73: Paris Cluff in the hot seat

92: Debbie Weiss in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with Debbie Weiss to talk about what happens when life forces you to take a hard look at yourself. Debbie shares how turning 50 became a turning point—after years of putting others first, facing loss, and watching the impact of regret up close. We get into the reality of shifting out of a victim mindset, taking ownership of your life, and why small, consistent changes matter more than big, unsustainable ones. This conversation also touches on grief, personal responsibility, parenting challenges, and what it looks like to move forward without pretending the hard stuff didn’t happen. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like it’s “too late” to change… this episode will hit. I’m Debbie Weiss, a best-selling author and professional speaker who talks openly about midlife change, caregiving, loss, and what it really takes to rebuild your life after years of putting everyone else first. For decades, I lived with a victim mentality. I believed my weight struggles, years of family caregiving, infertility, and later widowhood were reasons life could not be what I hoped for. Turning 50 became a turning point, when I realized that waiting for circumstances to change was keeping me stuck. That shift did not erase my challenges, but it changed how I showed up for my life. That experience became the foundation for my inspirational memoir, On Second Thought… Maybe I Can!, which I later shared on The Kelly Clarkson Show. I also wrote The Sprinkle Effect, a practical guide that helps people move forward through small, intentional shifts rather than big, overwhelming change. Today, I speak on stages and on podcasts about responsibility, resilience, identity, and starting again later than you expected. I’m known for honest, relatable conversations that blend insight, warmth, and real-life perspective. My goal is always to leave audiences feeling seen, less alone, and capable of taking a meaningful next step. If your show values thoughtful conversation, real stories, and guests who bring depth without heaviness, I’d be honored to join you. https://bit.ly/maybeIcanbook [https://bit.ly/maybeIcanbook]

91: Dave Chametzky in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with David Chametzky to talk about what it really means to live your message—not just say it. David opens up about his personal journey through mental health struggles, including a suicide attempt that changed everything and pushed him toward honesty, purpose, and helping others. We talk about authenticity, self-talk, discipline, and why so many people hold back from sharing their story. This conversation dives into the power of storytelling, the impact of being real online, and how even reaching one person with your message can change everything. If you’ve been sitting on your story, questioning if it matters… this one will challenge that. David Chametzky, a deep message expert, As a speaker, author, podcast host, and producer, he assists others in overcoming challenges, a true pathfinder has a mission to uplift lives in every way, David empowers individuals day by day. Through his content and teachings, he brings light, Guiding others to overcome obstacles, shining bright. As a Tedx speaker, his voice resonates on stages, Imparting wisdom to inspire change and engage. His books, including Amazon bestsellers, hold insights offering guidance to those seeking new heights. Hosting the internationally acclaimed podcast, "Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat," a treasure vast of spiritual motivational stories, interviews, and heartfelt conversation, Spreading positivity and fostering transformation. David's expertise and dedication inspire, others to conquer and aspire and follow their dreams  With his guidance, barriers can be overcome, Allowing individuals to embrace the path they might not have seen before for themselves and begin to up level and soar in life and business. https://davidchametzky.com/ [https://davidchametzky.com/]

90: Colleen Ofsanik in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with Colleen Ofsenic, a business owner and wellness leader who walked away from a high-stress corporate career in banking and government to pursue a completely different path. We talk about what it really costs to change your life—emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—and why so many people stay stuck in environments that are slowly draining them. Colleen shares her journey through abandonment, burnout, and personal transformation, and how those experiences pushed her into doing deeper work on herself. This conversation gets into leadership, ego, and the reality that a lot of people talk about healing but avoid the actual work. We also unpack fear, self-trust, and what it looks like to take responsibility for your growth instead of waiting for things to magically change. If you’ve been feeling stuck, avoiding hard decisions, or trying to grow without facing what’s underneath… this episode will challenge you in the best way. Published Author | CNHP, CST, CYT, RMT | Certified Life Coach (ICF 2010)  Naturopathic Practitioner | Educator | Divine Feminine Community Leader | Professional Mentor & Advisor | Spiritual Teacher  Professional Summary Dynamic and multifaceted professional with over 30 years of experience spanning banking, municipal government, holistic health, and entrepreneurial leadership. Proven expertise in financial oversight, community development, program creation, and operations management, combined with over two decades in integrative health and wellness. Founder of multiple successful ventures and creator of a proprietary quantum healing modality, CranioHeartSync™, integrating multiple therapies with heart-centered coherence practices. Recognized for building community-centered initiatives, leading multidisciplinary teams, and delivering transformative client outcomes. https://www.lovelighthc.com/ [https://www.lovelighthc.com/] https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063575503504 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063575503504] Career Highlights 30+ years of leadership across banking, government, and holistic health sectors Founder of multiple successful businesses and community-based initiatives Creator of the CranioHeartSync™ healing modality Published Author October, 2024: Divine Feminine Emergence ~ Women Awakening The New Paradigm Through Self-Love https://a.co/d/0j4Hx8KG [https://a.co/d/0j4Hx8KG] Recognized voice in holistic wellness and empowerment Extensive experience in community development, program creation, and operational leadership Proven ability to bridge structured business expertise with transformational healing work Founder & CEO  The Lovelight Connection | 2020 – Present  Founded a transformational wellness and community platform rooted in Divine Feminine leadership and holistic healing Lead brand strategy, business development, and community expansion initiatives Design and facilitate workshops, mentorship programs, and immersive experiences for personal and spiritual development Public Speaking on various subjects geared toward self-love and life transformation Creator of CranioHeartSync™, an integrative modality based in quantum energetic alignment and heart coherence - 2026 https://www.facebook.com/share/r/16WNykRHdr/ [https://www.facebook.com/share/r/16WNykRHdr/] Owner & Director  Lovelight Healing Center, Grayslake, IL | 2014 – 2020 Founded and managed a multidisciplinary wellness center, overseeing daily operations, facility management, and practitioner coordination Directed a team of diverse professionals including licensed therapists, social workers, and holistic practitioners Developed and executed community wellness programs, educational workshops, and revenue-generating events Oversaw business operations including budgeting, marketing strategy, and client experience Established strong partnerships with local businesses and healthcare providers to support community health initiatives

