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She had a million dollars in her account and she was convinced she'd lose her house by the end of the month. That's not a financial problem. That's grief lying. And if you don't know how to recognize it, you'll either rush your client into decisions she'll regret, or lose her trust entirely. Episode Summary In this episode, Brandon L. Hayes, CFP, founder of Compass Financial Group and author of You're Not Alone, shares what 26 years of working almost exclusively with widows has taught him about grief and financial decision-making. Brandon's perspective is personal: he lost his father at 13 and watched a trusted advisor help his family stay financially whole. That experience became a calling. He breaks down why the traditional planning process doesn't fit widows, what grief lies look like in practice, which financial landmines to watch for in the first months after a loss, and how advisors and adult children can support without taking over. This is essential listening for any advisor who works with clients navigating the widow transition. About Brandon L. Hayes Brandon L. Hayes, CFP, is the founder of Compass Financial Group in Evansville, Indiana, where he has specialized in working with widows for over 26 years. His calling began at age 13 when his father passed away, and he witnessed firsthand the stabilizing impact a trusted financial advisor had on his family. Brandon is the author of You're Not Alone, a guide he describes as a ministry and a mission: walking widows through the financial decisions that can't wait and the ones that can, in plain language. The financial advisor who helped his mother through that season is now Brandon's own client. What We Cover * Why the financial planning process, with its timelines and checklists, is structurally incompatible with grief, and what advisors can do instead * The concept of grief lies and why even high-net-worth clients can believe they're about to go broke * The only things that actually need to happen in the first days after a spouse dies, and why everything else can wait * River widows vs. root widows: two grief patterns that determine how quickly clients make decisions * How to uncover hidden benefits including accidental death policies, club memberships, and digital accounts that can add thousands or hundreds of thousands to a settlement * How adult children can cross the line from helpful to harmful, and what healthy family support actually looks like * The organized crime schemes targeting widows, including a scam that ended with criminals physically walking off a porch with $150,000 in gold Resources Mentioned * You're Not Alone by Brandon L. Hayes: Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Alone-Financial-Navigating/dp/B0GS4X4446/] * ynabook.com [https://www.ynabook.com], Brandon's book website with free resources and chapter overview Connect with Brandon Hayes * Website: www.ynabook.com [https://www.ynabook.com] * Email: brandon@ynabook.com * Phone: 800-967-5250 * Firm: Compass Financial Group [https://www.ynabook.com/aboutcompassfinancialgroup], Evansville, Indiana Support the show [https://www.milliondollarproducershow.com]
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