*REPLAY* Calloused Hands and Clarity.... Rub me right cause pleasure is productive!

*Replay* Gaslighting And The Apology You Will Never Get

Heeeey Grown Folk!!! This week’s episode is a replay of Episode 32, originally uploaded on 05/30/2025 — and baby, we’re talking about the games people play. On this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray gets real about manipulation in dating: why it happens, how people disguise it, and the red flags you need to catch early… because sometimes it’s not love, it’s a whole mind game. Then we get into how the internet might be ruining the art of flirting. When did simply liking somebody’s story become “shooting your shot”? Are we losing real connection in the age of social media convenience? And of course, things heat up when we talk reciprocation in the bedroom. If energy, effort, and pleasure aren’t being matched… what are we really doing here? For this week’s Grown Convo, we unpack the weight of the apology you may never receive — learning how to stop waiting for closure from other people and start giving it to yourself. So grab your drink, your smoke, your snack, or whatever your vibe is, and come kick back with your virtual homegirl Tierra Laray for another grown, honest, funny, and unfiltered conversation. No judgment, just vibes… cause biiiiish, We MF Grown. 🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode. ⭐ If you’re loving the vibe, leave a rating and review — that’s how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep these conversations going. 📲 Follow and connect: 🎧 Follow the podcast page: @ratedmcausewemfgrown 👑 Follow the host: @tierralaray 📬 DM your dating horror stories/advice letters or email them to: ratedmcausewemfgrown@gmail.com 📲 You can also text or call in your Dating Horror Story, Sex Fail, Advice Letters *Don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeMFGrown and tag us — let us know what you think of this week’s episode!

Ep. 61 Hoodwinked, Bamboozled, Led Astray

Heeey Grown Folk!!! This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray dives head first into the internet firestorm surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant and the controversy over her doctorate credentials. But baby… this conversation gets WAY deeper than one person. We’re talking about how social media has created a world where followers, confidence, aesthetics, and popularity can matter more than actual qualifications. Have we confused influence with intelligence? Are people more loyal to relatability than honesty? And why do so many people blindly follow internet gurus, relationship coaches, podcasters, and motivational speakers without fact-checking ANYTHING? 👀 The grown-folk conversation gets REAL as we unpack: 🔥 Lived experience vs formal education 🔥 Pretty privilege in social media influence 🔥 Why people trust charisma over credentials 🔥 Elitism in the Black community 🔥 The obsession with titles, status, and appearing successful 🔥 Whether someone can be helpful AND problematic at the same time 🔥 Why people put influencers on pedestals and live by everything they say You know Tierra Laray had to give you a fire High Strain of the Week along with the High Thought. This episode is funny, messy, thought-provoking, and a little low vibrational 😭 because let’s be honest… some of y’all don’t want experts, y’all want somebody with good lighting and confidence. If you’ve ever questioned social media culture, internet therapists, fake gurus, or why society worships popularity over truth, this is the episode for you. 🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode. ⭐ If you’re loving the vibe, leave a rating and review — that’s how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep the conversations going. 📲 Follow and connect with us: @TierraLaray Podcast: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown Join our Private FB Group: www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown [http://www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown] 💬 Got a dating horror story, need advice, want to vent, or give somebody their flowers? Call or text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303 or email it to ratedmcausewemfgrown@gmail.com Tag a friend, share this episode, and join the conversation. No Judgment.... Just Vibes 💨 #WeMFGrown

*REPLAY* Calloused Hands and Clarity.... Rub me right cause pleasure is productive!

