If You are not led by God, You Cannot Lead Yourself

Being Right is to Be Right

Is always having the last word actually worth what it costs you? In this final episode of the new season, we are diving deep into the ultimate ego trap: the exhausting obsession with always needing to be right. We often mistake winning an argument for winning at life, but what happens when our need for validation starts costing us our peace, our energy, and our closest relationships? Plus, Tamia breaks down why our brains are hardwired to defend our opinions like life-or-death situations, and how shifting from ''being right'' to ''getting it right'' can completely transform your personal growth journey. If you've been feeling drained by constant debates, struggling with perfectionism, or trying to navigate difficult conversations without losing your cool, this season finale is the reality check you've been waiting for. In this episode, we discuss: * The Psychology of the Ego: Why our brains crave validation and view being wrong as an actual threat. * The Hidden Cost of Winning: How the need to be right damages communication in relationships, friendships, and the workplace. * Peace vs. Pride: Practical strategies to pause, check your ego, and choose alignment over arguments. * Season 2 Retrospective: A look back at the biggest lessons from this season of Living That Life and what's in store for Season 3 💭 Do you have any questions or concerns? DM us your thoughts on today’s episode. 📞 Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts or concerns about today’s episode at: https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife [https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife] Resources: Visit our Linktree webpage: https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod [https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life newsletter and get my free 'That Life Audit' Template: https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit [https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit] ✉️ Subscribe to our “Living That Life Playbook” on Substack: https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/ [https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/] Connect with Tamia: Follow Tamia on IG: https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_ [https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_] Follow Tamia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s Substack of “One espresso Martini, Please?! “🍸 https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan [https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan] Sponsors: Her Fantasy Box: Self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity for the woman who is busy building her empire and tending to her soul. Use code “TAMIA31” at checkout get 8% off your purchase to Unlock exclusive sitewide deals and savings on your entire order. https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31 [https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31] Miss Lola: Treat yourself or the special woman in your life to something fabulous and get an extra 25% off your order. Just use the code TAMIAMORGAN_ at checkout. Don't miss out on this perfect way to celebrate the moms who do it all! https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_ [https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_] Listen to Tamia’s Bi-Weekly Podcast, Sorry I Have Plans every other Thursday 🎧: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sorry-i-have-plans/id1879634936 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sorry-i-have-plans/id1879634936] Habits365: Transform your everyday routine and empower yourself with clothing that inspires positive change! Take advantage of our exclusive offer, use code 'TAMIAMORGAN' at checkout to unlock 15% off your order. https://habits365.com/r?id=dr63ca%20 [https://habits365.com/r?id=dr63ca%20] This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

Everybody wanna change their life—until it’s time to be consistent

We've all been there: that burst of inspiration at 2 AM when you're ready to flip your entire world upside down. You want a better body, a bigger bank account, and peace of mind. But what happens when the "new car smell" of your goals wears off? In this week's episode of Living That Life, we're getting brutally honest about the gap between wanting a better life and actually doing the boring, repetitive work required to get there. There's a reason why everyone wants the result, but so few people stick to the process. We're breaking down why consistency is the ultimate gatekeeper between who you are and who you want to be. What We’re Diving Into: * The "Inspiration Hangover": Why relying on "feeling like it" is a recipe for failure. * The Myth of Quantum Leaps: Understanding that big changes are actually just small habits repeated 1,000 times. * Embracing the Boring: How to find a rhythm when the initial excitement disappears. * Practical Frameworks: Real strategies to stay disciplined on the days you’d rather stay in bed. This episode is for anyone tired of living in a cycle of ''day ones.'' If you find yourself constantly setting big goals only to let them slide when life gets busy, or if you feel like you're doing everything right but aren't seeing the results fast enough, this is your wake-up call. Whether you're building a business, transforming your health, or trying to master your mindset, the truth is that the ''secret sauce'' isn't a secret at all—it's just showing up when the cameras aren't rolling. We're talking to the dreamers who are ready to become doers by trading temporary intensity for long-term consistency. 💭 Do you have any questions or concerns? DM us your thoughts on today’s episode. 📞 Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts or concerns about today’s episode at: https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife [https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife] Resources: Visit our Linktree webpage: https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod [https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life newsletter and get my free 'That Life Audit' Template: https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit [https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit] ✉️ Subscribe to our “Living That Life Playbook” on Substack: https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/ [https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/] Connect with Tamia: Follow Tamia on IG: https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_ [https://www.instagram.com/tamiamorgan_] Follow Tamia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s Substack of “One espresso Martini, Please?! “🍸https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan%20 [https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan%20] Sponsors: Miss Lola: Treat yourself or the special woman in your life to something fabulous and get an extra 25% off your order. Just use the code TAMIAMORGAN_ at checkout. Don't miss out on this perfect way to celebrate the moms who do it all! https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_ [https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_] Her Fantasy Box: Self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity for the woman who is busy building her empire and tending to her soul. Use code “TAMIA31” at checkout get 8% off your purchase to Unlock exclusive sitewide deals and savings on your entire order. https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31 [https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31] Pure Romance: Feel your best, and enjoy every moment. You get an exclusive 10% on your order—use the code 'TAMIAMORGAN' at checkout. https://pureromance.com/morgan10 [https://pureromance.com/morgan10] Listen to Tamia’s Bi-Weekly Podcast, Sorry I Have Plans https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sorry-i-have-plans/id1879634936 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sorry-i-have-plans/id1879634936] This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

