68: STOP. Collaborate and Listen

68: STOP. Collaborate and Listen

Yes. I am quoting Vanilla Ice. Yes, it shows my age. I don't care. Because before you roll your eyes and keep scrolling... I need you to actually stop and listen to what I'm about to say. This might be the most important conversation we've had on this podcast yet. Your ideal clients are out there right now. They are spending money. They are trusting other businesses with their time, their attention, and their wallets. And they have absolutely no idea you exist. Not because your work isn't good enough. Not because your prices are too high. Not because the market is too saturated. Because you are waiting to be found instead of going where they already are. This episode isn't about strategy. I'm not handing you a script today. What I AM doing is dismantling the mindset that is quietly keeping your business smaller than it deserves to be — because no amount of strategy works until this part does. We're talking about fear. Rejection. What it actually costs you to stay invisible. And why Jen Gottlieb is right when she says that being found isn't just a goal — it's your responsibility. The how is coming. And when it does, it's going to change everything. But first — we fix the brain. Tits up and ears open. Timestamps: 00:00 Podcast Intro 00:45 Owning My Blind Spots 06:27 Why Collaboration Works 07:34 Responsibility To Be Found 13:12 Interruption Vs Trust 16:23 Fear Of Rejection 17:22 Rejection Therapy Lessons 20:40 Pitch The Gap 26:25 One Small Next Step 28:38 Wrap Up And Resources 30:00 Subscribe And Goodbye 🔗 Connect with Jodi: 📸 Website: https://www.j-annephotography.com [https://www.j-annephotography.com] 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography [https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography] 🔗 Resources mentioned: Jen Gottlieb Keynote → https://www.instagram.com/p/DZk6hWRvSDr/ [https://www.instagram.com/p/DZk6hWRvSDr/] Jia Jiang - What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection (TED Talk) → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ] Adam Grant - How to Pitch Your Best Ideas → https://www.ted.com/talks/worklife_with_adam_grant_how_to_pitch_your_best_ideas [https://www.ted.com/talks/worklife_with_adam_grant_how_to_pitch_your_best_ideas] Love this kind of coaching? Make sure you’re on my newsletter list where I share the behind-the-scenes of launches, pricing, posing psychology, and what it really takes to scale a photography business with soul. 📣 Help Spread the Word! The Mastermind Waitlist → If this episode lit something up for you, if you recognized yourself in the pattern of working hard without seeing the growth you know you're capable of the Posers Mastermind is where we fix that. This is my most comprehensive program for photographers who are done leaving money on the table and ready to build a business with actual strategy behind it. We go deep on marketing, lead generation, content, email, sales psychology, pricing, client experience, and the mindset it takes to run a profitable company, not just a busy one. Everything I taught in this episode is just the surface of what we build together inside. I built this business as a single mom of three boys with no fallback plan and no safety net. Failure genuinely was not an option. The strategies I teach inside the Mastermind are the same ones that turned my camera into a career, my career into a company, and my company into a life I'm incredibly proud of. If you're ready to stop hoping the bookings come and start building the machine that makes them get on the waitlist for the next round. https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist [https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist] The Posing Method → My signature course that teaches you how to pose the brain instead of the body so you can drop dopamine and oxytocin in the first two minutes of a shoot and completely transform your galleries. https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method [https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method] Pass Platinum → Stop scrambling for a last-minute sale. Use my link to get 2 months of Platinum free WITH A MONEY BACK GUARANTEE when you start collecting cash on autopilot. https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral [https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral]

