Processing and Healing Trauma: Supporting Ourselves and Our Kids in Uncovering our Past with Dr. Kirby Wycoff

Bridging the Confidence Gap: Mentorship Hacks for Empowerment

This week on Mother Up, we’re unlocking the secret to boosting confidence through mentorship with the incredible Illana Raia, CEO of Être. Illana shares how the right mentors can bridge the “confidence gap,” especially for girls navigating life’s challenges. We also get real about Illana’s journey, from her high-powered career as a lawyer to the unexpected twists of motherhood. Transitioning between these two worlds wasn't easy, and finding the right support system made all the difference. Illana breaks down how mentors can provide crucial exposure and feedback that fosters self-belief and why confidence is directly linked to having role models. If you’re ready to learn how mentorship can transform self-esteem for you or the next generation, this episode is for you! Topics discussed include: * Battling impostor syndrome in different stages of life * Illana’s real talk on balancing career and motherhood * How mentors can bridge the “confidence gap” * The state of confidence among girls today * The importance of exposure and feedback for building confidence * Why mentorship is a game-changer for long-term success Connect with Illana: * ⁠Être Website [https://www.etregirls.com/about⁠] * Illana Raia’s Website [https://www.illanaraia.com/⁠ ] Connect with Kacie & Gianna: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] View full show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.motheruppod.com]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are BIG BELIEVERS in therapy here at Mother Up. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ]and enjoy a special discount on your first month. If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/ [https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/]

Processing and Healing Trauma: Supporting Ourselves and Our Kids in Uncovering our Past with Dr. Kirby Wycoff

Dr. Kirby L. Wycoff, a leading expert in child trauma and mental health, is here to help you navigate tough conversations with your kids. Join us for a candid discussion where she'll share practical tips and strategies to support your child's emotional well-being.  As a mom herself (to a baby girl), Dr. Wycoff brings a unique blend of professional expertise and personal experience to our discussion. Let's explore together how to support our kids during times of crisis and help them build resilience. Topics discussed include: * Trauma as it relates to us and our children * Practices to help process trauma for ourselves and model positive behavior for little ones * The uniqueness of trauma and how it affects everyone differently * How proximity and media play roles in how we experience trauma * Dandelion vs orchid kids * Building and supporting emotional regulation and emotional agility in children * Intergenerational trauma * Communicating with children when it comes to collective traumatic events Resources:  * Support for Parents and Carers - The Barking Dog vs the Wise Old Owl [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCVEebavSyY] * The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma [https://amzn.to/3ZfY2iq] * HUNT, GATHER, PARENT: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us about Raising Children [https://amzn.to/3sR1ZOj] * National Association of School Psychologists (NASP). [https://www.nasponline.org/] * How childhood trauma affects health across a lifetime -Nadine Burke Harris Ted Talk [https://www.ted.com/talks/nadine_burke_harris_how_childhood_trauma_affects_health_across_a_lifetime] Connect with Kirby: * Key Point Consulting: https://keypointconsulting.org/kirby [https://keypointconsulting.org/kirby].  * Kirby on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrKirbyLWycoff [https://twitter.com/DrKirbyLWycoff]  * Kirby on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirbywycoff [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirbywycoff]  * Essentials of Trauma- Informed Assessment and Intervention in School and Community Settings (Essentials of Psychological Assessment) [https://www.amazon.com/Trauma-Informed-Assessment-Intervention-Essentials-Psychological/dp/1119274613/ref=sr_1_1?qid=1694381498&refinements=p_27:Kirby+L.+Wycoff&s=books&sr=1-1] Connect with Kacie & Gianna: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] View full show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.motheruppod.com]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are BIG BELIEVERS in therapy here at Mother Up. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ]and enjoy a special discount on your first month. If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/ [https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/]

Break Free from Emotional Trauma and Live with Confidence

Many of us have felt the weight of overwhelming emotions like anxiety, guilt, anger, and fear. These emotions can often keep us from addressing our needs, desires, or expectations in relationships, leading to feelings of isolation and disconnection– something we don’t need more of in motherhood. In this episode, we're joined by our emotional freedom expert, Eliah Prichard, to explore the power of emotional healing, effective strategies for regulating emotions, and creative coping techniques to support your well-being. Let's break free from emotional roadblocks together, mamas! Tune in now. Topics discussed include: * Being grateful for your trauma * How childhood trauma can affect you * Learning how to process emotional energy * Developing effective parenting and secure attachment * Addressing behaviors as a parent * How children process grief * Regulating your emotions as a parent * Starting with self-awareness * Your emotions aren’t going to go away; they transform Connect with Eliah: * Eliah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaleidos.cope [https://www.instagram.com/kaleidos.cope] * Eliah on Youtube: https://youtube.com/@thekaleidoscopechannel [https://youtube.com/@thekaleidoscopechannel?si=Rf3l5d6Tm-GLOEyk] * Eliah on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kaleidos_cope [https://www.tiktok.com/@kaleidos_cope] * Kaleidoscope Website: https://www.kaleidos-cope.com  [https://www.kaleidos-cope.com] Connect with Kacie & Gianna: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] View full show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.motheruppod.com]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are BIG BELIEVERS in therapy here at Mother Up. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ]and enjoy a special discount on your first month. If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/ [https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/]

Holiday Survival Guide - Secret Hacks for a Stress-Free Season!

With the holidays fast approaching, Kacie and Gianna are back to help you navigate the busy season! This episode is packed with practical tips on preparing for fall, from getting your home ready for Halloween to finding time for yourself and your loved ones. They dive into how moms and dads often handle holiday prep differently, and the common challenge many moms face when it comes to asking for much-needed alone time. Plus, they share a great rule of thumb for balancing family time without feeling anxious and overwhelmed. Get ready to enjoy a stress-free, meaningful holiday season! Topics discussed include: * Fall preparations and arrangements * The concept of moms and dads functioning differently * The idea of moms don’t feel like they could ask for free time * Anxious attachment and abandonment issues * The feeling of grief * What is a great rule of thumb when it comes to setting time for your loved ones? * Halloween preparations (decors and dressing up) * Celebrating the Christmas season Connect with Kacie & Gianna: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] View full show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.motheruppod.com]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are BIG BELIEVERS in therapy here at Mother Up. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ]and enjoy a special discount on your first month. If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/ [https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/]

Goodbye Stress, Hello Better You with Cortisol Control

We all know that sleep, stress, and productivity are intertwined, but do we really understand how much they affect each other? This episode welcomes Rachel Sanders, the founder of Rootine, who has made it her mission to tackle these everyday struggles. Rachel dives deep into how cortisol, the “stress hormone,” impacts your health—especially your sleep and productivity. We talk about simple ways to manage cortisol and how your morning coffee might not be helping as much as you think. Plus, Rachel shares tips on staying productive and finding balance, even when life feels overwhelming. Listen to this episode and take control of your health, one small change at a time! Topics discussed include: * Understand why managing cortisol is crucial for your overall health. * Discover simple methods to balance your cortisol levels. * Learn how high-intensity workouts might worsen cortisol issues. * How elevated cortisol affects your sleep quality. * Why incorporating rest time is essential for managing stress and boosting productivity. Resources: * Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelsopsanders [https://www.instagram.com/rachelsopsanders ] * Rootine Website: https://rootine.co/ [https://rootine.co/ ] Connect with Kacie & Gianna: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@motheruppod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] View full show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.motheruppod.com⁠⁠⁠ [www.motheruppod.com]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are BIG BELIEVERS in therapy here at Mother Up. Let our sponsor BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ [https://betterhelp.com/motherup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ]and enjoy a special discount on your first month. If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/ [https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/]