Where do I fit?

The Burden and Beauty of Being the Strong Woman

📖 Get your copy of It’s My Life: Lessons Lived, Blessings Found → here [https://lifesriches.co.uk/books-by-aishat/] Who decided you were the strong one? In this reflective solo episode, Aishat explores the quiet assignment of strength many women carry — often without choosing it. Moving beyond memoir and beyond performance, this conversation gently names the expectations placed on first and only daughters, single mums, professional women, carers, and those who have learned early to hold everything together. This episode doesn’t reject strength. It examines it. The pride in it. The silence inside it. The cost of carrying it. And what it might look like to be strong… without disappearing. Thoughtful, steady, and deeply human, this is a conversation about redefining strength in a way that includes softness, support, and self. Best Moments “Strength gets assigned very quietly. No ceremony. No consent form. Just expectation.” “Strength without space to soften becomes isolation.” “Strength is not the absence of vulnerability. It’s the integration of it.” “What if strength isn’t about holding everything, but knowing what is yours to hold?” “When strength includes you, it becomes freedom.” Key Takeaways: * Strength is often assigned, not chosen * Pride and pressure coexist * First and only daughters carry distinct emotional weight * Strength does not exclude vulnerability * Strength without boundaries leads to disappearance About your host: Aishat [https://lifesriches.co.uk/about-aishat/] is a money coach, educator, and book lover with over 25 years of finance experience in the charity sector. Through her Life’s Riches platform, she helps people connect money with meaning, building clarity, calm, and confidence in their financial journeys. As a writer, podcaster, and educator, she weaves together personal stories, financial lessons, and life reflections to explore what it really means to live a rich life. Connect * Connect with me on Instagram: @lifesricheswithaishat [https://instagram.com/lifesricheswithaishat] * Learn more at lifesriches.co.uk [http://lifesriches.co.uk]

What Love Looks Like in This Season of My Life

📖 Get your copy of It’s My Life: Lessons Lived, Blessings Found → here [https://lifesriches.co.uk/books-by-aishat/] February is often framed as the month of love; roses, dinner dates, grand gestures. But what if love isn’t always loud? In this episode, recorded on Valentine’s Day, Aishat reflects on a quieter question: What does love look like in this season of my life? This is not a conversation about romance in the abstract. It’s a personal reflection on how love evolves - across family, friendship, self, and through grief. Because love doesn’t stay the same. It matures. It sheds certain forms and grows into others. And if we don’t pause to notice that, we can end up measuring today’s love by yesterday’s expectations. Best Moments * “Love changes shape.” * “Space isn’t always distance. Sometimes it’s maturity.” * “Friendship love in this season feels steady. It’s secure enough to breathe.” * “Grief reshapes love — it doesn’t cancel it.” Key Takeaways: Love is not static. It evolves with who we are becoming. In different seasons, love may look quieter, more intentional, more mutual, or more inward. Grief may deepen it. Growth may stretch it. Maturity may soften it. The invitation is not to measure love by how it used to appear — but to recognise the form it’s taking now.. About your host: Aishat [https://lifesriches.co.uk/about-aishat/] is a money coach, educator, and book lover with over 25 years of finance experience in the charity sector. Through her Life’s Riches platform, she helps people connect money with meaning, building clarity, calm, and confidence in their financial journeys. As a writer, podcaster, and educator, she weaves together personal stories, financial lessons, and life reflections to explore what it really means to live a rich life. Connect * Connect with me on Instagram: @lifesricheswithaishat [https://instagram.com/lifesricheswithaishat] * Learn more at lifesriches.co.uk [http://lifesriches.co.uk]

Remembering Mum

📖 Get your copy of It’s My Life: Lessons Lived, Blessings Found → here [https://lifesriches.co.uk/books-by-aishat/] This episode is a quiet, personal reflection on love, loss, and remembrance. In Remembering Mum, Aishat reads from two blog posts written six months apart - one before losing her mother, and one after. The first captures the tenderness and anticipatory grief of saying goodbye without knowing it may be the last. The second reflects on loss, absence, and the early days of learning to live with grief. This is not a teaching episode, and there are no neat takeaways. Instead, it is an honest remembering; of a mother’s prayers, a family’s shifting reality, and the way love continues even when someone is no longer physically present. This episode sits at the heart of February’s theme: love, loss, and grief, and is offered gently, for anyone carrying their own memories or losses. Listener note: This episode includes reflections on bereavement and loss. Please listen gently, and pause if needed. Key Takeaways: Love continues, even when presence becomes memory — and remembering can be its own quiet form of care. Closing reflection: “Grief doesn’t move in straight lines. Love doesn’t end when someone dies; it changes form. Remembering, too, is a form of love.” About your host: Aishat [https://lifesriches.co.uk/about-aishat/] is a money coach, educator, and book lover with over 25 years of finance experience in the charity sector. Through her Life’s Riches platform, she helps people connect money with meaning, building clarity, calm, and confidence in their financial journeys. As a writer, podcaster, and educator, she weaves together personal stories, financial lessons, and life reflections to explore what it really means to live a rich life. Connect * Connect with me on Instagram: @lifesricheswithaishat [https://instagram.com/lifesricheswithaishat] * Learn more at lifesriches.co.uk [http://lifesriches.co.uk]

