Raised in the 80s: From Rubik's Cube to House Music and Hip Hop

The King v The Prince: The Story of Him

Michael vs Prince: The Story of HimFew cultural debates have endured longer than the question: Michael Jackson or Prince?In this episode of Raw and Refined: The Gentlemen’s Hour, Rich, John, and Greg revisit one of the greatest rivalries in music history and examine the lasting impact of two artists who transformed popular culture. More than a comparison of hit records and album sales, this conversation explores what Michael Jackson and Prince represented to a generation of Black Americans coming of age during the 1980s and 1990s.From Thriller and Bad to 1999 and Purple Rain, the gentlemen discuss artistry, musicianship, performance, innovation, business ownership, cultural influence, and legacy. Was Michael the greatest entertainer of all time? Was Prince the ultimate musical genius? Why did so many fans feel compelled to choose a side? And how have our perspectives changed as we’ve gotten older?Along the way, the conversation touches on Black excellence, creativity, masculinity, identity, and the unique ways these two icons challenged expectations while inspiring millions around the world.Whether you were Team Michael, Team Prince, or simply loved them both, this episode is a thoughtful and nostalgic look at two legendary artists whose influence continues to shape music and culture today.Pour your favorite drink, pull up a chair, and join us for another raw truth conversation delivered with a refined perspective. Question of the Episode: If you could only keep one catalog for the rest of your life, would you choose Michael Jackson or Prince? Thank you from Raw and Refined. Please like, comment, subscribe and share with men who might benefit from this episode or this podcast! You can check out the video of this episode on our YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/@RawandRefinedTGH]. This episode is brought to you by Holver Travel [https://www.holvertravel.com]

Check Your Circle: How to Spot a Frenemy - and Be a Better Friend

In this episode of Raw and Refined: The Gentlemen’s Hour, Rich, Greg, and John take an honest look at one of the most uncomfortable relationship dynamics adults face: the frenemy. Inspired by the thought-provoking article from The Atlantic, “How to Spot a Frenemy—and Be a Real Friend,” the fellas break down the difference between genuine friendship and relationships built on competition, jealousy, manipulation, and hidden resentment. From workplace politics and social circles to long-term friendships and personal insecurities, the conversation explores how frenemies can quietly impact our peace, confidence, health, and emotional well-being. The episode examines the three major types of frenemies—the competitive frenemy, the two-faced frenemy, and the manipulative frenemy—while also tackling the deeper and more difficult question: Have we ever been guilty of those same behaviors ourselves? This is a thoughtful, relatable, and reflective conversation about loyalty, trust, accountability, emotional maturity, and what true friendship looks like as Black men navigate life, leadership, family, career, and aging. If you’ve ever questioned someone’s intentions—or your own—this episode will challenge you to think differently about the people you keep close and the kind of friend you choose to be. This episode is brought to you by Holver Travel www.holvertravel.com Thank you from Raw and Refined. Please like, comment, subscribe and share with men who might benefit from this episode or this podcast! You can check out the video of this episode on our YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/@RawandRefinedTGH]. This episode is brought to you by Holver Travel [https://www.holvertravel.com]

From Bruce Lee to T'Challa: Martial Arts, Masculinity and Myths from Grasshopper to Grandmaster

What did martial arts films really teach us—and how much of it actually holds up today? In this episode of Raw and Refined: The Gentleman’s Hour, we take a deep dive into the influence of martial arts films on how Black men of our generation came to understand discipline, masculinity, identity, and power. From the impact of Bruce Lee and cult classics like The Five Deadly Venoms, to the cultural bridge created by Wu-Tang Clan, we explore how these influences shaped not just what we watched—but who we became. We also reflect on something often overlooked: how these films created real moments of connection and bonding between young Black men—shared experiences that helped shape friendships, competition, and identity. With John bringing the perspective of a 6th degree Black Sash in Shaolin Kung Fu, we challenge the gap between Hollywood myth and real-world discipline—what the movies got right, what they got wrong, and what it actually takes to grow from “Grasshopper” to “Grandmaster.” This isn’t just a conversation about martial arts. It’s a conversation about growth, brotherhood, and truth. 🔑 In This Episode: Martial arts films and Black masculinity Discipline vs performance The influence of Wu-Tang Clan on identity and culture Brotherhood, bonding, and shared experiences Myth vs reality in martial arts training Then vs now: how media shapes connection martial arts movies, Bruce Lee, Black Panther TChalla, Wu Tang Clan, kung fu movies 80s, martial arts and masculinity, black men and identity, discipline and masculinity, kung fu theater nostalgia, Five Deadly Venoms, martial arts philosophy, hip hop and martial arts, Wu Tang kung fu influence, brotherhood and masculinity, black culture and media, martial arts realism vs movies, John Wick fighting realism, martial arts training vs movies, Raw and Refined podcast, black male podcast, masculinity discussion, cultural identity black men, 90s kung fu movies, martial arts influence on hip hop, Shaolin kung fu training Thank you from Raw and Refined. Please like, comment, subscribe and share with men who might benefit from this episode or this podcast! You can check out the video of this episode on our YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/@RawandRefinedTGH]. This episode is brought to you by Holver Travel [https://www.holvertravel.com]

