48 How to Deal With Negative People Without Letting It Affect You

48 How to Deal With Negative People Without Letting It Affect You

Other people’s negativity is unavoidable. The real question is how to address it without avoiding the conversation, reacting from frustration, or carrying the emotional weight long after it ends. In this coaching episode, I work with a business owner who has been navigating difficult client emails, workplace pressure, and a particularly challenging year in her industry. We look at why her instinct is to pause before responding and why that pause is not avoidance. It is part of how she processes emotions and finds the right words. We talk about how to: * Respond to negative people without reacting in the moment * Stop internalizing difficult interactions * Recognize when you need time before addressing a problem * Communicate clearly without attacking or abandoning your position * Trust your voice instead of overthinking exactly what to say * Use movement, reflection, and activities you enjoy to clear emotional pressure * Create more balance when business responsibilities start consuming your energy This conversation is especially useful for anyone with Emotional Authority in Human Design, but the central truth applies more broadly: you do not have to respond immediately to handle something directly. Sometimes the most effective response comes after you have given the emotion enough time to move through you. Want to receive free coaching on a future episode? Sign up using the link below for my AMA Office Hours where I'll coach you. It's free! https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama] ✨ Ready for more? Start with the Clarity Reset: For the woman who doesn’t need another strategy — she needs to see what’s making everything feel so hard. ⁠⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot⁠⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot] 🔗 Explore more:Free Human Design Chart: ⁠⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart⁠⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart] ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/]  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/]  ⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/] #businesscoach #humandesignforbusiness #negativity

47 Why You Can’t Relax Even When You Want To?

Why does your brain refuse to turn off the second you finally have time to rest? In this episode of Business Rewritten, I talk about the frustrating pattern so many high-achieving women in business know too well: you sit down to relax, read a book, take a walk, watch a show, or enjoy a quiet weekend… and somehow your mind is still running. Checking email. Googling something random. Multitasking during downtime. Turning walks into another productivity tool. Filling every quiet moment because rest feels strangely uncomfortable. This episode looks at why rest can feel unsafe when you’ve been wired to equate productivity with value, success, importance, and momentum. Because when you’ve spent years hustling, producing, performing, and holding everything together, slowing down does not always feel peaceful at first. It can feel risky. I share the messy middle of learning to rest without turning it into another task, why awareness is the first step, and how small daily shifts can help you stop running on constant pressure. This is not about quitting ambition. It’s about creating success without draining your energy 24/7. If you’ve been wondering why you can’t relax, why your brain won’t turn off, or why rest brings up guilt instead of relief, this episode is for you. In this episode: * Why your brain keeps looking for something to do * How hustle culture wires rest to feel unsafe * Why productivity can become tied to your sense of value * How multitasking steals the joy from things you actually love * Why awareness matters before anything changes * How small pauses can help you rebuild trust with rest Business Rewritten: Rebel to Rise is a podcast for high-achieving women in business who are done building success by running themselves into the ground. Hosted by Erin Hines, this show blends business strategy, Human Design, and leadership clarity to help you redesign how you work, decide, and lead. ✨ Ready for more? Start with the Clarity Reset: For the woman who doesn’t need another strategy — she needs to see what’s making everything feel so hard. ⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot] 🔗 Explore more:Free Human Design Chart: ⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart]Ask Me Anything Office Hours: ⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama] https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/]  https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/ [https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/]  https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/] #WomenInBusiness #LeadershipBurnout #HumanDesignForBusiness #BusinessStrategy #SustainableSuccess #OverthinkingInBusiness #LeadershipConfidence #BusinessRewritten

