Episode 11: Finding Your Tribe vs Embracing Diversity and How Identity Creates Culture

Episode 14: Collective Wisdom in the Age of AI & the New Feminine Frontier w/ Carissa Karban

In this episode, Carissa Karban — co-founder of Astrapuffs, speaker, embodiment practitioner, and so much more! — joins us to discuss: her journey from an unconscious Enneagram 8 to a loving challenger; the impact of astrology, human design, and Enneagram on her personal growth; the role of games in shaping behavior and identity. She also takes us on an exploration of the potential impact of AI and virtual worlds on human interaction and the creation of a shared world for humans and AI. The conversation delves into the influence of AI on human experience, the impact of collective informing on AI, embodied wisdom and healing, shifting from othering to collaboration, and rituals for embodiment and connection. The discussion explores the intersection of technology, human emotion, and societal values, emphasizing the importance of collective input and the integration of masculine and feminine energies. We delve into emotional expression through music, the importance of a support network, the power of storytelling and emotional flow, shadow work, the relationship with emotions and healing, AI and its relationship to objects, defining success and radical presence, and an overview of the Astrapuffs game. Learn more about Astrapuffs here - https://astrapuffs.com/ [https://astrapuffs.com/] Connect with Carissa - https://www.linkedin.com/in/carissakarban/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carissakarban/] ✨ We will be co-hosting a retreat with Carissa this Fall! Join our newsletter → https://modernsacred.substack.com/ [https://modernsacred.substack.com/] to stay up-to-date on that and so much more! Plus, when you sign up you will receive our amazing Women's Empowerment Playlist for FREE! Takeaways * The transformative journey from an unconscious Enneagram 8 to a loving challenger. * The potential impact of AI and virtual worlds on human interaction and behavior. The impact of AI on human experience * The importance of embodied wisdom and healing Emotional expression through music can aid in processing and transitioning between different emotional states. * The importance of radical presence and defining success based on alignment and love. Chapters * 00:00 Introduction to Carissa Karban * 06:04 The Intensity and Softness of Type Eight Personalities * 18:04 The Impact of AI and Virtual Worlds on Human Interaction * 24:19 Creating a Shared World for Humans and AI * 31:20 Embodied Wisdom and Healing * 57:31 Rituals for Embodiment and Connection * 01:02:59 Relationship with Emotions and Healing * 01:19:55 Defining Success and Radical Presence

Episode 13: The Healing Power of Female Friendship and Collective Care

What if friendship matters more to our wellbeing than achievement? In this episode, Chelsea and Abby reflect on the healing power of their 3-day girls trip and talk about female friendship, in-person connection, and redefining success outside of hustle culture. They explore why quality time with people you love feels so different from online interaction, and how modern culture often pushes us toward productivity instead of presence. The conversation touches on burnout, belonging, reciprocity, neurodiversity, and the quiet healing that happens when you feel truly seen by your community. This episode also explores: * Why female friendship is essential for emotional wellbeing * The difference between transactional relationships and genuine reciprocity * How slowing down can feel radical in a productivity-obsessed culture * The importance of finding people who honor your natural pace and energy * Why success may have more to do with connection than accomplishment If you’ve been feeling disconnected, burned out, or craving deeper relationships, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective on friendship, feminism, community, and what actually nourishes us. ---------------------------------------- ✨ Free Gift + Stay Connected Join the Modern Sacred newsletter and receive our Women’s Empowerment Spotify Playlist for free: → https://modernsacred.substack.com/ [https://modernsacred.substack.com/] ---------------------------------------- Mentioned Links + Resources Jam out, cook, and unwind with Flavour Trip — two slow-travel DJs blending live house music and cooking from around the world: → https://www.youtube.com/@flavourtrip [https://www.youtube.com/@flavourtrip] Want to experience the gift economy in action? Watch the most unexpectedly hilarious and heartwarming birdwatching documentary on YouTube for free: → https://youtu.be/zl-wAqplQAo?si=Qm1YPVFfrHkaJrYE [https://youtu.be/zl-wAqplQAo?si=Qm1YPVFfrHkaJrYE] ---------------------------------------- Topics covered: female friendship, burnout, hustle culture, in-person connection, neurodiversity, reciprocity, emotional wellbeing, slow living, feminism, community, belonging, authentic relationships, redefining success ---------------------------------------- Chapters: 00:00 Cultural Expectations Around Productivity and Pace 23:11 The Gift Economy and Nourishing Relationships 59:09 The Power of Connection and Gratitude

Episode 12: Can You Trust AI? Chatbot Safety, AI Bias & Critical Thinking with Dr. Sarah Carter