067: How $1k Vintage Dishes Turned Into a Lesson on Marketing

I was supposed to go to Lowe's. My husband and I were out running errands and I remembered that Grouse House an antique and vintage home goods warehouse that an interior design client had been telling me about for weeks was having a sale. So I made an executive decision that a Saturday at a gorgeous warehouse full of vintage European furniture sounded a lot better than a Saturday looking at plastic planters under fluorescent lighting. I did not expect to spend a thousand dollars. I also did not expect to walk out with a collaboration in the works, a lunch date on the calendar, and a Matriarch session booked. But that's what happened. And in this episode I'm walking you through the whole thing the DMs, the content, the collab pitch that happened mid-candle-order because I think the way it unfolded is more useful to you than any strategy I could draw up on a whiteboard. I also want to talk about something my girl Laura Stansberry brought up in my Posers membership when I shared this story, because she named a pattern that I know a lot of you are stuck in too, where you try to do a collaboration, end up giving away a free session, get one post out of it, and never hear from them again. That's not a collaboration. And by the end of this episode you'll know exactly what the difference is. Here's what we're getting into: * Why I've always treated every room I walk into as a room full of my next clients and how that mindset was born when I was shooting weddings * The behind-the-scenes content habit that has done more for my personal brand than any portfolio post ever has * What actually happened at Grouse House and why the alignment between our businesses made everything easy * The real DMs including the part where I pitched a collaboration in the same message where I was ordering a candle * How the Matriarch session got booked without a single sales conversation * The difference between a collaboration and an influencer deal (this one is important) * A 7-step playbook you can take and use in your own market today This is one of those episodes where the story is the strategy. I hope it makes you want to get your boots on the ground. Timestamps: 00:00 Podcast Intro 00:42 What Collaboration Means 03:14 Weddings As Client Rooms 05:08 Working The Room 07:27 Warehouse Sale Story 12:25 Content That Builds Trust 21:21 DMs And The Soft Pitch 24:53 Avoiding Freebie Traps 28:16 Collab Is Access Exchange 31:15 Seven Step Playbook 38:17 Wrap Up And Call To Action 40:31 Outro And Reviews 🔗 Connect with Jodi: 📸 Website: https://www.j-annephotography.com [https://www.j-annephotography.com] 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography [https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography] Love this kind of coaching? Make sure you’re on my newsletter list where I share the behind-the-scenes of launches, pricing, posing psychology, and what it really takes to scale a photography business with soul. 📣 Help Spread the Word! The Mastermind Waitlist → If this episode lit something up for you, if you recognized yourself in the pattern of working hard without seeing the growth you know you're capable of the Posers Mastermind is where we fix that. This is my most comprehensive program for photographers who are done leaving money on the table and ready to build a business with actual strategy behind it. We go deep on marketing, lead generation, content, email, sales psychology, pricing, client experience, and the mindset it takes to run a profitable company, not just a busy one. Everything I taught in this episode is just the surface of what we build together inside. I built this business as a single mom of three boys with no fallback plan and no safety net. Failure genuinely was not an option. The strategies I teach inside the Mastermind are the same ones that turned my camera into a career, my career into a company, and my company into a life I'm incredibly proud of. If you're ready to stop hoping the bookings come and start building the machine that makes them get on the waitlist for the next round. https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist [https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist] The Posing Method → My signature course that teaches you how to pose the brain instead of the body so you can drop dopamine and oxytocin in the first two minutes of a shoot and completely transform your galleries. https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method [https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method] Pass Platinum → Stop scrambling for a last-minute sale. Use my link to get 2 months of Platinum free WITH A MONEY BACK GUARANTEE when you start collecting cash on autopilot. https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral [https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral]

066: Pratt Boy Summer

Apparently we're having a Pratt Boy Summer. Not because Spencer Pratt should be mayor of Los Angeles. But because he accidentally became one of the most fascinating marketing case studies I've seen all year. After stumbling across a breakdown of his campaign, I realized something that photographers, business owners, and creators need to hear: The market doesn't always reward the most qualified person. It rewards the person people can't stop talking about. In this episode, we're unpacking cult psychology, audience building, attention economics, reality television, Taylor Swift, Apple, political campaigns, and why Spencer Pratt seems to understand something about human behavior that most business owners completely miss. We'll talk about belonging, common enemies, shared language, building a world around your brand, and the surprising reason some people become impossible to ignore while others stay invisible despite having more talent, experience, and expertise. And yes... We're also talking about the confidence of a mediocre white man. Tits up and ears open. Timestamps: 00:00 Graduation Emotional Whiplash 03:19 Spencer Pratt Case Study 07:20 Attention Beats Qualifications 08:48 Belonging Over Agreement 11:07 Own The Villain 12:47 Create A Common Enemy 15:57 Shared Language Signals 17:39 Build A Brand World 19:57 Mediocre White Man Confidence 26:06 Be Impossible To Ignore 🔗 Connect with Jodi: 📸 Website: https://www.j-annephotography.com [https://www.j-annephotography.com] 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography [https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography] Love this kind of coaching? Make sure you’re on my newsletter list where I share the behind-the-scenes of launches, pricing, posing psychology, and what it really takes to scale a photography business with soul. 📣 Help Spread the Word! The Mastermind Waitlist → The Posers Mastermind is sold out for this round, but you can always hop on the waitlist for next year!! Join the waitlist so you don’t miss the next round. https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist [https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist] The Posing Method → My signature course that teaches you how to pose the brain instead of the body so you can drop dopamine and oxytocin in the first two minutes of a shoot and completely transform your galleries. https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method [https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method] Pass Platinum → Stop scrambling for a last-minute sale. Use my link to get 2 months of Platinum free WITH A MONEY BACK GUARANTEE when you start collecting cash on autopilot. https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral [https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral]

