Dating with Discernment (Part 2): Boundaries, Standards & Self-Control with Relationship Coach Sefana Samples

Your Questions, My Honest Answers | Preparing for Marriage, Losing Friends and Growth in Christ

Join the Heart to Heart email community: https://nitadanielle.myflodesk.com/heart2heartcommunity It's the Season 2 Finale of Let's Have a Heart to Heart! In this special listener Q&A episode, Nita Danielle answers questions about marriage, singleness, therapy, friendships, entrepreneurship, obedience, and what God has been teaching her throughout this season of growth. From preparing for a future spouse to navigating changing friendships, finding a Christian therapist, launching the podcast in obedience, and learning to trust God in everyday decisions, this conversation is filled with honest reflections and practical encouragement. As Season 2 comes to a close, Nita shares some of the biggest lessons she's learned about faith, purpose, and becoming the woman God is calling her to be. Thank you for being part of the Heart to Heart community. Season 3 is coming soon.

My Journey to Salvation: From Church Hurt to Relationship with God

Join our email community: https://nitadanielle.myflodesk.com/heart2heartcommunity [https://bio.site/letshaveaheart2heart] In this deeply personal episode of Let’s Have a Heart to Heart, Nita Danielle shares her journey to salvation and what it looked like to move from transactional faith into a real relationship with God. From growing up in church and believing that being a “good Christian” would guarantee a perfect life, to navigating trauma, disappointment, unanswered questions, forgiveness, and healing — this conversation is honest, vulnerable, and full of hope. Nita opens up about: * church hurt and childhood wounds * questioning God after painful experiences * entrepreneurship and learning to trust God financially * single motherhood and purpose * forgiveness and healing * developing a genuine relationship with God * why God is not afraid of your questions If you’ve ever struggled to trust God fully, wondered where He was in your pain, or felt like He cared more about performance than your heart, this episode is for you. This is a reminder that God welcomes honesty, healing, and relationship — not perfection.

God Told Me Not to Marry Him | Navigating Divorce & Healing with Lesa Rayford

In today’s episode of Let’s Have a Heart to Heart, I sit down with transformational strategist Lesa Rayford for an honest conversation about navigating divorce, healing, discernment, and rebuilding your life after heartbreak. Lisa vulnerably shares her story of hearing God tell her not to marry her husband before their engagement, wrestling with doubt, navigating 13 years of marriage, and ultimately walking through divorce and healing. Together, we talk about learning to discern God’s voice, overcoming shame and people pleasing, transactional faith, childhood wounds, trusting God after disappointment, and rediscovering your identity in Christ. This conversation is honest, raw, emotional, and full of wisdom for anyone struggling to trust what God is saying, healing after divorce, or rebuilding after life doesn’t go as planned. Grab your favorite drink, take a deep breath, and let’s have a heart to heart.

Wrestling with Disappointment as a Single Mom

Join our email community: https://nitadanielle.myflodesk.com/heart2heartcommunity [https://bio.site/letshaveaheart2heart] In this episode: * Nita shares the emotional experience that triggered feelings of shame around single motherhood * A story from her daughter’s basketball camp * The spiral of disappointment and self-criticism that followed * How God corrected her perspective about motherhood * Why children are a gift from the Lord * Learning to see your children through the lens of Christ * Parenting as stewardship, not burden * The importance of partnering with God while raising children * Decentering yourself in motherhood and seeing your child as their own individual Heart Checks: 1. How do you truly view your children? 2. Do you see motherhood as a burden or a blessing? 3. Have you invited God into the way you parent His children? Scriptures Mentioned/Referenced: * Psalm 127:3 * John 15 (“I am the vine, you are the branches…”)

Dating with Discernment (Part 2): Boundaries, Standards & Self-Control with Relationship Coach Sefana Samples

In Part 2 of this conversation, Nita Danielle and relationship coach Se'Fana Samples move into the practical side of dating with discernment. From boundaries and attraction to abstinence and accountability, this episode unpacks what it actually looks like to honor God while actively engaging in dating. They discuss how personal convictions shape boundaries, why alignment matters, and how to navigate relationships with honesty and self-awareness. This conversation also challenges cultural narratives around dating, rejection, and emotional responsibility—offering a more grounded, faith-centered approach. If you’ve ever asked, “What does this actually look like in real life?”—this episode answers it. 💌 Join the email community: https://nitadanielle.myflodesk.com/heart2heartcommunity [https://bio.site/letshaveaheart2heart] 📲 Follow Se'Fana: www.sefanasamples.com and subscribe to "The Successfully Single" podcast