46 Why You Keep Holding Back at Work and in Business

If you keep holding back at work or in your business, it may not be because you lack confidence. It may be because you’ve learned to perform the version of yourself that feels safer, more polished, more acceptable, or more “successful.” In this episode of Business Rewritten, I’m talking about the subtle ways performance shows up in leadership, business, visibility, networking, meetings, and decision-making. Not the obvious kind. The quiet kind. The kind where you say the polished thing instead of the true thing. The kind where you stay quiet in a meeting even though you know exactly what needs to be said. The kind where you force yourself to keep showing up because someone told you consistency matters more than your actual energy. That’s not leadership. That’s self-editing. And the cost is bigger than you think. Because when you hold back, people don’t get the full value of you. Your clients, your team, your audience, your business — they don’t need the watered-down version. They need the real one. This episode is for the high-achieving woman in business who is tired of performing success and ready to lead with more clarity, integrity, and self-trust. We’ll talk about: * Why performance can keep you small * How holding back shows up in meetings, networking, and visibility * Why forcing yourself to follow “success rules” can drain your energy * How Human Design can help you recognize when you’re not showing up as yourself * Why clarity is the first step to sustainable success * What it means to lead with grace, compassion, integrity, and impact You don’t need to perform the version of success someone else told you to chase. You need to notice where you’re holding back. That’s where the real work starts. 00:00 Why You Keep Performing Success 05:37 How to Stop Holding Back and Lead Clearly 08:08 Building Sustainable Success Without Self-Abandonment 🎧 Listen to Business Rewritten: Rebel to Rise for grounded conversations on leadership, business strategy, Human Design, burnout, overthinking, decision-making, and building success without running yourself into the ground. ✨ Ready for more? Start with the Clarity Reset: For the woman who doesn’t need another strategy — she needs to see what’s making everything feel so hard. https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot] 🔗 Explore more: Free Human Design Chart: https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart] Ask Me Anything Office Hours: https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama] ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/]  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/]  ⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/] #WomenInBusiness #LeadershipBurnout #HumanDesignForBusiness #BusinessStrategy #SustainableSuccess #OverthinkingInBusiness #LeadershipConfidence #BusinessRewritten

45 How to Build a Purpose Led Business Without Burning Out

Want to be coached by me on a future episode? Sign up here: ⁠https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama⁠ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/erin-ama] You can know you’re here to help people and still feel unsure about how to make that purpose sustainable. In this coaching episode, I talk with Monica, a human design Projector, about building a purpose led business without stretching herself too thin. She knows her work matters. She knows she wants to help women. But the question underneath it all is: how do you turn purpose into income, impact, and fulfillment without burning out in the process? We look at how her Human Design points to the importance of focus, rest, clear invitations, and choosing where her energy actually belongs. Because when you’re here to guide, support, and serve others, it’s easy to overgive, say yes too often, and confuse being helpful with being available to everyone. This conversation is for you if you’ve been questioning whether you’re on the right path, trying to grow your business without forcing it, or wondering how to create sustainable business growth while still honoring your energy. Inside this episode, we talk about: * Why purpose alone isn’t enough to create a sustainable business * How to focus your energy instead of doing all the things * Why Projectors need rest, recognition, and aligned invitations * The difference between helping people and trying to fix everyone * How Human Design can support business clarity, boundaries, and sustainable growth You don’t need to abandon your purpose to make your business work. You need to build it in a way your energy can actually hold. Learn what your human design is: https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart]   https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/everything [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/everything]  https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/]  https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/ [https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/] 00:00 Exploring Purpose and Fulfillment as a Projector Human Design 00:49 Finding Business Clarity Around Applying Your Purpose 04:35 Sustainable Business Growth with Human Design Projector 06:26 Energy Management and Rest for Projectors

44 Why Slowing Down Makes You Feel Guilty

If slowing down makes you feel guilty, lazy, or like you’re falling behind, this episode is for you. I explore why stillness can feel so uncomfortable for high-achieving women in business, especially when success has been built on proving, over-functioning, and constant productivity. Sometimes the problem is not your calendar. It’s the meaning you’ve attached to your calendar. When your schedule finally gets quiet, your mind starts scanning for what you forgot, what you should be doing, or what might fall apart if you stop. In this episode, Erin talks about: * Why rest does not always feel restful * Why a quiet calendar can trigger panic * How over-functioning becomes tied to your sense of worth * Why a full calendar does not always mean momentum * The difference between visibility and sustainability in business * How Human Design can help you understand your natural way of operating * Why time off does not fix burnout if your operating system stays the same * How to stop treating every quiet season like an emergency This episode is for high-achieving women, entrepreneurs, CEOs, founders, and leaders who look successful on paper but feel exhausted behind the scenes. 🎧 Listen if you’ve ever thought: “Why do I feel guilty when I rest?” “Why can’t I slow down without panicking?” “Why do everything feel so heavy?” “Why do I feel behind even when nothing is wrong?” “Why does rest make me anxious instead of relieved?” If this episode hits, start with a Clarity Reset [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/clarity-reset-human-design-snapshot] — the place where we look at the pattern underneath the stress so you can stop carrying it in circles. Get your free Human Design Chart - https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart]   https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hines/]  https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/ [https://www.instagram.com/bedarngood/]  https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/ [https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/] 00:00 Why Stillness feels hard 01:29 When being busy becomes a problem 02:26 Why rest doesn't help 03:56 Why slowing does makes you feel guilty 05:53 Visibility vs Sustainability in business 06:49 Redefining Success and Productivity 08:17 Human Design and Business 10:12 Why time off doesn't help burnout 12:41 How to stop being exhausted