Rooted and Rising Healing After Betrayal
In this episode, we explore one of the most overlooked patterns in betrayal trauma recovery: the subtle but powerful difference between caring and controlling. This episode unpacks the trauma-driven urge to manage a partner’s recovery after betrayal — and why trying to control the conditions of someone else’s healing can quietly disconnect you from your own. If you’ve been exhausted trying to hold everything together, soften someone else’s discomfort, or make sure healing happens “the right way,” this episode offers a powerful invitation back to your own clarity, boundaries, and emotional sovereignty. Connect With Me + Continue Your Healing If today’s episode resonated with you, you don’t have to walk the healing journey after betrayal alone. I create trauma-informed resources, conversations, and learning experiences to support individuals and couples navigating infidelity, betrayal trauma, and relational repair. Here are a few ways to stay connected and continue your healing: Join me at a Retreat or Intensive If you’re craving deeper, in-person support and embodied healing, I’m helping facilitate upcoming experiences created specifically for betrayed partners. If you're ready for a deeper connection with your daughter(s), complete this interest list [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1Xi1vUJPyHfeFZx1XnWNwXmG7K6BnEDNIqSxUjsPNeYw/viewform?edit_requested=true] for more information about my upcoming retreat - Becoming Together: A Mother Daughter Retreat - hosted by myself and my two daughters in Sedona, Arizona on September 8 - 12th. If you and your partner are ready to move beyond survival mode and reconnect on a deeper level, the Rise and Renew Couples Retreat [https://www.chooserecoveryservices.com/rise-and-renew-couples-retreat/] offers an immersive healing experience in Costa Rica from July 30 - August 3 is designed to help couples restore connection, regulate their nervous systems, and create a more grounded, intentional relationship. Complete this Interest list [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf1blW1PffUPxbMjRgWofVCWXhP8dgM1DviI145XVGjt3dYSA/viewform?usp=header]for an upcoming course for parents called Intentional Parenting After Betrayal [https://docs.google.com/document/d/18-GJm84wM0kGzwEOw47fl91WVT-Y_Z3NMlpNA9bBzL0/edit?usp=sharing], hosted by Hali and her daughter, Morgan Ellsworth. The Courage to Thrive Betrayal Trauma Intensive [https://www.chooserecoveryservices.com/courage-to-thrive-betrayal-trauma-intensive/] takes place August 25-28 in Spanish Fork, Utah and offers a structured, trauma-informed space to understand betrayal trauma, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-trust. Free Resources & Downloads Access free tools, guided practices, and educational resources designed to support nervous system regulation, self-trust, boundaries, and clarity after betrayal. 👉A Mini Guide to Mindful Healing After Betrayal [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/pl/2148715906] 👉Your First Steps to Rising After Betrayal [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/pl/2148714679] Upcoming Course: Reclaiming You After Betrayal If you’re ready for deeper guidance in a structured, supportive format, I am offering a course focused on healing after betrayal, rebuilding self-trust, and grounding into your values and identity—without rushing decisions about staying or leaving. This course is ideal for those who want support without individual coaching and at a pace that honors their nervous system. 👉 Join the Reclaiming You Waitlist to be the first to Register! [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/rooted-and-rising-course] Listen to My Other Podcast If you are still in your relationship—or in the process of discerning whether you want to stay—I invite you to also follow my podcast, Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal, where I speak to both partners about healing, accountability, and rebuilding trust. 👉 Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal [https://open.spotify.com/show/5zV0oep3zEx178Vrcn0xQM] Join My Newsletter Stay connected through my newsletter, where I share reflections, trauma-informed insights, and updates on upcoming courses, workshops, retreats, and live experiences. 👉 Rooted and Rising Weekly [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/rooted-and-rising-weekly] Connect With Me Between Episodes Join me on social media for continued conversation, encouragement, and resources between podcast episodes. 👉 Instagram: @rootedandrising.healing [https://www.instagram.com/rootedandrising.healing?igsh=MTJkY3FndW4wemc2aw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr] 👉 Facebook: Rooted and Rising Healing with Hali Roderick [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BKvTcoAKu/?mibextid=wwXIfr] 👉 Website: rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/]
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