Engagements & Weddings

Friendship

What is the meaning of friendship in Kurdish culture? In the season finale of Reşmall, hosts Stephen, Sarhad, and Andy are joined by special guest Zana, a pharmacist and cultural researcher from Bakur. Together, they explore the profound depth, loyalty, and even sacredness that defines friendship within Kurdish culture. The team discusses the powerful meanings behind the Kurdish words for friends, such as Haval, and how close friendships historically served as a vital survival mechanism and safety net. From the spontaneous nature of open-door visits to the visible presence required during weddings, illnesses, and funerals, this episode unpacks what it truly means to be a loyal friend. They also offer invaluable insights for foreigners navigating these intense relational dynamics.

Hair

In January 2026, a shocking video of a Syrian soldier holding the braid of a fallen female Kurdish fighter sparked a global outcry. But why did this specific act ignite a worldwide campaign? In this episode of Reşmall, hosts Stephen, Sarhad, and Andy dive into the deep-rooted cultural and historical significance of hair in Kurdistan. From the ancient stone carvings of long-haired rulers to classical love poetry, a woman’s braid (kazî) carries profound meaning, serving as a symbol of beauty, deep mourning, and resistance. The guys also examine the weight of facial hair for men—from the honor of the mustache to the wisdom of the "white beard" (Rîş Spî)—and how global style trends are shifting these traditions today. Tune in for vital cultural insights, incredible history, and practical grooming tips for foreigners!

The Bazaar

Why do Kurds love the bazaar so much? In this sixth episode of Reşmall, hosts Stephen, Sarhad, and Andy dive deep into the sensory, social, and historical heart of the bazaar. Discover why the city and the bazaar are entirely inseparable in Kurdish identity , how a vibrant chaikhana transforms into a "social parliament" across all classes, and even the historical role these bustling alleyways played in supporting the Peshmerga. From the unspoken rules of bargaining and the loyalty of becoming a ma'amil , to the unique blessing of the day's first customer, the team explores why the bazaar functions as both a high-trust environment and a form of everyday therapy.

Engagements & Weddings

How do Kurdish couples get engaged and get married? In Episode 5 of Reşmall, hosts Stephen, Andy, and Sarhad dive into the complex world of Kurdish engagements and weddings. Joined by special guest Shabin, they explore everything from mothers on secret scouting missions to historical "wife-for-wife" exchanges. Learn how Mullahs formalize contracts and why dowries involve kilograms of gold. The group breaks down the emotional Henna Night, where a bride’s tears are a must, and the high-energy Transition Day when she joins her new family. From the post-wedding "Haftiana" visit to the wisdom of the proverb "See the mother and marry her daughter," this episode is a festive deep dive into Kurdish tradition.

Newroz

What is the most important Kurdish holiday? In this fourth episode of Reşmall: The Kurdish Culture Podcast, hosts Stephen, Sarhad, and Andy dive into the heart of Kurdish culture by exploring Newroz. Joined by special guest Arazu Barwari, the team explores the powerful legend of Kawa the Blacksmith and his victory over the tyrant Zahak. They discuss why Newroz is far more than just a spring equinox celebration—it is a profound symbol of resistance, unity, and the enduring triumph of light over darkness. From the spectacular fire festivals in Akre to the deep historical significance of the holiday across the four parts of Kurdistan, this episode honors the traditions that have survived for thousands of years. Tune in to learn why the flame of Newroz continues to burn bright for Kurds everywhere.