Marriage and Menopause Episode 17: The Medical System Failed Women in Perimenopause

Marriage and Menopause Episode 17: The Medical System Failed Women in Perimenopause

Women in perimenopause are losing bone density, cardiovascular protection, and brain function right now. And most of them still don't know why. In this episode Judy and David tell the truth about what the medical system got wrong and never corrected. In 2002 one study scared an entire generation of doctors away from prescribing estrogen. That study has been largely debunked. Doctors are still leading with the same fear in 2026.  Judy had two frozen shoulder surgeries. Trigger thumb surgery. Years of pain. All of it connected to estrogen loss. Nobody connected those dots for her. She blamed herself. Women over 40 across this country are doing the same thing right now. There is a nationwide shortage of estrogen patches while erectile dysfunction medication sits fully stocked on every pharmacy shelf. Women in perimenopause are one of the biggest spending demographics in the country and the system still can't be bothered to meet the demand. This episode is for women in perimenopause who want to understand what happened to their bodies. It's for the husbands who watched their wives suffer through something they couldn't explain and want to finally understand why. And it's for every man who wants to be the variable that changes his wife's outcome. BE THAT MAN!!! Comment COUPLES to receive the free Menopause for Men Playbook. Read it before her next appointment. Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296] Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4N3M9sJAhQ0oHWY4jQrnPy [https://open.spotify.com/show/4N3M9sJAhQ0oHWY4jQrnPy] If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home. This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working. Stronger marriages. Direct conversations. No avoidance. We Deserve Better.

Marriage and Menopause Episode 16: Men! Stop Making Perimenopause Worse

Husbands, if you're trying to help and it's making everything worse, nobody told you the truth. You're not failing. You're just climbing the wrong mountain. In this episode, Judy and David speak directly to the men standing at the bottom of something they don't understand. You've read about perimenopause. You've tried to support your wife. And somehow every move you make seems to backfire. This is the episode that changes that. You'll learn the five moves that actually work when perimenopause hits your marriage: stop diagnosing her, stabilize yourself first, become safe to tell the truth to, lower pressure without sending an invoice, and leave the door open without living in the doorway. This is the framework that survives perimenopause and comes out stronger on the other side.  Whether you're the confused husband, the frustrated wife, or the couple wondering how to navigate this together, this episode gives you the map. Perimenopause doesn't have to destroy your marriage. But it will demand that you both show up differently. GET THE FREE RESOURCE: Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft [https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft] Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust [https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust] Join the Couples Operating System: marriageandmenopausepodcast.com LISTEN NOW and comment: What's the one thing you wish your partner knew about perimenopause and what you're going through? If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home. This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working. Stronger marriages. Direct conversations. No avoidance. We Deserve Better.

Marriage and Menopause Episode 15: My Husband Accidentally Diagnosed My Perimenopause. Our Doctor Never Did

In 2020 Judy and David were emailing each other about their sex life. Trying to schedule intimacy. Tracking pain on a scale of 1 to 10. Writing drafts for weeks before hitting send. They were doing everything right. And the word perimenopause never appeared once. Because nobody gave it to them. This episode is built from those real emails. The ones they wrote to each other while perimenopause was quietly disconnecting their 23-year marriage one inch at a time. No script. No performance. Just two people reading their own words back and seeing clearly now what they could not see then. Hindsight is 20/20. And what they see now makes them furious. Judy had years of surgeries and treatments that a single hormone prescription could have prevented. They spent more than a year in therapy digging out from damage that should never have happened. Her symptoms were treated. She was not. If your marriage feels like two roommates lately. If intimacy has quietly disappeared and neither of you knows how to say it out loud. If you are doing everything right and nothing is working. This episode is for you. You are not broken. You are not incompatible. You are undiagnosed. And you deserved better information than the system gave you. Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html [https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html] Couples Operating System: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html [https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html] If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home. This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working. Stronger marriages. Direct conversations. No avoidance. We Deserve Better.

Marriage and Menopause Episode 14: Men Lost Their Minds and Explained MY BODY to me

Judy shared a reel about losing her desire during perimenopause. She said she missed it. She explained how she wanted it back in 2020. She discussed how HRT treatment helped. The response? So many comments, including men explaining menopause to a woman who was living through it. In Episode 14, Judy and David read real comments and take on five of the biggest myths about menopause, intimacy, hormones, marriage, and women's health. Myths covered: * Women stop wanting sex after 50 * Hormones are just an excuse * Loss of desire means she's cheating * Women should simply accept it * Men are the real victims of menopause This episode is about facts, relationships, and what actually happens when hormones change. If you are navigating perimenopause, menopause, low desire, painful intimacy, relationship challenges, or trying to understand what your spouse is going through, this one is for you. Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html [https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html] If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home. This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working. Stronger marriages. Direct conversations. No avoidance. We Deserve Better.

Marriage and Menopause Episode 13: Lisa Lounsbury Talks Menopause With Us

Perimenopause is ending marriages that should not end. In this episode, Judy and David sit down with Lisa Lounsbury, resilience and well-being expert and founder of New Day Wellness Inc., and she says the things most couples never hear until it is too late. This is a clips episode. Real conversations. Grey divorce. Hormone decline in both partners. Why men need time to catch up. Why listening is the actual fix. What losing intimacy looks like from the husband side. What thriving after menopause actually looks like.  Lisa found us on Instagram and YouTube. She is at @the_wellness_lady on Instagram. Her website is newdaywellness.ca. If your husband is trying to figure out what perimenopause is doing to your marriage, this episode is for him. If you are the wife who has been carrying this alone, this episode names what you are living. If you are the couple who almost did not make it, this episode shows you the other side exists. Everything we are building for couples navigating perimenopause together is at MarriageAndMenopausePodcast.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296] Follow on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast New episodes every Tuesday. If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home. This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working. Stronger marriages. Direct conversations. No avoidance. We Deserve Better.