The Books I Return to When I Need Grounding

📖 Get your copy of It’s My Life: Lessons Lived, Blessings Found → here [https://lifesriches.co.uk/books-by-aishat/] At the beginning of each year, I don’t usually go looking for something new. Instead, I return; to familiar books, familiar ideas, and familiar questions. Not because I didn’t understand them the first time, but because I understand myself differently now. This episode isn’t about book recommendations or productivity. It’s about why we return. Why wisdom deepens rather than replaces itself. And how familiar ideas can help us orient ourselves before we decide anything new. The books in this episode are companions, not prescriptions; meeting different seasons of life with different questions. Best Moment: “I don’t return to these books to decide who I’m becoming, I return to remember who I already am.” Key Takeaways: * Returning to familiar books can wake up your thinking before you set goals * Wisdom doesn’t replace itself, it deepens as you change * Money, work, and value are life questions before they are technical ones * Familiar ideas can offer grounding without pressure or reinvention * You don’t have to start again — you can start from somewhere familiar Books mentioned (as companions, not instructions): * Rich Dad’s Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki Returning to understand where you are — not to rush into where you think you should be. * Who Not How by Dan Sullivan & Dr Benjamin Hardy A reminder that asking “who” is as much about mindset as budget. * Selling to Serve by James Ashford Naming the truth about money, value, and integrity — and revisiting it as confidence evolves. * Profit First by Mike Michalowicz A practical system that ultimately points to care, sustainability, and boundaries. * The Third Door by Alex Banayan Permission to be curious, nonlinear, and open to unexpected paths. * How to Get Paid for What You Know by Graham Cochrane Valuing lived experience alongside qualifications and expertise. About your host: Aishat [https://lifesriches.co.uk/about-aishat/] is a money coach, educator, and book lover with over 25 years of finance experience in the charity sector. Through her Life’s Riches platform, she helps people connect money with meaning, building clarity, calm, and confidence in their financial journeys. As a writer, podcaster, and educator, she weaves together personal stories, financial lessons, and life reflections to explore what it really means to live a rich life. Connect * Connect with me on Instagram: @lifesricheswithaishat [https://instagram.com/lifesricheswithaishat] * Learn more at lifesriches.co.uk [http://lifesriches.co.uk]

Where do I fit?

📖 Get your copy of It’s My Life: Lessons Lived, Blessings Found → here [https://lifesriches.co.uk/books-by-aishat/] “I’m starting this year a little more gently — so this first episode is landing on a Sunday, with another later this week, and then we’ll settle back into our usual rhythm.” With a gentle start to the year and this Life's Riches Sunday episode (instead of the usual Thursday), Aishat reflects on creativity, belonging, and the quiet question that keeps returning: where do I fit? Starting from moments of slowing down and drifting into creative work, this episode explores why creativity can be a place of rest rather than output, and how voice and identity are deeply tied to how we unwind and make sense of life. Aishat speaks candidly about feeling out of place in professional and business spaces; as a Black woman, as a business owner, and as someone navigating different stages of life and age. From subtle exclusions in professional groups to generational mismatches in industry spaces, she reflects on what it means to crave community without wanting to contort yourself to belong. This is not an episode about answers or solutions. It’s an invitation to sit with the question, to notice misalignment, and to pay attention to where you can exhale. Best Moments “You’re not just networking, you’re translating yourself.” “Too experienced for some spaces. Too reflective for others.” “The question ‘where do I fit?’ isn’t about geography or age. It’s about energy.” Key Takeaways: * Creativity can be a place of rest, not just productivity * Feeling out of place doesn’t always mean something is wrong; it can be information * Belonging that requires constant adjustment comes at a cost * Community isn’t about numbers or visibility, but about being able to exhale * Clarity can begin with knowing where you don’t fit Resources and Links: Subscribe to Aishat's newsletter on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7349415821372276738] Join Aishat's mailing list [https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/300623/153545522616993413/share] Free Resources → here [https://lifesriches.co.uk/lets-talk-money/] About your host: Aishat [https://lifesriches.co.uk/about-aishat/] is a money coach, educator, and book lover with over 25 years of finance experience in the charity sector. Through her Life’s Riches platform, she helps people connect money with meaning, building clarity, calm, and confidence in their financial journeys. As a writer, podcaster, and educator, she weaves together personal stories, financial lessons, and life reflections to explore what it really means to live a rich life. Connect * Connect with me on Instagram: @lifesricheswithaishat [https://instagram.com/lifesricheswithaishat] * Learn more at lifesriches.co.uk [http://lifesriches.co.uk]