What Do You Do When You Cannot Undo Your Family's Past. Part 2

From a Locked Door to Ancestors Waking Her Up at 2:58AM

Marla Teyolia grew up four miles from the Mexican border, the only one in her family born in the United States. In her 20s, she was meditating behind a locked bedroom door so her mother would not see her. Thirty years later, she runs a coaching firm, works with executives at some of the world's most powerful institutions, and still communes with her ancestors every morning. She never had to choose between those worlds. She just had to wait until the roots were strong enough.   This is a conversation about curanderismo and what it actually is, about the gold necklace that broke in the ocean when she was ten and what it meant, about the night the ancestors woke her up at 2:58AM with instructions, and about why she believes you cannot AI your way out of the need to reconnect with your humanity. Watch the full video episode on YouTube at tamideegarcia or search Roots Renewed.

"I Forgot You Were Chinese" — Reclaiming Chinese Canadian Ancestry

She code-switched so completely that one day a childhood friend said — "I forgot you were Chinese." Lisa Dare grew up Chinese at home and white everywhere else. In this episode she talks about what it cost to fit in, what a trip to China changed in her, and what she is doing now to stay connected to where she comes from. Watch the full video episode on YouTube at tamigarcia.com [http://tamigarcia.com].

What Do You Do When You Cannot Undo Your Family's Past. Part 2

Part 1 was the reckoning. Part 2 is what you do with it. Natalie Berthe found out her family were active participants in the administration of the Belgian Congo. In Part 2 she talks about reconciling love for her family with the truth of what they did, what her responsibility looks like going forward, and why she is not looking away. Including her heritage fragment, one step for anyone whose heritage includes harm, and why this is not courage — it is just really uncomfortable, which is not the same thing as hard. Watch Part 1 first on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUBtfZukwhE&t=440s] Watch Part 2 on YouTube Join the Cultural Roots Reconnection Club [http://tamigarcia.com/membership]

Her Family Built the Panama Canal. Now Her Daughter Tells Her to Speak Regular.

She was born in the United States. Her parents are Panamanian. She goes back every year. She cooks the food, plays the music, and speaks the language in her house. She has done everything right. And then her four-year-old told her to speak regular. Her family came to Panama to build the canal. They planted there and never left. Jessica Fisher Golden has never once doubted that she is Panamanian. In this conversation she and host Tami Dee Garcia talk about what it means to hold your culture when the world around your children does not see it, the Afro-Latina identity that American culture still does not know what to do with, and a dying Caribbean lineage inside a Panama that most people have never heard of. New episodes every Tuesday. Host Tami Dee Garcia is a Heritage Reconnection Coach and Amazon bestselling author of Rediscovering Your Roots. Learn more at tamigarcia.com [http://tamigarcia.com].

She Spent Her Life Fighting Colonizers. Then She Found Out. Part 1

She spent her life calling out racism and fighting for justice. Then she found out her family were the colonizers she had been fighting against her entire life. Natalie Berthe is Belgian and Italian, born in the United States with Belgian citizenship. She always knew her family had ties to the Belgian Congo. She did not know what that actually meant until recently. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Natalie sits with the reckoning — what it felt like to find out, what her father told her about Bon Papa, and what it means to love someone and then learn what they did. Part 2 continues Thursday. Watch on YouTube: [your YouTube link] Join the Cultural Roots Reconnection Club: tamigarcia.com/membership [http://tamigarcia.com/membership]