The Difference Between Real Faith and Avoiding Your Pain With Laura Bratton

The Difference Between Real Faith and Avoiding Your Pain With Laura Bratton

Free Resource for Moms Feeling overwhelmed and like you’ve lost yourself in the chaos of motherhood?  You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep feeling this way. I created this FREE guide for you:  🎁 The Overwhelmed Mom’s Guide: 10 Small Changes to Start Feeling Like You Again  Simple, realistic shifts you can start making today without adding more to your plate. 👉 https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801 [https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801] Episode 59: The Difference Between Real Faith and Avoiding Your Pain With Laura Bratton Faith can be powerful. But sometimes what we call faith is actually avoidance. In this episode, I sit down with Laura Bratton to talk about the subtle, and often invisible — difference between trusting God and bypassing our pain. Because there’s a version of “faith” that sounds spiritual… but keeps us disconnected from our hearts. And there’s a version of faith that requires us to feel everything. When Faith Becomes a Shield For many women, especially in faith communities, we’re taught to: “Give it to God.”  “Trust the process.”  “Count it all joy.” And while those truths hold weight, they can sometimes become shields we hide behind. Laura shares how easy it is to spiritually explain away grief, anger, disappointment, or trauma instead of actually processing it. We quote scripture. We pray harder. We smile through it. But underneath? The pain is still there. Real faith isn’t pretending we’re okay.  It isn’t minimizing heartbreak.  It isn’t rushing ourselves to the lesson. Real faith is bringing our full, messy, human selves to God — without editing. The Courage to Feel One of the most powerful parts of this conversation is the reminder that avoidance delays healing. When we suppress grief, it doesn’t disappear.  When we silence anger, it doesn’t dissolve.  When we rush past disappointment, it doesn’t transform. It just goes underground. Laura talks about how true healing begins when we allow ourselves to name what we’re actually feeling, even when those feelings feel “unspiritual.” Sad.  Angry.  Confused.  Disillusioned.  Tired. God isn’t afraid of those emotions. And neither should we be. Faith That Holds Both Faith isn’t the absence of pain. It’s the willingness to stay present inside it. This episode invites you to consider: * Where am I using spiritual language to avoid emotional work? * Where am I rushing myself to gratitude instead of sitting in grief? * What would it look like to trust God while still honoring my pain? Because the deepest faith isn’t shiny. It’s honest. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re trusting God or just avoiding something hard… this conversation will gently help you untangle the difference. And if you’ve felt pressure to “be strong” in your faith while quietly hurting inside — you are not alone. Connect with Laura Bratton You can learn more about Laura’s work, her book Harnessing Courage, and her coaching and speaking at LauraBratton.com. Her work is a powerful reminder that grief, fear, faith, and gratitude can exist together and that moving forward doesn’t require having everything figured out. P.S. If this episode resonates with you, please reach out. I truly want to hear your story. You can DM me on Instagram @jenaburris or email me at jena@jenaburris.com. Your voice matters — and I’m here for you.

Moving Through Grief One Small Step at a Time With Lisa Espinoza

Free Resource for Moms Feeling overwhelmed and like you’ve lost yourself in the chaos of motherhood? You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep feeling this way. I created this FREE guide for you:  🎁 The Overwhelmed Mom’s Guide: 10 Small Changes to Start Feeling Like You Again  Simple, realistic shifts you can start making today without adding more to your plate. 👉 https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801 [https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801] Episode 58: Moving Through Grief One Small Step at a Time With Lisa Espinoza Grief has a way of freezing time. The world keeps moving. The calendar keeps turning. Holidays still come. But the person grieving can feel stuck, suspended between what was and what will never be again. In this episode, I sit down with Lisa Espinoza, author of First Brush Your Teeth: Grief and Hope in Real Time, to talk about what it actually looks like to move through devastating loss, not years later, but day by day. On January 1, 2019, Lisa lost her youngest son, Chandler, after 18 days in the hospital following a traumatic brain injury. What began as cautious hope during those hospital days ultimately became unimaginable loss. And in the middle of it all, she wrote. Grief in Real Time Just days after Chandler was hit, Lisa began journaling daily updates on CaringBridge. What started as a way to keep family and friends informed became something deeper, a way to process the unthinkable. After losing Chandler, Lisa committed to writing every single day for an entire year. Not polished reflections from a distance. Not tidy lessons learned. But real-time grief. She wrote through: * The first Mother’s Day * The first birthday * The first holidays * The ordinary Tuesdays that felt impossible Her book is a collection of those entries, raw, honest, and unfiltered. Because when you’re grieving, you don’t want a bow on top. You don’t want clichés. You want someone who understands what the first “everything” feels like. As Lisa shares, sometimes the most helpful words aren’t explanations. They’re simply:  “God, this hurts. I hate this for you.” Grief, Identity & the Possibility of Joy Loss reshapes identity in ways we don’t anticipate. Lisa describes the moment someone asked her how many children she had — and realizing she would always be a mother of four, even though one of her sons now lives in heaven. Grief doesn’t erase identity. It reshapes it. And yet, in the middle of heartbreak, Lisa discovered something surprising: Joy can coexist with grief. Not in a forced, “everything happens for a reason” way.  But in small, honest steps. She offers this gentle starting point: “I’m willing to become willing to be open to the idea of joy.” Not today’s big breakthrough.  Not pretending you’re fine.  Just a crack in the door. Grief isn’t something we fix. It’s something we move through, one breath, one page, one small step at a time. If you are grieving, or walking alongside someone who is,  this conversation will remind you that you are not crazy, not weak, and not alone. And if you’ve ever wondered what to say to someone in deep loss, Lisa offers simple wisdom: don’t minimize. Don’t compare. Just be present. Connect with Lisa You can connect with Lisa at lisaspinoza.com and find her free resource, A Gentle Guide for Getting Through the Day When You’re Grieving the Loss of Your Child. P.S. If this episode resonates with you, please reach out. I truly want to hear your story. You can DM me on Instagram @jenaburris or email me at jena@jenaburris.com. Your voice matters — and I’m here for you.

