8 Tools to Survive and Thrive in a Modern Relationship

#43: The Reel That Broke The Internet (Part 1)

Tyler and Ashley sit down for the first of three podcast episodes to unpack the reel that sent the internet into a spiral — 90,000 views, 300 comments, nearly 1,000 shares, and a comment section that had already diagnosed, prescribed, and written their eulogy. In this first episode they give the backstory that a two-minute reel couldn't — eight years together, six years non-monogamous, a marriage last October, and now TTC. They talk about why they're not here to defend themselves, what the reel actually said vs. what people heard, and how they're sitting with a comment section full of projections without becoming defensive or dismissive. Raw, honest, and nothing like what the comments expected. Next episode: What actually happens if they get pregnant — does the relationship structure change? Plus the real logistics of navigating another dynamic while trying to conceive with your wife.

TRIAL BY FIRE: The story behind the book.

Tyler Ippoliti sat down with his wife and co-conspirator Ashley to talk about what it actually took to write Trial by Fire — and why he almost didn't publish it. In this episode: the burn that put him in the ICU for 24 days, the five years of living in an RV, plant medicine in the Sacred Valley, and how losing everything is what finally taught him who he was. Tyler breaks down the Hero's Journey arc of the book, why he believes most people are driving a car they never chose, and what it means to train yourself for what life is actually going to put you through. This isn't a self-help episode. It's a real conversation about initiation, identity death, community, and why the hardest experiences you'll ever go through might be the most necessary ones. Trial by Fire is available now here. [https://www.amazon.com/Trial-Fire-Purpose-Connection-Chaotic/dp/1968164324/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0#detailBullets_feature_div]

2025 Wins & Challenges + 2026 Goals & Dreams

Summary In this episode of Journey Doses, Ash and Ty reflect on their relationship over the past year, discussing their biggest wins and challenges as a couple. They candidly share insights from their journey, including their marriage, launching a new business, and navigating personal growth amidst relationship dynamics. The couple dives into the importance of vulnerability, communication, and the lessons learned from their experiences, emphasizing the significance of reflecting on their relationship to foster deeper connections. As they transition into planning for 2026, they outline their hopes for the future, including desires for more intimacy, adventure, and effective conflict resolution strategies. The conversation is both humorous and heartfelt, showcasing the couple's commitment to growth and understanding as they prepare for the next chapter in their lives, including the prospect of starting a family. They encourage listeners to engage in their own relationship reviews and share their experiences, highlighting the value of open communication and support in partnerships. Overall, this episode serves as a relatable and insightful exploration of love, growth, and the complexities of modern relationships. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Relationship Review 01:28 Biggest Wins of 2025 06:02 Challenges Faced as a Couple 12:09 Lessons Learned About Each Other 17:03 What We Avoided Talking About 20:08 What Made Us Feel Close 23:30 Creating Distance in Our Relationship 27:00 Communication and Conflict Resolution 31:32 Habits That Brought Out the Best in Us 33:38 Identifying Harmful Habits 36:01 Planning for a Nourishing Relationship 41:36 Establishing Boundaries for Fair Fighting 45:35 Creating Weekly Rituals for Connection 49:26 Dreaming Big: Future Goals Together 55:48 Personal Commitments for Growth 58:12 Navigating Conflict and Change Together

8 Tools to Survive and Thrive in a Modern Relationship

Summary In this episode, Ash and Ty discuss the tools and insights that have helped them survive and thrive in their relationship over the past seven and a half years. They explore foundational elements such as a growth mindset, shared intentions, effective communication, and the importance of individual passions. The conversation emphasizes the significance of curiosity, exploration, and the value of time apart in maintaining a healthy relationship. Takeaways Surviving a relationship requires tools, thoughts, beliefs, and values. A growth mindset is essential for personal and relational development. Both partners must be committed to their own growth for the relationship to thrive. Shared intentions create a strong foundation for navigating challenges together. Effective communication involves taking responsibility for one's own feelings. Understanding different dimensions of manifestation can enhance relationship alignment. MDMA can facilitate deeper conversations and emotional connection. Time apart allows individuals to maintain their identity and independence. Curiosity leads to exploration, which fosters growth in relationships. Pursuing individual passions is crucial for a fulfilling partnership. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Survival 03:22 Foundational Elements of a Thriving Relationship 11:13 The Importance of Language and Communication 17:03 Dimensions of Manifestation in Relationships 20:38 Exploring the Role of MDMA in Connection 24:34 The Value of Time Apart 27:12 Curiosity and Exploration in Relationships 28:59 Pursuing Individual Dreams and Passions

#40: Tying the Knot of an Open Marriage

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