If You are not led by God, You Cannot Lead Yourself

We often talk about ''Taking the wheel'' of our own lives, but what happens when the driver doesn't actually know the destination? In this week's episode of Living That Life, we're stripping away the ego and diving into a hard truth that most modern leadership seminars won't tell you: True self-mastery is impossible without divine surrender. We live in a culture obsessed with self-reliance, ''hustle,'' and being a ''self-made'' individual. But if we are being honest, leading yourself based solely on your own shifting emotions, limited perspective, and the pressures of the world is a recipe for burnout and misalignment. What's inside the Episode: * The Paradox of Control: Why the harder you try to control your life without spiritual guidance, the more chaotic things feel. * Blind Spots in Self-Leadership: Identifying the areas where our personal desires cloud our judgment and how seeking God's will provides a ''birds-eye view'' of our path. * The Blueprint of Submission: Understanding that being ''led by God'' isn't about losing your agency—it's about aligning your unique talents with a higher purpose to achieve maximum impact. * Practical Discernment: How to distinguish between your own internal monologue and the quiet, steady direction of the Holy Spirit. * Living with Conviction: Moving from a life of ''guessing'' to a life of ''knowing'' even when the road ahead looks uncertain. If you've been feeling like you're running on a treadmill—working hard but not moving forward—it might be because you're trying to lead a journey you didn't design. This episode is a wake-up call to stop relying on your own understanding and start tapping into the ultimate source of wisdom. Whether you are a business leader, a parent, a student, or someone just trying to navigate the complexities of daily life, this conversation will challenge you to audit who is actually in the driver's seat. 💭 Do you have any questions or concerns? DM us your thoughts on today’s episode. 📞 Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts or concerns about today’s episode at: https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife [https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife] Resources: Visit our Linktree webpage: https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod [https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life newsletter and get my free 'That Life Audit' Template: https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit [https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit] ✉️ Subscribe to our “Living That Life Playbook” on Substack: https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/ [https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/] Connect with Tamia: Follow Tamia on IG: https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_ [https://www.instagram.com/tamiamorgan_] Follow Tamia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s Substack of “One espresso Martini, Please?! 🍸”https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan [https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan] Sponsors: Miss Lola: Treat yourself or the special woman in your life to something fabulous and get an extra 25% off your order. Just use the code TAMIAMORGAN_ at checkout. Don't miss out on this perfect way to celebrate the moms who do it all! https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_ [https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_] Her Fantasy Box: Self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity for the woman who is busy building her empire and tending to her soul. Use code “TAMIA31” at checkout get 8% off your purchase to Unlock exclusive sitewide deals and savings on your entire order. https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31 [https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31] This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

