Adult Friendships & New Kinks

The Trip Survival Guide

Pack your SPF, your delusion, and a backup credit card — because not everyone’s coming back friends. In this week’s episode of It’s Not That Serious, Sarah and Frankie break down everything that can go right (and mostly wrong) when you travel with a group. From accidentally becoming the dinner entertainment (and realizing men love a personality with seasoning) — to Frankie’s grand heist getting 8 men into a table like it’s Ocean’s Eight: But Make It Hot & Horny. They cover: Why spring and summer belong to the people with jokes, not just jawlines Club etiquette and why bringing a male plus-one is still a social felony The emotional stages of a summer situationship breakup (currently: toxic but tan) And of course, the ultimate Trip Survival Huddle — from roommate roulette, budgeting drama, late Venmos, to who’s not getting invited next time It’s chaotic. It’s real. It’s giving group chat with an emergency exit plan.

Grieving Like A Hot Mess: Losing A Parent In Your 20s

Nobody prepares you for grief—especially when you’re still figuring out how to do your taxes and deciding if you should be drinking oat milk or just accepting lactose intolerance. In this raw, messy, and painfully real episode, Sarah & Frankie get brutally honest about losing a parent in their 20s—the highs, the lows, the absolute crash-outs, and why grief doesn’t look like a Nicholas Sparks movie. Frankie & Sarah talk about: The shock of losing a parent while still feeling like a kid yourself. How grief sneaks up on you at the most random times (like in the checkout line at Trader Joe’s). The good, the bad, and the unhinged ways we cope (Is excessive online shopping therapy? Asking for a friend.) Why are we glad we’re dealing with it now rather than later—but also, WTF?! How people treat you differently after you lose a parent—the awkwardness, the weird pity, and the well-meaning but terrible things people say. Can you really "heal" from grief, or do you just get used to the pain? Whether you’ve lost a parent, are terrified of losing one, or just want to hear Frankie & Sarah spiral in real-time, this episode is a deep dive into grief, but with a little humor, a lot of honesty, and zero toxic positivity.

Adult Friendships & New Kinks

We talk about romantic breakups all the time—but what about friendship breakups? The ones that leave you spiraling, questioning your entire personality, and re-reading old texts like a detective? This week, Sarah & Frankie dive into the messy reality of friendships after 25—the slow fades, the sudden betrayals, and the awkward ‘we’re basically just mutuals now’ phase. But first—Frankie has discovered a new kink: getting kidnapped (not literally—calm down). He and Sarah keep finding themselves abducted by strangers and thrown into wild nights they never planned for. Then, we get into the real stuff: * Why friendship breakups hurt more than romantic ones * How to tell if a friendship is fading or just evolving * When to fight for it vs. let it go * The one friend breakup we’ll never get over * And why making new friends after 25 feels like applying for a job Grab your emotional baggage and let's talk about it!

New Year, Same Mess - But We’re Back

Guess who decided to finally clock back in? After ghosting the podcast since December (ooops), Sarah & Frankie are back with massive updates, unfiltered chaos, and the same questionable decision-making skills. Sarah turned 25, and let’s just say the birthday was so wild that she and Frankie have yet to return to the scene of the crime. Was there a health code violation? Did they actually end up working in the kitchen? Will the Better Business Bureau be in touch? All alleged. Meanwhile, Frankie has been spilling everyone else’s tea on TMZ Live, proving he has range - from reality tv scandals to launching his own sex toy line (yes, you heard that right). They also get real about the quarter-life crisis, feeling chronically behind, and why social media is making it worse. Plus, 2025 is officially starting now, because January was a trial period. The Plan? Less people- pleasing, more boundaries, and embracing their villain era. They’re even doing a people-please challenge where they say NO for a full week- what could possibly go wrong? Messy? Always. Entertaining? Absolutely. Back for good? TBD

Blank Profiles, Naughty Nights & Holiday Delights

It’s the season of giving… and Frankie’s giving naughty list energy. After being crowned “Most Likely to Be Naughty” at a holiday party, Frankie and Sarah unpack all the holiday chaos. From shocking Grindr reveals (the face behind that blank profile will leave you shook) to why everyone seems to be hooking up this time of year, they’ve got the seasonal tea. Plus, Frankie’s aura is setting off too much sexual energy, Sarah’s has men spinning the block, and they’re sharing the ultimate tips for gifting gifts and surviving “meet the parents” moments. Grab a glass of eggnog—this one’s stuffed with drama, laughs, and maybe a little coal. Make sure to rate and subscribe and follow us on our official Instagram page. Not That Serious Pod [https://www.instagram.com/notthatsrspod?igsh=cG1pZm1pbXd3ZDht] Sarah’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sarahhdavis__?igsh=NGYwOWE3OTRhenE0] Frankie’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/frankieendoondo/profilecard/?igsh=MXJ6ZjIza2x0eGxhbw==]