The Four Absolutes: Unselfishness (Part 3 of 4)

Dream Big, Then Dream Bigger

For years, I’ve told my children: “Dream big, because once you get there, you’ll realize you didn’t dream big enough.” In this episode, I share how addiction, abuse, fear, and hopelessness once limited my vision of what was possible—and how growth expanded that vision. From recovery to golf to life itself, I’ve learned that every goal we reach reveals an even bigger dream on the other side. If you’re struggling to see a way forward, this conversation is a reminder that your current circumstances don’t define your future. Give yourself permission to dream, take action, and discover what’s possible beyond where you are today. Because no matter where life has taken you, you’re Never Out of Bounds.   Sponsor: Skull and Bogeys Golf Co. Premium golf apparel built on resilience, recovery, and second chances. Save 15% with code NEVEROUTOFBOUNDS: https://www.skullandbogeys.com/discount/NeverOutOfBounds [https://www.skullandbogeys.com/discount/NeverOutOfBounds]

Getting Unstuck: A Path to Help and Hope

In this powerful episode of Never Out of Bounds, Ralph opens up about what it really means to feel stuck — whether in addiction, depression, abuse, fear, anxiety, hopelessness, or simply feeling unable to move forward in life.   Through deeply personal stories of homelessness, sexual abuse, active addiction, and emotional paralysis, Ralph shares the moment he learned that asking for help is not weakness — it’s survival.   This episode is a raw conversation about shame, fear, vulnerability, and the life-changing power of finally saying: “I’m not okay. I need help.”   If you’ve ever felt trapped in your own mind or overwhelmed by life, this episode is for you.   You are not alone. You are not beyond hope. And you are Never Out of Bounds. Patreon link for support: https://www.patreon.com/c/NeverOutofBounds [https://www.patreon.com/c/NeverOutofBounds]

The Four Absolutes: Love (Part 4 of 4)

In this episode of Never Out of Bounds, Ralph Perkins explores the final of the Four Absolutes—love—and why it’s often the most misunderstood. Moving beyond emotion and convenience, this conversation breaks down love as a principle and daily choice, not just a feeling.   Building on honesty, purity, and unselfishness, Ralph shares real-life perspective on how true love is revealed through action, intention, and consistency—even when it’s difficult.   If you’re focused on personal growth, recovery, and learning how to show up differently in your life and relationships, this episode offers a powerful and honest look at what real love actually requires.   Because no matter where you are… you are Never Out of Bounds.

The Four Absolutes: Unselfishness (Part 3 of 4)

In this episode of Never Out of Bounds, Ralph continues the series on the Four Absolutes passed down to him by his first sponsor: Honesty, Purity, Unselfishness, and Love. Unselfishness is often misunderstood. Many people believe it means putting yourself last or giving until there’s nothing left. But real unselfishness isn’t self-destruction—it’s learning to move beyond self-centered living while still taking care of yourself. Ralph reflects on his journey through addiction and recovery, sharing how asking for help became one of the most unselfish decisions he ever made. Through personal experience and lessons from the golf course, he explores how shifting from “What can I get?” to “What can I give?” begins to change everything. Because when honesty reveals the truth, and purity clarifies our intentions, unselfishness begins to grow—and love follows. No matter where you are in life, you are Never Out of Bounds. 🎙️

The Four Absolutes: Purity (Part 2 of 4)

What does purity really mean? In this episode of Never Out of Bounds, Ralph explores the second of the Four Absolutes—Purity—and why it has more to do with intention than perfection. Purity isn’t about never making mistakes. It’s about learning to examine our motives and asking an honest question: Am I doing the next right thing for the right reason? Drawing from recovery, personal experience, and lessons from the game of golf, Ralph reflects on the tension between ego and purpose, and how life becomes simpler when our inner motives begin to align with our outward actions. “Honesty shows us where we are. Purity helps us straighten our aim.” Because in recovery—and in life—the goal isn’t perfection. It’s simply learning to do the next right thing for the right reason. Next in the series: The third absolute — Unselfishness. What happens when life stops being about what we can get… and starts becoming about what we can give. If something in this conversation resonated with you, consider sharing the episode with someone who might need it. If you’d like to support the podcast and help us continue these conversations, you can find us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/NeverOutofBounds   Recovery • Personal Growth • Addiction Recovery • Spiritual Growth • Second Chances