Black Woman, Wanting Love isn’t flaw —it’s Revolutionary

In a world that often demands Black women be the pillars of strength, the architects of resilience, and the "strong" foundation for everyone else, the act of simply wanting to be loved can feel like an admission of weakness. But what if the desire for soft, safe, and reciprocal love isn't a "neediness" to be fixed, but a radical act of defiance? In this week’s episode of Living That Life, Tamia discusses dismantling the "Strong Black Woman" trope and exploring why prioritizing your heart is a revolutionary pivot. We dive deep into the emotional tax of hyper-independence and discuss how reclaiming the right to be cherished is essential to our collective healing. What We’re Unpacking: * The Myth of the Superwoman: Why society conditions Black women to prioritize "service" over "desire" and how that impacts our romantic expectations. * Love as Liberation: Examining the historical and political context of Black joy and why choosing love is a way of taking back your agency. * Deconstructing the "Flaw" Narrative: Addressing the internal voice that says wanting a partner or wanting tenderness makes you "weak" or "unproductive." * The Soft Life Transition: Practical ways to lower your guard, set boundaries that protect your peace, and create space for a love that requires nothing but your presence. Whether you are currently navigating the dating scene, in a long-term partnership, or simply reconciling your own desires, this conversation is an invitation to stop apologizing for wanting what you deserve. 💭 Do you have any questions or concerns? DM us your thoughts on today’s episode. 📞 Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts or concerns about today’s episode at: https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife [https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife] Resources: Visit our Linktree webpage: https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod [https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life newsletter and get my free 'That Life Audit' Template: https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit [https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life Substack: https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/ [https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/] Connect with Tamia: Follow Tamia on IG: https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_ [https://www.instagram.com/tamiamorgan_] Follow Tamia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s Substack of One espresso Martini, Please?! 🍸https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan [https://open.substack.com/pub/tamiamorgan] Sponsors: Her Fantasy Box: Self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity for the woman who is busy building her empire and tending to her soul. Use code “TAMIA31” at checkout get 8% off your purchase to Unlock exclusive sitewide deals and savings on your entire order. https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31 [https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31] Miss Lola: Use Code 'TAMIAMORGAN_' at checkout to receive 10% off selected collections. Download the Miss Lola app to start happy shopping for Miss Lola's high-quality heels, shoes, boots, accessories & more. https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_ [https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_] Pure Romance: Feel your best, and enjoy every moment. You get an exclusive 10% on your order—use the code 'TAMIAMORGAN' at checkout. Treat yourself or someone special you love https://pureromance.com/morgan10 [https://pureromance.com/morgan10] Habits365: Transform your everyday routine and empower yourself with clothing that inspires positive change! Take advantage of our exclusive offer, use code 'TAMIAMORGAN' at checkout to unlock 15% off your order. https://habits365.com/ [https://habits365.com/] This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

Own the Room: How to Command Authority Without Saying a Word

Ever walked into a room and felt the energy shift before you even opened your mouth? In this week’s episode of Living That Life, we are deconstructing the "silent architect" of success: Executive Presence. Whether you are pitching to a board of directors, walking into a high-stakes social event, or leading a team through a crisis, your body language, micro-expressions, and energetic footprint speak louder than your resume ever could. Today, we move past the cliché "fake it 'til you make it" advice and dive into the neurological and psychological frameworks of high-status behavior. We’re teaching you how to occupy space, command respect, and project an aura of unshakeable authority. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: • The Science of "The Entrance": Why the first seven seconds determine your social standing for the rest of the hour. • The Power of Stillness: Why high-authority individuals move less, blink less, and use "deliberate pauses" to control the tempo of a room. • Non-Verbal Dominance: Breaking down the "Open Posture" vs. "Protective Posture" and how to use your physical environment to boost your perceived status. • The Eye Contact Equilibrium: How to use the 80/20 rule to build trust without appearing aggressive. • Energetic Anchoring: A mental ritual to perform before you step through the door so you arrive as the most grounded person in the room. 💭 Do you have any questions or concerns? DM us your thoughts on today’s episode. 📞 Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts or concerns about today’s episode at: https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife [https://www.speakpipe.com/livingthatlife] Resources: Visit our Linktree webpage: https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod [https://linktr.ee/livingthatlifepod] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life newsletter and get my free 'That Life Audit' Template: https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit [https://living-that-life.kit.com/that-life-audit] ✉️ Subscribe to the Living That Life Substack: https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/ [https://livingthatlifepod.substack.com/] Connect with Tamia: Follow Tamia on IG: https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_ [https://www.Instagram.com/tamiamorgan_] Follow Tamia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@tamiamorgan_] Subscribe to Tamia’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_ [https://www.youtube.com/@tamiamorgan_] Sponsors: Her Fantasy Box: Self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity for the woman who is busy building her empire and tending to her soul. Use code “TAMIA31” at checkout get 8% off your purchase to Unlock exclusive sitewide deals and savings on your entire order. https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31 [https://www.herfantasybox.com/TAMIA31] Miss Lola: Use Code 'TAMIAMORGAN_' at checkout to receive 10% off selected collections. Download the Miss Lola app to start happy shopping for Miss Lola's high-quality heels, shoes, boots, accessories & more. https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_ [https://www.misslola.com/TAMIAMORGAN_] CristianZeroTre: Enjoy worldwide free shipping with no additional costs, taxes, or duties imposed. This policy ensures a worry-free shopping experience for their customers. Please utilize the code 'TAMIAMORGAN_' at checkout to receive a 5% discount on your entire order! https://cristianzerotre.com/TAMIAMORGAN_ [https://cristianzerotre.com/TAMIAMORGAN_] Habits365: Transform your everyday routine and empower yourself with clothing that inspires positive change! Take advantage of our exclusive offer, use code 'TAMIAMORGAN' at checkout to unlock 15% off your order. https://habits365.com/ [https://habits365.com/] This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.