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Why Top Producers Become Bad Leaders (And Don't Know It) | Dave Urso

47 min · 5 de may de 2026
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Dave Urso spent 23 years leading teams in higher education before writing Everyday Heroes Guide to Leadership. In this conversation, he gets into the stuff most brokerage leaders don't want to admit: that the traits that made you a top producer often make you a lousy boss. We talk about the gap between knowing your vision and actually getting it out of your head and into your team. Where empowerment ends and micromanagement starts. How to run KPIs without turning into the person everyone hides Slack messages from. Why the hard conversation you keep putting off is usually the one that would fix everything. Dave also gets specific on accountability systems, what to do with a team member who's poisoning the room, and how to stay consistent as a leader on the days when nothing feels consistent. 05:45 The blind spot every leader has but won't admit 09:06 Why your team thinks you're a micromanager 12:28 The accountability shift nobody teaches you 14:52 Two words your team is quietly begging you to be 18:39 Toxic or just hard? How to actually tell the difference 25:18 He's fired people who thanked him for it 34:14 Why the top feels so lonely. And the fix nobody talks about 39:14 The shipbuilder mistake that's killing your team's motivation 43:06 Read this if you're running on fumes 45:19 Rapid fire round 🔗 Connect with Us: Monter Coaching: https://montercoaching.com/ [https://montercoaching.com/] Follow Debbie: https://www.instagram.com/montercoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/montercoaching/] Website: https://daveurso.com/ [https://daveurso.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ursodj/ [https://www.instagram.com/ursodj/] Want to scale your business? https://montercoaching.com/contact/ [https://montercoaching.com/contact/] Want more insights like this? Don't miss an episode. https://montercoaching.com/real-estate-leadership-podcast/ [https://montercoaching.com/real-estate-leadership-podcast/]

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