Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

580 - Actually, You Should Be Testing Your Partner

1 h 3 min · 26 de may de 2026
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Have you ever tested a partner? Found yourself engineering a situation, dropping a hint, waiting for them to text first, all so you can see if they're as committed to you as you are to them? Uncertainty is hard in relationships, and if we don't feel safe enough to ask directly, we sometimes test our partners in ways that are sneaky, manipulative, and frankly, exhausting for everyone involved. This week, we're discussing why the urge to test a partner is actually quite normal, going over what research says about the different kinds of tests people use and what they might reveal, and things you can do instead when you feel the desire to start testing a partner. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com [https://multiamory.supercast.com]. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health [https://vb.health/discount/multi?utm_source=multiamory] with promo code MULTI., Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube [https://www.uberlube.com/] and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORY Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass [https://multiamory.link/masterclass]. Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare [https://multiamory.link/skillshare]. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand [https://joshandanand.bandcamp.com/music]. Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast [https://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast/] and visit our website Multiamory.com [https://www.multiamory.com]. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts [https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/] network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

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