In this episode, Dr. Sarah Carter — ICF-trained empowerment coach, AI ethics expert, and founder of Purposely Digital — joins us for a powerful conversation on ChatGPT safety, AI bias, critical thinking, emotional evolution, and the importance of staying deeply human in a rapidly digitizing world. Together, we explore burnout as a catalyst for transformation, the spiritual connection to nature, and how technology is shaping parenting, relationships, emotional health, and the way we think. Dr. Carter unpacks AI ethics, surveillance capitalism, data privacy, media literacy, and fact-checking through both a practical and deeply reflective lens. We also discuss feminist perspectives in AI ethics, the role of intuition and discernment in the digital age, and why critical thinking may be one of the most essential skills for the future. In this episode: * Can you trust AI and ChatGPT? * How AI bias impacts everyday life * Surveillance capitalism and data privacy * Parenting and technology in the digital age * Spirituality, emotional intelligence, and AI * The value of women’s emotional labor and human connection ✨ Join us live on June 11th, 2026 for an upcoming workshop with Dr. Sarah Carter on how to use technology intentionally as a modern woman. Details + registration at www.ModernSacred.com/events [https://www.modernsacred.com/events] Visit Dr. Sarah Carter's Website [https://purposely-digital.com/] Subscribe to Dr. Carter's Substack Newsletter [https://substack.com/@purposelydigital] -- Chapters: 00:00 Spiritual Connection to Nature 22:17 Ethical Principles in AI 36:05 Surveillance Capitalism and Data Privacy 45:02 Fact-Checking and Media Consumption 53:07 Critical Thinking and Emotional Evolution 01:08:54 Spirituality and AI 01:16:03 AI and Emotional Evolution 01:26:25 Women’s Work and Human Connection 01:34:25 The Power of Human Connection

Episode 11: Finding Your Tribe vs Embracing Diversity and How Identity Creates Culture

Does culture shape who we are—or do we shape culture by choosing where we belong? In this episode, we explore the tension between finding your tribe and embracing diversity, and how identity and shared values create culture over time. We break down how geography, environment, and personal values influence where people choose to live, who they surround themselves with, and how distinct cultures naturally form. From Salt Lake City to more progressive urban centers like Portland, we unpack the subtle ways people cluster around shared beliefs—and what that means for belonging, division, and connection. This conversation dives into the psychology of “us vs. them” thinking, including how othering and projection show up in everyday life. We explore the inner conflict of wanting diversity while also craving alignment—and why it’s natural that you won’t resonate with everyone. But this isn’t just about culture—it’s about your internal world. True acceptance of diversity doesn’t start externally—it begins with embracing the full range of emotions within yourself. We discuss: * The role of anger, emotional extremes, and self-expression * Why suppressing parts of yourself leads to projection onto others * The concept of “transcend and include”—integrating all parts of who you are * How self-awareness and self-acceptance lead to personal growth and maturity Ultimately, this episode is about learning how to: Find your people without rejecting others—and embrace differences without losing yourself. If you’ve ever struggled with belonging, identity, or feeling caught between individuality and connection, this conversation will challenge the way you think about culture, diversity, and who you are. ---------------------------------------- ✨ Free Gift + Stay Connected Join the Modern Sacred newsletter to stay up to date with everything we’re creating—and receive our Women’s Empowerment Spotify Playlist for free: → https://modernsacred.substack.com/ [https://modernsacred.substack.com/] ---------------------------------------- Topics covered: culture and identity, finding your tribe, diversity and inclusion, belonging, emotional intelligence, anger and emotions, projection psychology, self-awareness, personal growth, cultural evolution, assimilation vs individuality ---------------------------------------- Chapters: 00:00 Exploring the She Economy 06:07 Emotional Space and Self-Reflection 13:19 Materialism and Self-Worth 22:31 Nuances of Projection and Self-Reflection 29:10 Progressive vs Conservative Cities 39:59 Freedom and Wounds of a Young Country 49:54 Embracing Complexity and Self-Acceptance 55:41 Unapologetic Self-Expression and Cultural Diversity 01:03:29 Transcendence and Inclusion 01:15:27 Transcending and Including Diverse Perspectives

Episode 10: Your Blueprint, Your Life: Reclaim Your Inner Voice & Redefine Success with Dani Ragel

We are thrilled to have Dani Ragel join us on the Modern Sacred: Women's Work Podcast! Dani shepherds women to their inner architect, helping them reclaim the blueprint of a life that’s fully their own without the programming and conditioning from external sources. Through deep, intuitive coaching rooted in human design, Dani guides women back to the wisdom they already carry to find their answers, not someone else's, and into lifelong change. In this episode, Dani shares her process for raising her energetic frequency, reclaiming authentic self-expression, and the power of inner work to redefine your version of success. To learn more about Dani and her offerings, visit her website at: https://www.daniragel.com [https://www.daniragel.com] ✨ Join the Modern Sacred newsletter to stay up to date with everything we are creating and receive our Women’s Empowerment Spotify Playlist for free. Subscribe to our newsletter → https://modernsacred.substack.com/ [https://modernsacred.substack.com/] Chapters * 29:59 The Work of Relationships * 47:14 The Importance of Community and Connection * 53:24 Embracing Messiness and Multi-Dimensionality * 59:04 Letting Go of Control and Being Present * 01:22:10 Material Success vs Energetic State