065: Proof Your Clients Will Spend More

Over Mother’s Day weekend, I forced my boys to watch The Devil Wears Prada with me… and somewhere between the marble countertops, Milan fashion houses, and casual “weekend at Lake Como” energy, I realized this movie perfectly explains luxury psychology. Because luxury buying behavior is not just about money. It’s about aspiration, belonging, identity, status, emotional experience, and the environments we’re invited into. In this episode, I’m unpacking: • Why humans are naturally wired to aspire upward • The psychology behind luxury buying behavior • Why people buy within the environment you create for them • How photographers accidentally cap their own revenue • Why trying to drastically raise your prices overnight will tank your business • The difference between simply charging more and creating a buying environment that supports higher spending • Why your current “budget clients” may actually be capable of spending far more than you realize I also share a real story involving two clients from the exact same affluent private school — one who thought nobody would ever spend $5K on senior photos… and another who spent $5,500 without blinking. Same level of wealth. Completely different buying environment. And honestly? That story alone might completely change how you think about pricing, luxury, and client psychology. If you’ve ever wondered how photographers create high-ticket sales without alienating their current clients… this episode is your proof. Timestamps: 00:00 Studio Drama Update 02:22 Luxury Series Setup 02:53 Devil Wears Prada Lesson 06:23 Why We Aspire Upward 09:27 The How Question 11:08 Pricing Structure First 14:35 Two Clients Case Study 20:48 Lead Clients Upward 🔗 Connect with Jodi: 📸 Website: https://www.j-annephotography.com [https://www.j-annephotography.com] 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography [https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography] Love this kind of coaching? Make sure you’re on my newsletter list where I share the behind-the-scenes of launches, pricing, posing psychology, and what it really takes to scale a photography business with soul. 📣 Help Spread the Word! The Mastermind Waitlist → The Posers Mastermind is sold out for this round, but you can always hop on the waitlist for next year!! Join the waitlist so you don’t miss the next round. https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist [https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist] The Posing Method → My signature course that teaches you how to pose the brain instead of the body so you can drop dopamine and oxytocin in the first two minutes of a shoot and completely transform your galleries. https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method [https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method] Pass Platinum → Stop scrambling for a last-minute sale. Use my link to get 2 months of Platinum free WITH A MONEY BACK GUARANTEE when you start collecting cash on autopilot. https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral [https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral]

064: Champagne Taste, Hold the Beer Budget

Luxury is not an all-white studio and a good logo. In part two of this luxury series, I’m diving into the thing photographers overlook the most when trying to attract higher-end clients: the client journey. Because luxury is rarely one big dramatic thing. It’s usually a thousand tiny details working together to make people feel taken care of. In this episode, we’re talking about: • Why affluent clients are really buying emotional certainty • The subtle details that increase perceived value • Hospitality, presentation, and why your energy matters more than you think • The difference between “expensive” and truly luxurious • Why some brands simply feel elevated from the very first interaction I’m also sharing the story behind the highest sale I’ve ever had inside of my studio… which happened right in the middle of recording this luxury series. Funny how that works. If you’ve ever wondered why some photographers feel instantly premium before you even inquire… this episode is going to connect a lot of dots. Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to Posers 00:42 Luxury Is a Mindset 03:20 Recap of Part One 06:01 Record-Breaking Sale 08:39 Client Journey Matters 09:33 Luxury Starts Before Inquiry 15:24 Lead the Booking Call 17:52 Styling and Planning 19:59 Shoot Day Execution 21:27 Energy Is the Product 24:18 Reveal and Presentation 25:28 Consistency Builds Value 26:52 Next Week and Outro 27:27 Final Sign-Off 🔗 Connect with Jodi: 📸 Website: https://www.j-annephotography.com [https://www.j-annephotography.com] 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography [https://www.instagram.com/j.annephotography] Love this kind of coaching? Make sure you’re on my newsletter list where I share the behind-the-scenes of launches, pricing, posing psychology, and what it really takes to scale a photography business with soul. 📣 Help Spread the Word! The Mastermind Waitlist → The Posers Mastermind is sold out for this round, but you can always hop on the waitlist for next year!! Join the waitlist so you don’t miss the next round. https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist [https://j-anne-photography.kit.com/posers-waitlist] The Posing Method → My signature course that teaches you how to pose the brain instead of the body so you can drop dopamine and oxytocin in the first two minutes of a shoot and completely transform your galleries. https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method [https://j-annephotography.com/the-posing-method] Pass Platinum → Stop scrambling for a last-minute sale. Use my link to get 2 months of Platinum free WITH A MONEY BACK GUARANTEE when you start collecting cash on autopilot. https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral [https://success.passgallery.com/jodianne-platinum-referral]