Breaking Free from Burnout & Self-Sabotage With Heather Simco

Free Resource for Moms Feeling overwhelmed and like you’ve lost yourself in the chaos of motherhood? You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep feeling this way. I created this FREE guide for you:  🎁 The Overwhelmed Mom’s Guide: 10 Small Changes to Start Feeling Like You Again  Simple, realistic shifts you can start making today without adding more to your plate. 👉 https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801 [https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801] Episode 57: Breaking Free from Burnout & Self-Sabotage With Heather Simco Burnout doesn’t usually arrive all at once. It builds quietly. Through overworking. Through people-pleasing. Through coping mechanisms that feel “normal”… until they aren’t. In this episode, I sit down with Heather Simco to talk about what burnout really looks like beneath the surface and how self-sabotage often hides inside behaviors we’ve normalized for years. Heather shares her powerful personal story of growing up in instability, learning early to wear a façade, and coping first through food and later through alcohol. What started as survival eventually escalated into addiction — all while she maintained a successful career, marriage, and public image. On paper, everything looked fine. Behind the scenes, she was unraveling. Her sobriety journey began on April 30, 2014 and with it came the hard work of rebuilding her life from the inside out. The Hidden Signs of Burnout Heather describes burnout not just as exhaustion, but as living in extremes. Working 18-hour days. Over-functioning. Crash dieting. Over-exercising. People-pleasing. Numbing out with wine, shopping, food, scrolling, or chaos. She calls it “deprivation or overcompensation.” For many high-achieving women, burnout isn’t laziness. It’s running at 100 miles an hour with no healthy way to slow down. And when we don’t know how to come down gently… we crash. When People-Pleasing Becomes Self-Sabotage One of the most eye-opening parts of our conversation? Heather names people-pleasing as a form of self-sabotage. We say yes to everything. We try to make everyone happy. We avoid confrontation. But over time, we lose ourselves. Heather explains that boundaries are the turning point. Taking inventory of relationships, identifying where energy is leaking, and learning that “no” is a complete sentence can radically shift everything. Because when we don’t decide what comes off our plate — life will decide for us. If you’ve been running on empty… If you recognize yourself in the extremes… If you’re tired of crashing after pushing too hard… This episode is for you. Connect with Heather: Visit heathersimco.com to explore coaching, community, and resources. P.S. If this episode resonates with you, please reach out. I truly want to hear your story. You can DM me on Instagram @jenaburris or email me at jena@jenaburris.com. Your voice matters — and I’m here for you.

