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Book Talk: What We Say and How We Say It Matter by Mike Anderson

24 min · 26 de sep de 2025
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Our words matter. They can regulate or dysregulate, motivate or manipulate, build trust or create resistance. In this episode, I break down Mike Anderson’s What We Say and How We Say It Matter, a book I loved for its practical examples and immediately usable teacher talk strategies. Key takeaways include: * Why sarcasm can backfire with students * Why “hope” is not a management strategy—and what to say instead * Why threats, bribes, and “relationship-based” manipulation don’t create true motivation * How shifting language toward student ownership builds autonomy and self-efficacy This is a must-read for teachers, coaches, and leaders who want to reset their language habits for stronger SEL, management, and student growth. 📚 What We Say and How We Say It Matter – Mike Anderson [https://amzn.to/3V5iOjl] 👉 Let's Connect! www.bewelltolearn.com [http://www.bewelltolearn.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] www.instagram.com/bewelltolearn [www.instagram.com/bewelltolearn ]

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