LivLive - Ep. 0000041 - Jef Forward

LivLive Ep. 0000043 - Matt Cross

Hockey, Coaching, Leadership & Life with Matt Cross This week on LivLive, I sat down with Matt Cross—hockey coach, trainer, nonprofit leader, cancer survivor, and one of the most influential mentors in youth hockey in North Carolina. What started as a conversation about hockey quickly became a discussion about leadership, culture, parenting, resilience, and the lessons that connect great teams to great businesses. Matt shares stories from growing up in Toronto, building elite hockey programs through Prime Time Hockey and the Raleigh Raptors, overcoming cancer, and launching the Raleigh Testicular Cancer Foundation to help men take ownership of their health. Whether you're a coach, business owner, parent, athlete, or leader, this episode is packed with practical insights on developing people, building culture, and focusing on the process that drives long-term success. * Growing up in hockey-crazed Toronto * The differences between coaching players and leading employees * Why culture matters more than systems * Parenting high-performing young athletes * Building confidence without entitlement * The role of adversity in personal growth * Lessons learned from surviving cancer * The mission behind the Raleigh Testicular Cancer Foundation * Why great leaders focus on process over outcomes * How sports prepare young people for life and business #LivLive #Leadership #Hockey #Coaching #Business #Culture #YouthSports #PrimeTimeHockey #RaleighRaptors #Entrepreneurship #PersonalDevelopment Chapters 00:00 Welcome & Why Hockey Matters Beyond the Rink 01:15 Meet Matt Cross: Coach, Leader, Survivor 05:40 Growing Up in Toronto's Hockey Culture 12:30 Lessons Learned Through Youth Sports 18:45 Coaching vs. Managing People in Business 27:10 Building Team Culture and Accountability 36:20 The Parent-Coach-Athlete Dynamic 46:55 Developing Confidence and Character in Young Athletes 58:40 Cancer, Perspective, and Life Priorities 1:10:15 The Raleigh Testicular Cancer Foundation Story 1:19:00 Leadership Lessons from Sports and Business 1:28:30 NHL Stories, Hockey Community, and Giving Back 1:35:00 Final Thoughts and Where to Find Matt

LivLive Ep. 0000042 - Nick Ruffini

LivLive Episode 42 | Nick Ruffini – Hospitality, Storytelling, and Building Businesses People Actually Care About This week on LivLive, Dave sits down with longtime friend Nick Ruffini for a wide-ranging conversation about hospitality, storytelling, entrepreneurship, customer experience, and the power of human connection in an increasingly automated world. Nick's career has taken him from his family's restaurant business in Philadelphia to professional music, media production, podcasting, brand strategy, and now consulting through The Ruffini Group. Drawing on lessons from hospitality, entertainment, and real estate development, Nick helps organizations create stronger narratives, more memorable customer experiences, and deeper connections with the communities they serve. The conversation explores why hospitality isn't limited to restaurants and hotels, how every business tells a story whether it realizes it or not, and why the companies that win in the future will be the ones that prioritize people over processes. Dave and Nick also discuss entrepreneurship, charging what you're worth, building authentic brands, creating meaningful experiences, the dangers of over-automation, and how business can be a vehicle for serving communities and improving people's lives. Whether you're a business owner, developer, designer, contractor, entrepreneur, or simply interested in creating better experiences for the people around you, this episode offers practical insights and thought-provoking perspectives that extend far beyond business. * Why hospitality is a competitive advantage in any industry * How storytelling influences customer decisions and brand loyalty * The concept of "narrative continuity" across every customer touchpoint * Lessons from the restaurant industry that apply to all businesses * Why many entrepreneurs struggle to charge appropriately for their expertise * The role of human connection in an AI-driven world * How developers, businesses, and communities can benefit from stronger storytelling * The difference between transactions and memorable experiences * Why serving people well remains one of the strongest business strategies available * How business can become a force for community building and positive impact 00:00 Introduction and reconnecting with Nick Ruffini 02:10 The Ruffini Group and helping businesses tell better stories 08:30 From restaurants to music, media, and entrepreneurship 15:20 Life as a professional musician and the realities of the industry 22:15 Building a career through curiosity and reinvention 27:45 Entrepreneurship, pricing, and charging what you're worth 34:20 Hospitality as a business philosophy 39:15 Why customer experience matters more than ever 44:30 Human connection in an increasingly automated world 49:15 Reviews, customer feedback, and authentic brand building 54:00 Storytelling, real estate development, and community engagement 58:30 Business as a tool for serving people and strengthening communities 1:02:00 Final thoughts and where to find Nick Ruffini This is one of those LivLive episodes that moves beyond tactics and gets into bigger ideas about how we build businesses, communities, and relationships that people genuinely want to be part of.

