trust in His plan of redemption. Takeaways: * Suffering is a common human experience that everyone faces. * Theodicy is the defense of God's goodness in light of suffering. * Sin has generational consequences that affect many. * God is present with us in our suffering. CONNECT WITH MONIKA The best way to connect with me is on Instagram but if you're looking for any of my Resources, Books, Booking Info, or Mailing list you can find all of that here as well! LINK TREE [https://linktr.ee/monikakirkland?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeL9qUo2tsZfPje_SvJ8F6AqI5ADb3cgzZdDNaTbtd3DMtsNCUXpC7-U-P08w_aem_jB5S_-Y6Jl-yWmtJNbyQOg]