Healing Is Messy

Why Do I Feel the Need for Control?

This week we’re diving into the C-word that rules our thoughts more than we admit—control. Why do we cling so tightly to plans, people, and outcomes? And what happens when life refuses to play along? Join Tyler and Deanna as they unpack: ✨ The psychology behind our need for control 🧠 How anxiety and past experiences shape control habits 💥 The difference between healthy structure and burnout-level micromanaging 💫 Practical ways to loosen your grip (without your world falling apart) If you’ve ever thought, “I’m fine, I just like things done right,” this one’s for you.

The Last 90 Days: How To Finish The Year Without Losing Your Mind

The last stretch of the year can feel like a marathon with no finish line — holidays, stress, and a to-do list that never ends. But what if you could actually end the year on a high note instead of burning out? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to approach the last 90 days with intention (and a little humor). Deanna shares her 3 go-to tips for not just surviving, but thriving: setting a wellness goal, a connection goal, and a growth goal. Whether you need a reset or just want to keep your sanity intact, this episode will help you finish the year strong — without losing your mind in the process.

Why Am I Painfully Aware?

Ever catch yourself overthinking every word, every look, every move — and wonder if you’re just “too self-aware”? In this episode, we break down the difference between healthy self-awareness and when your brain is flat-out lying to you. We’ll cover what it feels like to live on high alert, how to tell if it’s you or anxiety talking, and practical ways to quiet that inner spiral before it takes over. And of course, we’ll add a few laughs along the way — because if you can’t laugh at your brain being dramatic, what can you do?

Healing Is Messy

Healing isn’t a straight line—it’s a rollercoaster. Some days you feel unstoppable, and other days you’re side-eyeing your own progress with a bag of drive-thru fries in hand. In this episode, we’re breaking down the myth of “perfect healing” and getting real about what it actually looks like. We’ll cover: * What the healing myth tells us it should look like * What it really looks like (spoiler: it’s not Instagram-pretty) * Why healing looks different for everyone * Practical tips to help you stay on track—even when the process feels chaotic If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I doing this right?”—this episode will remind you that messy progress is still progress.

Why Do I Need Everyone's Approval?

Let’s be real—we all love a little gold star now and then. But when needing approval turns into chasing it, burnout, anxiety, and people-pleasing aren’t far behind. In this episode, we unpack why external validation feels so addictive, how it’s tied to our nervous system and survival instincts, and the sneaky ways it shows up in everyday life. More importantly, we’ll share how to shift from needing everyone’s approval → to learning how to validate yourself. Because your worth was never meant to be measured in snaps, claps, or “good jobs.”