NEVER Say This When Negotiating â It KILLS the Deal!
"Hey, Dojo! In todayâs video, Iâm going to show you two deadly negotiation mistakes that can instantly kill your deal â whether you're buying real estate, a used car, or even flipping a bicycle! Iâve done it all â sold ATVs, trucks, real estate, you name it â and Iâve seen these same mistakes ruin deals over and over again.""If youâre trying to get a great price but you say either of these two things â you might as well light your cash on fire. Stay with me, because at the end of this video, Iâll tell you exactly what to say instead to close more deals, get massive discounts, and build real trust with sellers."đ« MISTAKE #1: Dissing the Property"Mistake number one: talking trash about the product or property.""Letâs say youâre buying a car. Most buyers say things like:âOh, the paint is fadingâŠââThis truckâs too big for meâŠââThereâs a dent over hereâŠâWhat are they really trying to do? Negotiate the price. But hereâs the truthâŠ""That NEVER works. When you start criticizing the item, all you're doing is making the seller defensive. You're not negotiating â youâre insulting. You're saying, âWhat you own is garbage, so give it to me cheaper.â""Iâve sold big rigs, cars, businesses, and even real estate â and the moment someone came at me like that, my mental wall went up. Iâm thinking:âYou drove 4 hours from Houston for this deal, and now youâre trying to lowball me by disrespecting what I built?â""I had people show up to buy one of my trucks during my massive liquidation sale. I was selling stuff at 10â20 cents on the dollar after being betrayed by my own family. And even then â people showed up saying,âItâs automatic? I wanted stick.ââItâs got scratches.ââIâll have to replace the bed.âAnd guess what? I didnât want to sell to them."đš MISTAKE #2: Attacking the Sellerâs Ego "Mistake number two â and this is even worse â is attacking the sellerâs ego.""When you diss their property, some sellers will take it personally â especially if that house, car, or truck represents years of hard work, memories, or sacrifice.""As an investor, Iâve seen people inherit homes after a death in the family, go through divorce, or in my case â after betrayal from people I loved and built my businesses for. Selling wasnât just business⊠it was emotional.""When someone walks in and trashes what youâve built â itâs like theyâre saying you are worthless. And when that happens, even if your offer was good, the seller is done. Youâve lost the deal.""In negotiation, youâre not just talking numbers. Youâre dealing with pride, ego, and emotion â and if you bruise that, game over."
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WHAT TO DO INSTEAD "Now â hereâs what to do instead."Start with compliments.âThis is a solid machine. I like the way you kept it up.ââYou really took care of this property â thatâs clear.âBuild rapport first.Ask about their story:âWhat made you decide to sell?ââHow long have you owned this?âLet them talk. The more they talk, the more you learn â and the easier it is to find their motivation without disrespecting their asset.Negotiate with logic, not emotion.Say things like:âBased on what I need to fix, Iâm looking at $X to make this work. Does that sound fair?ââHereâs what I can do today â no bank, no delay, just a clean deal.â"Thatâs how you win the deal without burning the bridge. You walk away with a property, car, or business â and they walk away respected. Thatâs how Iâve done hundreds of deals.""Quick recap before we go:Never diss the property. It makes you look desperate and rude.Never attack the ego. Sellers are human â you bruise their pride, you lose the prize.""If you flip bikes, houses, or negotiate with motivated sellers, this tip will save you thousands. The real pros donât use punches â they use precision."
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