Standards vs. Feelings | Preferences, Non-Negotiables & Boundaries

Deal or No Deal | Knowing When to Walk Away

This episode was REAL, hilarious, passionate, and packed with wisdom. In Episode 5 of the If Not Book Club, we welcomed special guest Elder James L. Styles III as we unpacked Chapter 5: Deal or No Deal. Between the laughter, corny jokes, and honest moments, we discussed the importance of knowing who you are, what you stand for, and why boundaries matter. Because if you stand for nothing, you’ll fall for anything. We talk about how compromising your standards is ultimately disrespecting yourself and what God has for you. Elder Styles brought a powerful male perspective as we tackled accountability, growth, change, and the false narratives society pushes—like “people can’t change” or “once a cheater, always a cheater.” This conversation tied perfectly into the previous chapter on boundaries and challenged listeners to stop settling and start walking in purpose and discipline. #IfNotBookClub #DealOrNoDeal #Boundaries #MansGloryPodcast

Standards vs. Feelings | Preferences, Non-Negotiables & Boundaries

This episode was DEEP. In Episode 4 of the If Not Book Club, we unpack Chapter 4 and officially welcome our first guest of the season—Jazz’s grandmother, Bobbie Durkins. With three generations of women at the table, this conversation became powerful, emotional, hilarious, intentional, and incredibly real. We discuss preferences, non-negotiables, and boundaries—what they are, how they develop, and why standards matter more than temporary feelings. From growing up without a mother, to building boundaries through experience, to raising daughters with wisdom and strength, each generation shares how their experiences shaped the next. This episode is a reminder that healing, standards, and self-worth don’t appear overnight—they’re learned, lived, and passed down. Don't forget to grab your copy of If Not: Making Peace With God's Timing from my website at https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1 [https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1] and Amazon. We have hardcover, paperback, PDF, and digital. Get your copy today! #IfNotBookClub #Boundaries #Standards #MansGloryPodcast

What If I Missed It? | Fear, Timing, and Trusting God Anyway

“You can’t miss what God has for you.” In Episode 3 of the If Not Book Club, we dive into fear, doubt, timing, and the dangerous mindset that somehow God’s plan can slip past us. We discuss how disappointment and setbacks can make us question if we missed our opportunity—but the truth is, what God has ordained for you cannot be stolen by timing, people, or circumstance. Jazz shares a personal reflection about a grant opportunity she poured her heart into that ultimately fell through because other parties failed to complete their portions. The lesson? You cannot control other people’s actions—only your own obedience, preparation, and effort. This episode is a reminder to resist doubt, reject the spirit of error, and trust that God has already worked things out. Your consequences and rewards are tied to the steps you take and the choices you make. Go grab your copy of If Not: Making Peace With God's Timing ! You can grab your copy from my website: https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1 [https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1] #IfNotBookClub #TrustGodAnyway #FaithOverFear #MansGloryPodcast

When the Dream Goes Silent | Did God Forget Me

In this episode of the If Not Book Club, we dive into Chapter 2 and tackle the silence that often follows disappointment, delay, or unanswered prayers. We also make it clear: If Not is not just a book about dating or for women—it’s about spiritual growth, identity, surrender, and understanding who you are in Christ. We discuss the difference between grieving a lost dream and recognizing when something may not have been God’s will in the first place. Sometimes silence isn’t abandonment—it’s instruction, protection, or redirection. This episode challenges listeners to stop forcing what God may be trying to remove and learn how to move faithfully through seasons of silence. Grab your copy of If Not: Making Peace With God's Timing via Amazon and https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1 [https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1] #IfNotBookClub #GodsTiming #FaithInTheWaiting #MansGloryPodcast

The Dream I Had Before I Knew Better | When Desire Isn't Aligned Yet

Season 4 is officially here—and the If Not Book Club begins! In Episode 1, we introduce what’s ahead this season and dive into Chapter 1 of If Not: Making Peace With God’s Timing. We talk about the dreams, expectations, and timelines many of us create early in life—only to later realize that love, purpose, and success rarely unfold on our schedule. This episode challenges listeners to release idolized timelines, trust God’s divine order, and understand that delay does not mean denial. Sometimes what we wanted was real—but incomplete. We also discuss how God may keep us from certain things to protect us or refine us. Closing reminder: Sometimes the first heartbreak isn’t losing a person—it’s losing the timeline you built in your head. But when God removes your version, it may be because He’s protecting the real one. Grab your copy of If Not: Making Peace With God's Timing from Amazon or from Jasmine Styles Consulting Firm at https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1 [https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1] #IfNotBookClub #GodsTiming #FaithJourney #MansGloryPodcast #TrustTheProcess