The algorithms of affection

To lasting friendships: may we build and keep them

In this episode, Morayo and I discuss what it takes to build great friendships. People say it gets more difficult to make new friends as we age. But making friends becomes a survival skill if you move around a lot. In Canada, I have found that Canadians stick with the same friends they've had since university or high school so as a newcomer, it is difficult to break into those groups. Nonetheless, there are lots of tips for making friends in this video and also tips on how to keep your friends. We also discuss how to confront a friend who has hurt you and signs a friend might be jealous of you.

The speech I wish I heard at my undergraduate graduation

What do you wish someone told you when you were graduating from university? In this episode, I share my thoughts. Please take a second to rate the podcast and share your thoughts via messages or voicenotes!

The modern male malaise?

On this episode, I catch up with my friend Samuel to discuss modern male identity.

The algorithms of affection

Have you tried dating apps? Do you enjoy them? This episode is a mix of rant and research on why I think dating apps should not be a thing. References for episode: - https://thedecisionlab.com/biases/choice-overload-bias - https://hdsr.mitpress.mit.edu/pub/i4eb4e8b/release/2 - https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a38945511/dating-as-a-black-woman-discrimination-racism-colorism/ - https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/ - https://mashable.com/article/racism-online-dating - https://rewire.ie.edu/dating-apps-darkest-secret-algorithm/

An old story, a misaligned character, and the burden of starting afresh

This month is my birthday month so I thought to share a personal story. I hope you enjoy it! Please rate the podcast on Spotify and send any comments or questions you may have using the voice note function. Thank you for listening to Let's Have Tea!