1024 | Choosing Who I Want to Be in the Face of Uncertainty with Carly Carey

1024 | Choosing Who I Want to Be in the Face of Uncertainty with Carly Carey

In this episode, Marsha speaks with Carly Carey. Carly is a real estate Team Leader and speaker based on Vancouver Island, known for her ability to build meaningful relationships and create experiences rooted in care and connection. After being diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer while travelling in Japan on her birthday, Carly’s life took an unexpected turn. What followed was a period of uncertainty, delayed treatment, and deep reflection that reshaped how she chose to live. Out of that experience, Carly co-created Carly’s House with her husband, a home they are renovating to offer comfort and support to cancer patients receiving treatment in their community. What began as a personal challenge has become a way to give back and create something meaningful for others walking a similar path. Through her work and her story, Carly speaks to the power of choice in the face of the unknown and what it means to build a life that is not only successful but deeply aligned and impactful. Chapters: [13:21] Carly's Life-Changing Diagnosis [14:54] The Diagnosis and Its Impact [28:20] Creating Carly's House: A Vision for Cancer Patients [46:07] Finding Clarity in Crisis: The Power of Choice Connect with Carly: Podcast Guest Website: https://www.carlycarey.com [https://www.carlycarey.com] Carly’s House Blog: https://www.carlycarey.com/blog/carlys-house.html [https://www.carlycarey.com/blog/carlys-house.html] Podcast Guest’s Email: carly@carlycarey.com [carly@carlycarey.com] IG: https://www.instagram.com/carlycareyrealestate/ [https://www.instagram.com/carlycareyrealestate/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carlycareyrealestate?_r=1&_t=ZS-95BKybNcouQ [https://www.tiktok.com/@carlycareyrealestate?_r=1&_t=ZS-95BKybNcouQ] Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG. Click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube. Click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1023 | You Cannot Outdo Who You Are Being

In this episode, Marsha explores the powerful connection between identity and personal transformation, emphasizing the truth that you cannot outperform the identity you currently hold about yourself. She dives into the gap that often exists between who people say they want to become and the version of themselves their subconscious mind still believes they are. Marsha unpacks how many individuals pursue new levels of success, visibility, leadership, or growth while unconsciously holding onto outdated beliefs, stories, and self-perceptions that no longer align with their future vision. She explains how this internal conflict can create resistance, self-sabotage, and emotional exhaustion, even when the right strategies and actions are in place. Throughout the episode, Marsha highlights the importance of identity work, emotional regulation, support, and repetition in creating lasting change. She encourages listeners to reflect on the stories they continue to rehearse internally and on whether their current identity truly matches the future they desire to create. Chapters: [01:08] - Identity Work and Personal Growth [03:56] - Understanding Identity and Support in Business Growth [08:35] - Identity Transformation and Rewiring [09:38] - Understanding Identity and Transformation [11:31] - Shifting Identity and Personal Growth Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1022 | The Journey Beyond 1000 Podcasts

This episode is a reminder that your vision does not have to make sense to everyone else for it to matter. Marsha reflects on the milestone of recording over 1,000 podcast episodes — a feat achieved by only a small percentage of podcasters — and shares the importance of consistency, commitment, and believing in your message even when others do not fully understand it. Through personal reflection, she encourages listeners to stop seeking external validation and instead stay connected to the deeper reason behind what they create. This episode is about trusting your path, honouring your vision, and continuing to show up for what matters to you. Chapters: [02:00] - The Journey of Podcasting: Insights and Reflections [04:04] - The Importance of Sharing Your Voice [05:34] - Legacy of Unspoken Stories [08:08] - Embracing Change: The Journey of Transitioning Programs [10:11] - Embracing Your Journey Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1021 | Self-Trust is How We Build from Within with Kristie Crate

Kristie Crate lives where the trees outnumber the houses, and the wind through the pines is a steady reminder to slow down. She walks the space between who she has been and who she is becoming, alchemizing lived experience into wisdom. Her days are layered, not divided. Mother. Wife. Nurse. Co-owner of a construction company. Photographer. Coach. Each role an instrument she picks up with intention. At the core of it all is one belief: self-trust changes everything. When a woman remembers who she is beneath the conditioning and noise, she becomes grounded and powerful. Kristie believes healing and building are the same sacred practice, and the result is legacy. To experience Kristie is to feel both roots and expansion, evolving on purpose, not away from her life, but deeper into it. Chapters: [03:14] - Introducing Kristie Crate: A Journey of Transformation [08:57] - The Journey of Thriving: From Struggles to Transformation [19:04] - From Pain to Purpose: The Journey of Trust [21:45] - The Journey of Belonging [27:06] - Introduction to Built from Within Program [35:34] - Living at Cause: Taking Responsibility for Our Lives [36:28] - Mindset and Agency: Owning Your Choices [45:13] - The Journey of Growth and Choices Connect with Kristie: Email:kristiecrate@gmail.com [kristiecrate@gmail.com] Website: https://www.oaklandnorthremodelling.com/courses/built-from-within [https://www.oaklandnorthremodelling.com/courses/built-from-within] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristiecrate| [https://www.instagram.com/kristiecrate%7C] Kristie’s Freebie – What is Your Renovation Language:https://app.quizitri.com/render/c31f767f-b667-4de8-a0e9-d9ed6725b5ea [https://app.quizitri.com/render/c31f767f-b667-4de8-a0e9-d9ed6725b5ea] Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Join us for Heart-Wired CEO Live 2026: https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur] Unbothered Mind Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/OUTSPOKENNLP] Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/the-stories-we-tell-ourselves]. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG. Click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube. Click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1020 | The 95%: Why Your Subconscious Mind Runs Your Life

In this episode, Marsha dives into one of the most important conversations in personal growth, leadership, and transformation: the difference between what your conscious mind wants… and what your subconscious mind believes is safe. She explains how the conscious mind is responsible for setting goals, creating visions, and deciding what you desire for your life — but the subconscious mind is the part actually running the patterns, habits, emotional reactions, and behaviours that determine whether you move toward those goals or away from them. Marsha breaks down how so many people unknowingly sabotage the very things they say they want, not because they lack motivation or strategy, but because their subconscious programming is still rooted in fear, limitation, predictability, and protection. This episode is a powerful reminder that transformation is not simply about setting bigger goals — it’s about becoming the version of yourself who feels safe enough to receive them. If you’ve ever wondered why you continue repeating the same patterns despite how much you consciously want change, this conversation will help you understand why. Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]