Heey Grown Folk this week's episode is a replay of Episode 29 published May 9th 2025. It’s a Mother’s Day episode, but we grown so you know Tierra Laray had to sprinkle a lil shea butter and shade on it. First of all… moisturize y’all damn hands. Tierra Laray talks about having a man rub on her with callouses so rough she thought she was getting exfoliated mid-foreplay . PSA: lotion is love. Then we get into a real grown convo about what being a provider actually looks like and we are not talking about who pays for dinner. Tierra Laray shares examples from her own life where provision showed up as presence, protection, peace… and yes, sometimes pressure. To top it off, we dive into the art of pleasure as productivity — and yes, we mean manifestation orgasms. Pleasure is powerful, sis. That release ain’t just physical, it’s energetic. So go ahead and moan with intention. It’s funny, it’s unfiltered, it’s full of love and grown-ass lessons. You already know the vibe: Grown, Sexy, no fluff, all facts. We gone laugh, heal, sip, and smoke... Tap in, Talk Shit, and join the Grown Convo Follow the podcast page: @ratedmcausewemfgrown [https://instagram.com/ratedmcausewemfgrown] Follow the host: @tierralaray [https://instagram.com/tierralaray] DM your dating horror stories/advice letters or email them to: ratedmcausewemfgrown@gmail.com Don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeMFGrown and tag us — let us know what you think of this week's episode! You can also call and tell us your dating horror stores/sex fails/advice on the Rated M/Grown Folk Hotline 770-580-0303 Don't forget to use the hashtag #WeMFGrown tag @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown and let us know what you think of this week's episode. Want to be a guest on the show? Book your guest slot Https://linktr.ee/ratedmcausewemfgrown Short story sex fails book Welp... That Did Not End Well, self care journals for men and women, and children's books  ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/KissedbyTierraLaray⁠⁠ [https://linktr.ee/KissedbyTierraLaray] No Judgement, Just Vibes #WeMFGrown

* Replay* You Are A Walking Billboard... Dress Like You're Already Famous

This week's episode is a Replay of Ep.22 which aired 01/26/2024 Heeey Grown Folk!! On this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray, sits down and has a grown convo with the incredible Dash, mother and mastermind behind "Style Me Dash." Together, they delve into the intricacies of dating and parenting while building a flourishing business empire. Dash shares the secrets behind her fashion venture's success, and the dynamic duo addresses the pressing question of why some black women compete instead of collaborating. Join the conversation for a dose of inspiration, laughter, and the empowering vibes you can only find here. It's all about love, style, and breaking barriers on this episode that's not to be missed! Tap in and... Follow the guest IG: @thestylemedash FB: Style Me Dash Shop www.stylemedash.com Follow the Podcast Page on IG @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown  Follow the host @TierraLaray  DM your dating horror stories or email them to ratedmcausewemfgrown@gmail.com You can also call and tell us your dating horror stores/sex fails/advice on the Rated M/Grown Folj Hotline 770-580-0303 Don't forget to use the hashtag #WeMFGrown tag @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown and let us know what you think of this week's episode. Want to be a guest on the show? Book your guest slot Https://linktr.ee/ratedmcausewemfgrown Short story sex fails book Welp... That Did Not End Well, self care journals for men and women, and children's books  ⁠https://linktr.ee/KissedbyTierraLaray⁠ [https://linktr.ee/KissedbyTierraLaray] No Judgement, Just Vibes #WeMFGrown

EP. 58 Solo, Surface Level, but still in My Bag

In this solo episode, Tierra Laray pulls up by herself and clears the air, no confusion, no speculation. She addresses why she’s recording solo again and speaks openly about the shift with her former cohost, giving listeners the clarity before they start asking questions. But don’t get it twisted… the vibes are STILL intact. From there, she taps into the internet chaos surrounding Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson, breaking down the drama, the discourse, and what it really says about a lot of people's character who create think pieces or have distasetful things to say about both parties. Then we get into a real grown conversation: being physically attractive but emotionally unavailable. Tierra Laray gets real with herself in this segment and gives herself a list of things to do to work on getting past that surface level with potential suitors. Tierra Laray reads a wild listener dating horror story that’ll have you side-eyeing people that put their phone face down while on dates 👀 and reminds you why discernment is a non-negotiable. To wrap it all up, she delivers a fire High Strain of the Week 🌿🔥 and a thought-provoking High Thought to leave you thinking long after the episode ends. This episode is honest, a little messy, a lot of truth—and exactly what you needed. 🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode. ⭐ If you’re loving the vibe, leave a rating and review that’s how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep the conversations going. 📲 Follow and connect with us: Host: @TierraLaray Podcast: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown Join our Private FB Group:⁠⁠www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown⁠⁠ [http://www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown] 💬 Got a dating horror story, need advice, want to vent, or give somebody their flowers?Call or text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303 Tag a friend, share this episode, and join the conversation 💯 Press play, get into it, and don’t forget... No Judgement Just Vibes Cause Biiiiiish We MF grown. 💋