Different Houses, Different Rules: When Co-Parenting Hurts Your Teen

Different Houses, Different Rules: When Co-Parenting Hurts Your Teen

“My ex and I have a teenage son, and when he’s at his dad’s house there are basically no rules—he’s allowed to stay up all night gaming, skip homework, and even miss school sometimes. When he comes back to me, he’s exhausted and falling behind in classes. I’ve tried talking to my ex, but he just says I’m being controlling and that our son needs ‘freedom.’ Is there anything I can do legally to address this, or is this something the court won’t get involved in?" ____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a parent’s concern about inconsistent parenting between households. One parent enforces structure and school expectations, while the other allows late nights, missed homework, and even skipping school—leaving their teen struggling academically and exhausted. Jessica explains when courts will step in on parenting style disputes and when they typically won’t. She breaks down the difference between general disagreements and situations that may impact a child’s health, education, or well-being, which can justify legal intervention. She also discusses practical options, such as documenting concerns, requesting modifications to the custody or parenting plan, and how judges evaluate what’s truly in the best interest of the child.  Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/] Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/]

Hidden Income in Divorce: What Happens If My Spouse Lied?

“I just found out during our divorce that my spouse has been doing side work for cash and never disclosed it—possibly for years. We already exchanged financial disclosures, and he swore everything was complete. What can I do if I think he’s hiding income, and will the court actually do anything about it?" ____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s concern about a spouse who may be hiding income during a divorce. After exchanging financial disclosures, the listener discovered evidence of cash side jobs that were never reported—raising serious questions about honesty, support calculations, and the division of assets. Jessica explains what legal obligations spouses have when completing financial disclosures, what happens if someone intentionally leaves out income or assets, and how courts typically respond to allegations of hidden earnings. She also discusses the tools available to uncover undisclosed income—such as subpoenas, bank records, forensic accounting, and discovery requests—and the potential consequences if the court determines a spouse was not truthful under oath. Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/] Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/]

Stay-at-Home Parent & Alimony: Am I On My Own After Divorce?

“I’ve been a stay-at-home mom for the past 12 years while my husband built his career and income. Now he’s filed for divorce and is telling me I need to ‘just get a job’ and that he’s not going to pay alimony because I’m capable of working. I haven’t been in the workforce in over a decade and gave up my career to raise our kids and support him. Does the court actually take that into account, or am I expected to just figure it out on my own?" ____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a deeply personal question from a listener who spent 12 years as a stay-at-home mom while her spouse built his career. Now facing divorce, she’s being told to simply “get a job” and that alimony isn’t on the table. Jessica explains how courts evaluate spousal support, especially when one partner stepped away from the workforce to raise children and support the household. She breaks down the key factors judges consider—such as the length of the marriage, earning capacity, contributions to the family, and time needed to re-enter the workforce—and whether a stay-at-home parent is expected to become immediately self-sufficient. Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/] Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/]

Moving Out Before Divorce: Is It a Legal Mistake Without an Agreement?

“My husband and I are separated but still living in the same house for financial reasons. He just told me he’s planning to ‘temporarily’ move out and stay with a friend—but refuses to sign anything about custody or finances first. I’m worried this is a setup and he’ll come back later claiming I kept the kids from him or took over the house. Should I let him leave without a formal agreement in place, or is that a huge mistake" ____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about a risky situation many separating couples face: one spouse moving out before anything is formally documented. When finances are tight and emotions are high, it can be tempting to “figure things out later”—but informal arrangements can quickly lead to disputes over custody, finances, parenting time, and possession of the home. Jessica explains what legal issues can arise when a spouse leaves the marital home without a written agreement in place, and why documenting temporary arrangements can help prevent future claims or misunderstandings. She also discusses how courts view temporary living situations, parenting schedules, and household expenses while a divorce is pending—and what steps can help protect both parents and children during the transition.  Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/] Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/]

Primary Custody vs. Relocation: Can My Ex Actually Stop Me?

“I have primary custody of my 4-year-old, and my ex has recently started exercising more visitation after barely being around for years. Now I’ve been offered a job out of state near my family, and he’s suddenly threatening to block the move and ‘take me to court for full custody.’ Can he actually stop me from relocating if I’ve been the primary parent all along?" ____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about relocating with a young child when the other parent suddenly becomes more involved. After years of limited involvement, the ex is now exercising more visitation and threatening to block an out-of-state move—and even seek full custody. Jessica explains how courts evaluate relocation requests, even when one parent has primary custody. She breaks down what judges look at, including the child’s best interests, the history of each parent’s involvement, the reason for the move, and how the move will impact the parent-child relationship. She also addresses whether a parent can realistically stop a move or use it as a basis to seek a custody change. Contact Us: https://andersonkeuscher.com/ [https://andersonkeuscher.com/]