Raised in the 80s: From Rubik's Cube to House Music and Hip Hop

What was it really like growing up in the 1980s? In this episode of Raw & Refined: The Gentleman’s Hour, Rich, John, and Greg take a journey back through the decade that shaped them—breaking it into three defining stages: elementary school (1980–1982), high school (1982–1986), and college (1986–1989). From Saturday morning cartoons and the Rubik’s Cube to the explosion of hip hop, the birth of Chicago house music, and the cultural impact of MTV, the conversation explores the music, movies, fashion, and everyday experiences that defined the era. The hosts reflect on iconic television shows like The Cosby Show, the influence of soap operas like General Hospital, and the emergence of stars like Denzel Washington on St. Elsewhere. They also revisit the rituals of the time—recording songs off the radio, crafting the perfect answering machine message, spending hours at the arcade, and hoping your favorite movie was still available at Blockbuster. More than just a nostalgic look back, this episode explores how the 1980s helped shape identity, community, and manhood for a generation of Black men. Thank you from Raw and Refined. Please like, comment, subscribe and share with men who might benefit from this episode or this podcast! You can check out the video of this episode on our YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/@RawandRefinedTGH]. This episode is brought to you by Holver Travel [https://www.holvertravel.com]

Titans of Black History: Drew, Randolph and Marshall

Three lifelong friends, Greg, John, and Richard, have been building each other up since 1982. Now they bring that same brotherhood to the mic. Raw and Refined: The Gentlemen's Hour is a frank, wide-ranging conversation for middle-aged Black men navigating health, wealth, identity, and purpose in America. From hypertension and diabetes to fatherhood, financial literacy, and the weight of legacy, these Brothers go deep on the issues that matter most. No performance. No posturing. Just real talk from three men who have done the work and lived the life. Titans of Black History: Drew, Randolph and Marshall. In honor of Black History Month, we take a deeper look at three extraordinary Black men whose leadership, discipline, and courage reshaped America — and helped make our own professional journeys possible. In this episode of Raw & Refined, we reflect on the legacies of: •Charles Drew — pioneering surgeon and architect of modern blood banking, who challenged discriminatory medical policies with both brilliance and principle. •A. Philip Randolph — founder of the Brotherhood of Sleeping Car Porters and strategic force behind labor and civil rights advancements through organized power and disciplined leadership. •Thurgood Marshall — NAACP litigator turned Supreme Court Justice, whose strategic victories, including Brown v. Board of Education, dismantled legal segregation and transformed constitutional law. But this conversation goes beyond history. John reflects on what it means to practice medicine as a Black physician in a system that once segregated blood. Greg examines the weight and responsibility of leading organized labor in today’s climate. Rich discusses Thurgood Marshall’s legacy, and he explores the transition from courtroom advocacy to institutional leadership, and what it means to carry forward the mantle of legal excellence and accountability. This is a conversation about stewardship. About pressure. About institutional power. About whether we are building something that will outlive us. Black history is not about nostalgia. It is about responsibility. Thank you from Raw and Refined. Please like, comment, subscribe and share with men who might benefit from this episode or this podcast! You can check out the video of this episode on our YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/@RawandRefinedTGH]. This episode is brought to you by Holver Travel [https://www.holvertravel.com]