LivLive - Ep. 0000041 - Jef Forward

In Episode 41 of LivLive, Jef Forward joins Dave Pollard for a deep conversation about the evolution of design-build, leadership, company culture, and the future of client experience in the remodeling industry. Jef shares the origin story behind Forward Design Build — from paying his way through architecture school building decks, to realizing traditional architecture firm life wasn’t the right fit, to taking a leap in 1997 after discovering the concept of “design-build” in a magazine article that changed his career trajectory. The conversation explores how personality profiling through DISC has shaped Forward’s internal culture and client communication systems, and how Jef is now integrating AI tools to create more empathetic, personalized communication experiences for both clients and team members. Dave and Jef also discuss scaling a creative company, hiring and leadership challenges, architecture school versus entrepreneurship, and the realities of building a people-first business in a high-stress service industry. This episode is packed with insights for architects, remodelers, entrepreneurs, and anyone interested in leadership, culture, and the intersection of design, technology, and human connection. * How Jef Forward transitioned from architect to design-builder * Why DISC personality profiles transformed team communication at Forward Design Build * How AI can enhance empathy and client experience in service businesses * The realities of scaling from a small team to a 47-person company * Lessons learned from hiring, leadership, and company culture * Why architecture school often prepares people to create — but not necessarily to run businesses * How design-build reshaped the relationship between architects, builders, and homeowners * The importance of creating a stress-free remodeling experience for clients * Why humility and failure often become the foundation for growth Chapters 00:00 – Introduction to Episode 41 00:42 – Meeting Jef Forward Through Remodelers Advantage 02:11 – Using AI to Automate Empathy and Improve Communication 03:10 – DISC Personality Profiles and Client Communication 05:07 – Building Team Culture and Managing a 47-Person Company 07:00 – Architecture School, Creativity, and Deadline Culture 08:08 – Creating a Stress-Free Client Experience 08:33 – Connecting DISC to Leadership and Client Experience Roles 15:04 – The Origin Story of Forward Design Build 19:51 – Discovering Design-Build Through Remodeling Magazine 20:33 – Quitting Architecture Firm Life and Taking the Leap 21:30 – Learning Construction, Remodeling, and Entrepreneurship in Real Time 34:50 – Marketing, Reputation, and Standing Out in Ann Arbor 36:40 – Architecture School vs. Business Ownership 37:30 – Final Reflections on Creativity, Leadership, and Building a Company

LivLive Ep. 0000040 — Peter Barden | HKS, Technology, Stadium Design & Virginia Tech Architecture Stories