What No One Tells You About Motherhood and Loss with Val Kleppen

Free Resource for Moms Feeling overwhelmed and like you’ve lost yourself in the chaos of motherhood? You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep feeling this way. I created this FREE guide for you:  🎁 The Overwhelmed Mom’s Guide: 10 Small Changes to Start Feeling Like You Again  Simple, realistic shifts you can start making today without adding more to your plate. 👉 https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801 [https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801] Episode 56: What No One Tells You About Motherhood and Loss With Val Kleppen Some stories change you forever. In this deeply honest and sacred conversation, Val Kleppen shares her journey through emergency delivery, stillbirth, and the long road of grieving while continuing to mother. Val’s first daughter was born at 32 weeks via emergency C-section after a life-threatening pregnancy complication. Three years later, pregnant again and cautiously hopeful, she went into labor at 37 weeks — only to be told there was no heartbeat. Four contractions later, she delivered her daughter into silence. What followed was a kind of grief no one prepares you for: leaving the hospital on maternity leave without a baby, milk coming in with nowhere to go, planning a funeral instead of a nursery, and trying to parent a three-year-old while her own heart felt shattered. The Loneliest Part of Loss Val shares that the hardest days weren’t just in the hospital — they came after the funeral. When the meals stopped. When the visitors went home. When the world kept spinning, but hers had stopped. She describes feeling disconnected from everyone, even with a full contact list in her phone. She longed for someone to simply sit beside her on the sofa while she cried — not fix it, not quote Scripture, not offer silver linings. Just be present. And yet, grief is messy. It’s nonlinear. It surprises you. It doesn’t follow a timeline. She speaks openly about: * Feeling angry at God * Praying only “God, why?” for months * Wrestling with bitterness * Feeling obligated to cling to faith when she didn’t always want to But she also shares something powerful: sometimes tethering yourself to God is less about feeling strong and more about refusing to let go. Grieving With God — Not Around Him Val describes a sacred moment in the hospital when she felt God weeping beside her. And yet later, she wrestled with Him deeply. She didn’t need polished encouragement. She needed permission to grieve messy. Through years of wrestling, she found that acceptance didn’t mean pretending it didn’t hurt. It meant allowing herself to walk straight through the messy middle instead of trying to go around it. “The only way to the other side is right through it.” Now, thirteen years later, she honors her daughter intentionally. On her birthday this year, their family went bowling and imagined what she might have been like at 13. They talk about her. She is still part of their family. Val reminds us that grief doesn’t disappear — it transforms. And honoring what was lost is part of healing. If you are walking through pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or child loss — this episode is a tender companion. You are not weak. You are not dramatic. And you are not alone. Connect with Val: Podcast: The Motherhood Experience (themotherhoodexperience.com) Email: info@themotherhoodexperience.com P.S. If this episode resonates with you, please reach out. I truly want to hear your story. You can DM me on Instagram @jenaburris or email me at jena@jenaburris.com. Your voice matters — and I’m here for you.

Why Christian Moms Suffer in Silence After Birth With Emma Donaldson

Free Resource for Moms Feeling overwhelmed and like you’ve lost yourself in the chaos of motherhood? You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep feeling this way. I created this FREE guide for you:  🎁 The Overwhelmed Mom’s Guide: 10 Small Changes to Start Feeling Like You Again  Simple, realistic shifts you can start making today without adding more to your plate. 👉 https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801 [https://jenaburris.kit.com/ecc29b3801] Episode 55: Why Christian Moms Suffer in Silence After Birth With Emma Donaldson Postpartum is one of the most vulnerable seasons of a woman’s life — and yet for many Christian moms, it becomes a season of quiet suffering. In this honest and compassionate conversation, I sit down with Emma Donaldson, licensed therapist and certified perinatal mental health specialist, to talk about the realities of postpartum anxiety, depression, intrusive thoughts, and the unique challenges Christian women face when faith language replaces emotional presence. Emma shares her own story of postpartum anxiety — the constant checking, the intrusive fears, the overwhelming pressure to “do it right.” At the time, she didn’t even recognize it as anxiety. It felt normal. It felt like what motherhood was supposed to feel like. But it wasn’t. When Faith Becomes a Mask Instead of a Lifeline One of the most powerful parts of this conversation is unpacking what happens inside Christian communities when moms speak up about their struggles. Instead of being met with empathy, many women are met with Bible verses, spiritual platitudes, or subtle shame. While truth matters, Emma reminds us that timing and presence matter just as much. Scripture is not meant to silence pain — and encouragement should never bypass humanity. We talk about how intrusive thoughts (including suicidal ideation), postpartum rage, and debilitating anxiety are more common than many realize — and how silence only deepens isolation. Postpartum Is Not Just “Baby Blues” Emma clearly explains the difference between baby blues and postpartum mood disorders. While hormonal shifts in the first two weeks are incredibly common, persistent symptoms, anger, hopelessness, sleep disruption, intrusive thoughts, emotional numbness, may signal postpartum depression or anxiety. She also highlights two often-overlooked factors: * The massive hormonal crash after birth * The profound impact of sleep deprivation Postpartum healing is not a one-size-fits-all fix. It’s layered. Biological. Emotional. Relational. Spiritual. And healing often requires both professional support and real-life community. You Were Never Meant to Mother Alone One of the biggest turning points Emma sees in her clients isn’t just symptom reduction, it’s building a village. Therapy is powerful, but it’s not a substitute for friendship. Moms need safe spaces where they can be honest in real time — without being fixed, judged, or spiritually bypassed. Emma now leads an online support group called Known Motherhood, specifically designed for Christian postpartum women who want their faith honored but not weaponized against their humanity. If you’re in the thick of postpartum and feel like you’re barely holding it together, this episode is for you. You are not weak. You are not faithless. You are not alone. Connect with Emma:  Website + Email List: joyfulmamamentalwellness.com  Support Group: Known Motherhood (join the waitlist on her website)  Instagram + TikTok: @joyfulmamamentalwellness P.S. If this episode resonates with you, please reach out. I truly want to hear your story. You can DM me on Instagram @jenaburris or email me at jena@jenaburris.com. Your voice matters, and I’m here for you.