Triggers, Stories, and the Frames We Build around Them (Part 1)

Cleansing and Intimacy

Heyyyyy listeners!! Are you ready for a poop-filled episode of cleanse talk? Yea, we did a liver cleanse AND we decided to talk about how it affected our intimacy. HA! Who actually podcasts about cleansing and intimacy?! We do!! Enjoy and thanks for listening! WARNING- this episode talks about all kinds of body functions- pee. poop. cum and beyond!

Intimacy Playground FAIL ... So, What's Next?

HellO everyone! In THIS very intimate episode, Jim & I chat about how we feel we failed  by cancelling the Intimacy Playground Workshop (that sucks to admit) and what's next for us: invites. working with couples (singles or any variation) and how we want to BE in our community as a couple. Hope you enjoy this peek into our process of Figuring Shit Out. Enjoy and thanks for listening :)

Marriage, Monogamy, and Polyamory, Oh My!

Oh, this episode! Jim and I are just back from a desert trip, I'm hot and irritated (and feeling a lil outta practice- ha!) and we're talking about relationships :) There are soooo many ways to be in relationship- the key is communication (surprise surprise!!) We also share how WE define (or rather DON'T define) our relationship. Thanks for listening! Enjoy <3

Triggers, Stories, and the Frames We Build around Them (Part 2)

In Part 1 of this two episode podcast, we identified some of the ways we frame what's happening in our lives and relationships, and how this can sometimes cause problems for us. In this part, we continue the discussion and look for the origin of these stories, paying special attention to how we interpret our parents and our relationship with them. This is only one origin point of many, though we agree many of these stories come from deep in our past. We also discuss how to relate to each other knowing each other's triggers and frames, and end by discussing how much better things can be if you can get through it all.

Triggers, Stories, and the Frames We Build around Them (Part 1)

In the first episode of this two-part podcast, Dee Elle and I have an intense conversation related to the lens through which we interpret the world, what we call in this episode "frames," and how they influence us. For example, Dee Elle talks about what triggers her into sometimes feeling she is trapped and needs to run away. We talk in depth about that and other frames, and how they influence the ways we see everything in our lives, our relationships, and even how we interpret the lives of those we love.  I think these two episodes are among our very best so far, and we both hope you can relate.