06 Leading With Your Whole Self with Kristjan Mathiesen

07 Looking back to Pause and Reflect with Host, Meenakshi Iyer

What our six guests have taught us about Humanity, AI, and Leading at the Messy Middle In this special retrospective episode, I, your host, Meenakshi Iyer, am inviting you to pause and reflect, to take in, and synthesize the biggest insights from our first six conversations on this podcast. In the American philosopher John Dewey's words, "We do not learn from experience...we learn from reflecting on experience." This episode weaves together the most powerful themes shared by our six previous guests: Padmini Nidumolu, Meshia Adams, Shreya Kaushik, Dr. Elena Bozylinski, Leanna Holmquist, and Kristján G. Mathiesen. The bottom line? The messy middle is where leadership is being redefined — and its leaders are rising to meet the moment. In an AI‑enabled world, it’s these leaders in middle management who are the most equipped to connect strategy, context, people, and performance. Six recurring themes: * the invisible emotional labor middle leaders carry every day * why empathy, trust, and authenticity are becoming strategic leadership skills * how clarity, context, and communication shape team culture * what AI is changing — and what it never will * the role of identity, culture, and lived experience in how we lead * the courage it takes to grow, evolve, and lead through ambiguity 🎧 Listen in for a thoughtful and inspiring look back — and a powerful reminder the messy middle is where true leadership is!   Connect with me on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenakshi-iyer-northstar/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenakshi-iyer-northstar/]  Learn more about NorthStar Solutions and Services LLC - https://www.northstaratwork.com/ [https://www.northstaratwork.com/]

06 Leading With Your Whole Self with Kristjan Mathiesen

Meet Kristján G. Mathiesen (KGM), an "Icelander living in the States", an innovative tech leader who prioritizes being genuinely human in this AI-first world! He leads with humor, empathy, and curiosity to connect with people and help them feel confident in technology. His love for teamwork shapes how he shows up at work and in life. These are 3 of the many remarkable Kristján shares in his usual unassuming and authentic manner: 1. Being genuinely human is a leadership superpower. Kristján’s biggest turning point was realizing he couldn’t “play the manager.” The moment he stopped performing and started showing up as his real, imperfect, human self, trust deepened and relationships transformed. 2. Context, culture, and connection shape how people work. Having lived across Iceland, the UK, and the US, Kristján brings wide‑angle empathy to global teams. He sees how culture, identity, and background influence expectations—and why genuine curiosity and connection matter more than ever. 3. Empathy takes energy - and it makes all the difference! Being human at work takes energy. Emotional presence doesn’t clock out at 5 PM. But when teams reciprocate with trust, humor, and openness, they create the kind of culture people want to stay in—especially in an AI-driven workplace.   Connect with Kristjan - https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristjanmathiesen/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristjanmathiesen/]  Connect with me - https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenakshi-iyer-northstar/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenakshi-iyer-northstar/]  Learn more about NorthStar Solutions and Services LLC - Unpacking Leadership™ at the "Messy Middle" [https://www.northstaratwork.com/]

05 'Staying frosty' in the age of AI with Leanna Holmquist

Meet Leanna Holmquist, an intuitive product leader shaping how humans and intelligent systems communicate and is passionate about making AI actually usable by humans. She specializes in AI enablement, product ownership, and NLP behavior modeling, blending technical depth with a sharp instinct for language and user experience. In this powerhouse of an episode, 1. Don’t Let AI “happen to you" - "stay frosty"! Leanna’s core message is that AI is reshaping work, but leaders - especially in the messy middle - should not be passive recipients of that change. Instead, they should stay curious, experiment thoughtfully, and understand where AI can genuinely help their teams. “Don’t let AI be a thing that happens to you… stay curious, stay frosty.” 2. Middle Managers are more essential than ever; AI doesn’t replace the human layer Despite headlines predicting the collapse of middle management, Leanna emphasizes that AI cannot replace the human-centered leadership functions that managers provide - psychological safety, context-setting, coaching, and navigating resistance. “Middle managers bring something AI never will… psychological safety… knowing when teams are overwhelmed.” AI may automate coordination tasks, but the orchestration layer - the glue that turns strategy into outcomes - remains deeply human. 3. Successful AI adoption is a cultural transformation, not a technical one Leanna stresses that most digital transformations fail not because of technology, but because of people. AI adoption requires clear guardrails, ongoing enablement, and constant feedback loops - not just tool access. “Technology alone does not transform organizations - people do.” Connect with Leanna on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/leanna-h/] Connect with me on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenakshi-iyer-northstar/] Learn more about NorthStar Solutions and Services LLC [https://www.northstaratwork.com/]

04 Being a lifelong learner with Dr. Elena Bozylinksi

Meet Dr. Elena Bozylinski, a highly accomplished, cross-functional Program Management Leader, who is the epitome of leader being a lifelong learner. In this episode, Elena shares how she went from technical roles to program leadership, revealing how continuous learning, and leading with emotional intelligence and influence, have shaped her career trajectory. These are three main takeaways from this conversation: 1. Lifelong learning is a career accelerant — especially when done intentionally Elena's journey from technical roles to program leadership, an MBA, a PMP, and ultimately an EdD (while raising two kids) reinforces a powerful message: continuous, structured learning opens doors. It helped her break ceilings, expand her career, and even step into teaching. Elena's story shows us how continuous learning is integral to career advancement and enrichment. 2. Leading in the “messy middle” is emotional labor, not just task-related labor Elena surfaces what most project and program managers feel but rarely name: the invisible work of coaching leaders, smoothing cross‑functional friction, and navigating politics without formal authority. Influence, trust, and emotional intelligence are the real engines of delivery. 3. AI is here — but humans stay in the loop Elena’s stance on AI is pragmatic: learn about AI from credible sources, follow discerning thought leaders, and stay curious. Don’t outsource your own judgment. Our job as leaders in middle management is to integrate AI thoughtfully and while keeping people and context at the center.

03 Isolating Signal from Noise with Shreya Kaushik

Meet Shreya Kaushik - a software engineer at heart, a working parent to a five‑year‑old, and a leader in middle management, navigating the challenge of isolating signal from noise, whether in corporate dynamics or the fast‑moving world of AI. In this episode, she shares grounded, insightful reflections in her trademark matter‑of‑fact style. 1. The “messy middle” is defined by invisible labor and competing pressures Shreya highlights what senior leaders often miss: mid‑level managers shoulder heavy operational work, emotional labor, and the constant task of translating expectations across the org. They juggle their own need for clarity and purpose alongside that of their teams, all while context‑switching and striving to lead with empathy. 2. Identity work and mentorship reshape how leaders show up Her experience in the Building My Runway program helped her release the pressure to influence and instead lead with self‑awareness, empathy, and grounded confidence. She now sees leadership less as “proving yourself” and more as “showing up with intention,” especially as a working parent who understands the emotional realities others carry. 3. Adaptability is the new leadership currency — especially in an AI‑driven world Moving across different cities in India, experiencing different languages and cultures, while growing up, built a resilience that now helps Shreya navigate rapid shifts in an AI-first workplace. That adaptability, she notes, is becoming essential for leaders at every level. Connect with Shreya on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/shreya-kaushik-79946b15/] Connect with me on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenakshi-iyer-northstar/] Learn more about NorthStar Solutions and Services LLC [https://www.northstaratwork.com/]