89: Julie Grim in the hot seat

This episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special features Julie Grimm, a guide who helps people break free from self-imposed limitations and step into their calling—even when they don’t feel ready. We talk about what it really looks like to stop settling in your daily life, how small compromises turn into big misalignment, and why fear and lack of self-trust keep people stuck in lives they don’t actually want. Julie shares her personal journey from being an atheist scientist to experiencing a major life shift that led her into guiding others, and we get into the tension between fear vs. discernment, taking action before you feel ready, and why waiting for the “perfect moment” is usually just another excuse. We also hit on something real—how people abandon themselves trying to do the “right” thing, and how getting honest about what you actually want is the first step to changing your life. If you’ve been feeling stuck, second-guessing yourself, or waiting to feel ready… this episode will call you out in the best way. I serve leaders who suffer from the terror that they are not enough for what they are called to do. As a spiritual guide and multi-business owner, I understand the faith journey of stepping into a picture beyond what you had imagined. Through sharing about my intuitive nudge to turn my passion for color into a 6 figure business and my bigger faith journey to honor my purpose calling, I can help inspire but as well guide others who may feel a call within them to serve but don’t know how to begin or doubt themselves. Julie has lived on three continents, holds a Master’s degree in Biology, has written and illustrated a children’s story and owns two businesses. She is passionate about helping others express their creativity and beauty and come out of the box to live a life of joy! She lives outside Boston, MA and loves animals and reading. https://www.spiritualstudies-institute.com/ [https://www.spiritualstudies-institute.com/]

88: Nancy Jasin Ensley in the hot seat

I’m Nancy Jasin Ensley author, legal nurse, hospice specialist, and teacher. Writing has always been my way of listening to life, remembering the moments that shape me, and processing the experiences that leave a mark. Over the years, I’ve written across multiple genres including memoirs, literature and fiction, science fiction, mystery, thriller, action and adventure, and children’s literature. Each story I create is rooted in family, faith, service, and lived experience, and my goal is to explore what it means to grow, persevere, and reflect on life through words. My life and career have been shaped by a commitment to service and a desire to make a difference in the lives of others. In my professional journey, I’ve worked as a nurse, hospice specialist, legal nurse consultant, coding specialist, teacher, and supervisor. Each role has provided unique insight into the human experience from the challenges of caregiving to the lessons of empathy, resilience, and compassion. Those experiences inform the stories I tell, helping me craft narratives that are authentic, relatable, and meaningful across all the genres I write in. I write because it is how I listen. I write because it is how I remember. And by grace, I will keep writing. Writing has allowed me to reflect on life, family, faith, and the work I’ve devoted myself to, and it continues to be a source of clarity, insight, and creativity. Living with my husband, John, surrounded by our five children and fourteen grandchildren, I draw inspiration from the everyday moments of family, community, and the world around me. I approach storytelling with curiosity, intentionality, and a deep respect for the human experience whether I am crafting suspenseful mysteries, imaginative science fiction, thought-provoking literature, or stories for children. My goal in sharing my work and my voice is to invite meaningful conversations, inspire reflection, and explore the depth of human experience. Whether discussing the creative process, the intersection of professional experience and storytelling, or the ways we make sense of life through writing, I aim to offer insight, perspective, and a thoughtful, authentic presence. Across all that I do, writing remains my constant a way to preserve memory, share perspective, and engage with the world. It is my intention to continue creating, reflecting, and exploring stories that resonate with readers and listeners alike, and to do so with a sense of purpose, curiosity, and gratitude. https://nancyjasinensley.com/ [https://nancyjasinensley.com/]