In Episode 0000040 of LivLive, Dave reconnects with longtime friend and former Virginia Tech School of Architecture classmate Peter Barden, now a Senior Project Manager with HKS Architects [https://www.hksinc.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com]. What starts as a conversation about architecture school memories and old studio stories quickly turns into a deep discussion about the evolution of the construction and architecture industry over the last 20+ years — from BIM and virtual construction to integrated project delivery, stadium design, adaptive reuse, and the future of technology in the built environment. Peter shares his unique career path moving between architecture firms and major contractors, including experiences at Commonwealth Architects, Hourigan, and HKS, where he’s worked on complex sports and large-scale commercial projects. Dave and Peter also reflect on the culture and educational philosophy of Virginia Tech Architecture, the professors and experiences that shaped them, and how design education influences the way architects think long after school ends. The episode blends serious industry insight with plenty of nostalgia, humor, and behind-the-scenes stories from architecture school, Habitat for Humanity builds, Richmond connections, and the early career paths that shaped both of their journeys. * How BIM and virtual construction transformed commercial architecture and construction * Why construction is simultaneously one of the most advanced and most outdated industries technologically * The realities of coordinating massive sports and commercial projects * How working on stadiums changes the way you experience sporting events forever * The difference between architecture school thinking and real-world project delivery * Why Virginia Tech Architecture created such a unique design mindset * The importance of curiosity, exploration, and learning how to think differently * Lessons from adaptive reuse, historic renovation, and large-scale collaboration * Funny stories and memories from architecture school studio culture and early career life 00:00 — Introduction to Episode 40 & Peter Barden 01:45 — Peter’s career path: architecture, construction & HKS 04:00 — BIM, virtual construction & technology evolution in the industry 08:30 — Integrated project delivery & collaboration challenges 12:00 — Pushing technology beyond current industry standards 16:00 — Virginia Tech Architecture culture & learning how to think differently 20:00 — Curiosity, experimentation & adapting to new technology 24:00 — Student projects, design thinking & adaptive reuse discussions 29:00 — Joining HKS & working in the sports sector during lockdown 33:00 — Stadium design, sports architecture & seeing buildings differently 37:00 — Architecture school professors, studio culture & formative experiences 41:00 — Theoretical architecture education vs. practical application 44:00 — Habitat for Humanity builds & hands-on learning experiences 48:00 — Richmond memories, old apartments & architecture school reunion stories

LivLive Ep. 0000039 - Jake Harris

In this episode of LivLive, Dave sits down with Jake Harris—builder turned entrepreneur—to unpack a journey that feels increasingly relevant across the construction industry: moving from building homes to building technology. Jake’s path started in the trenches as a builder, where he experienced firsthand the friction, inefficiencies, and financial gaps that small construction businesses face every day. That real-world perspective led him into the world of fintech, where he’s now developing tools like Build Wallet and Project Wallet—solutions designed to fix how money moves through construction projects. This conversation goes beyond just “builder to tech founder.” Dave and Jake dig into the deeper why: the broken payment structures in construction, the risks contractors carry, and how better systems could fundamentally change the industry. They also explore what it actually takes to make the leap—from operator to entrepreneur to product builder—and why more builders may be uniquely positioned to drive the next wave of innovation. If you’re in design-build, construction, or even adjacent to the industry, this episode will challenge how you think about money, risk, and opportunity in your business. * Why the construction payment system is fundamentally broken—and who it hurts most * How a builder’s perspective can lead to powerful tech innovation * The real risks contractors take on with cash flow and project financing * What Build Wallet and Project Wallet are solving in the industry * The mindset shift from building projects to building companies and products * Why more builders may move into tech and entrepreneurship 00:00 – Intro & Episode Setup Dave opens the show and introduces Jake Harris—builder, entrepreneur, and fintech founder. 01:00 – From Builder to Tech Entrepreneur Jake shares his background in construction and the early signs that something wasn’t working in the industry. 04:30 – The Problem with Construction Payments Breaking down the structural issues in how money flows through projects—and why it creates risk for builders. 10:15 – Where Builders Get Burned Real-world examples of cash flow pressure, delayed payments, and financial exposure. 16:40 – Identifying the Opportunity How Jake recognized the gap and began thinking about solutions beyond the jobsite. 21:30 – Building Build Wallet & Project Wallet What these platforms do, who they’re for, and how they aim to fix payment inefficiencies. 28:45 – Fintech Meets Construction Why construction is ripe for disruption—and why it’s been slow to change. 35:20 – The Leap into Entrepreneurship What it actually takes to transition from operator to founder, and the risks involved. 42:10 – Advice for Builders Looking to Innovate Jake’s perspective on where opportunity exists today for builders willing to think differently. 48:00 – The Future of Construction Finance Where things are heading and what a better system could look like. 52:30 – Closing Thoughts Final reflections on entrepreneurship, industry change, and building what’s next.