Why Good People Are So Annoying

When I Feel Tired, Their Faith Slaps Me Awake

When Father Alfonse feels tired, he looks at the people who still come to Mass—walking, limping, in wheelchairs—and he tells himself the hard truth:Stop feeling sorry for yourself.Get the job done.The mission is the boss. The mission comes first. The mission never ends.In this talk—given as he received the Transmitter of the Faith Award from Guadalupe Radio—Father Alfonse thanks the people who said “yes,” honors the transmitters who formed him, and shows what trust in God really looks like. Not a soft feeling. The stubborn faith of Scripture: friends who tear open a roof, a mother who will not quit, a blind man who keeps crying out, a Roman centurion who believes one word is enough.If you are weary in the faith, caring for someone who needs hope, wondering whether Catholic radio still matters, or ready to stop living in self-pity and return to the mission, this message is for you.✝️ What you'll hear in this talk:✝️ Why great things happen when someone says “yes”✝️ The transmitters of the faith who formed a young man rediscovering God—Catholic radio, Catholic Answers, Ignatius Press, and free social media✝️ Why Catholic radio still matters in nursing homes: calm, trust, warmth, and hope✝️ What trust in God looks like in the Gospels (not what we often think)✝️ Why trust means leaving your comfort zone—and not quitting when the world mocks “failure”✝️ How the faithful who keep coming to Mass re-commission a tired priest✝️ “The mission is the boss. The mission comes first. The mission never ends.”📌 This Week's Challenge:Name one hard thing you have been avoiding—in prayer, Mass, family, or love of neighbor. Take one concrete step this week: go when you don't feel like it, make the call, visit the person, or ask for help “through the roof.” Then do what Father models: don't applaud yourself for more than two minutes. Ask, “What's next? What can we do better—and what can we do more?”🙏 Prayer Reflection:Lord Jesus, give me the trust of those who carried the paralytic, the persistence of the mother who would not leave You, and the humility of the centurion who believed Your word. When I am tired, show me the faith of Your people still coming to You. Stop me from self-pity. Make the mission my boss. Amen.📖 Scripture referenced / echoed:• Mark 2:1–12 — friends lower the paralytic through the roof• Matthew 15:21–28 — the Canaanite woman's trust• Mark 10:46–52 (cf. Luke 18:35–43) — the blind man who will not be silenced• Matthew 8:5–13 — the centurion's faith• Matthew 7:7–8 — ask, seek, knock⏱️ Chapters:0:00 When people say yes, great things happen1:30 Transmitters of the faith4:00 Family, humility, and the mission6:00 Always asking “what's next?”7:30 Why Catholic radio still matters9:00 What trust in God really looks like13:30 Leaving your comfort zone15:00 Stop feeling sorry for yourself16:30 The mission never ends📺 WATCH NEXT:If this message moved you, watch these related videos:"Warn Your Children Before It's Too Late (A Priest's Urgent Message)" https://youtu.be/HrWqUf1MJkM"I Almost DIED Choking - What God Showed Me Will CHANGE Your Life" https://youtu.be/0pjAL44OHgk"Feeling Alone? This Is What God Wants You to Know Right Now" https://youtu.be/P9VyTKGDhmg💬 Has someone's faith ever slapped you awake? Tell us in the comments—and share this with someone who needs courage for the mission.👍 Like · 🔔 Subscribe for more Catholic preaching that speaks to real life📱 CONNECT WITH US:🌐 Parish website: https://www.maryimmaculatechurch.org/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryimmaculatechurch🖋️ Blog: https://fralfonse.blogspot.com/✉️ Substack: https://fatheralfonse.substack.com/#Catholic #CatholicPriest #TrustInGod #CatholicSermon #Faith #SundayHomily #SpiritualGrowth #CatholicFaith #Mission #CatholicRadio #GuadalupeRadio #OurLadyOfGuadalupe #FatherAlfonse #MaryImmaculate #Prayer #Gospel #Inspiration #CatholicYouTube #TransmitterOfTheFaith

Feeling Hopeless? God Never Gives Up on You

You've written someone off. Maybe it's the relative who "isn't ready" to hear about God, the coworker you decided not to bother inviting, or the person in your own house who's hard to love right now. Maybe it's you. Father Alfonse says that's not your call to make — and he's got proof in a story about Abraham Lincoln you've never heard preached from a pulpit before.Note: If you'd like to attend the..Women's retreat (Aug 22-23) you can register here -https://forms.gle/ZHZqdPH5yHXFQb6q7)Men's retreat (Aug 29-30) you can register here -https://forms.gle/UPLQ11m2DKB4EV7LA)✝️ God throws His grace at every kind of ground — fertile, rocky, and hardened — without exception✝️ You don't get to decide who's "ready" to hear about God's love✝️ Father Alfonse admits he doesn't remember a single childhood homily except one✝️ Abraham Lincoln's stepmother — defying every "wicked stepmother" stereotype — helped shape a president who freed millions✝️ When someone offers you love, a hug, or a conversation, you don't earn it — you just have to let it in⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:0:00 – Welcome & the Parable of the Sower0:56 – God's Extravagant Generosity — Seed Thrown Everywhere1:45 – Father's Confession: The One Homily He Actually Remembers2:57 – The Rain That Falls on Every Kind of Ground (Isaiah 55)4:26 – The Unlikely Stepmother Who Shaped Abraham Lincoln7:08 – Let Them In: Receiving the Love Placed in Your Path9:27 – Announcement: Christ Renews His Parish Retreat🙏 PRAYER REFLECTION:Lord, show me the person I've quietly decided isn't ready for You — and give me the courage to stop guarding the door. Soften the hard ground in my own heart too, so that when love, forgiveness, or grace is placed in front of me, I don't push it away. Let me be as generous with Your seed as You are.📖 SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:Isaiah 55:10-11 — "The rain and the snow come down from heaven and do not return there till they have watered the earth..."Matthew 13:1-23 — The Parable of the Sower🎯 THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Think of one person you've privately decided "isn't the right time" to talk to about faith, or one person offering you love right now that you've been keeping at arm's length. This week, either say one honest sentence to them about where you stand with God, or simply let them in — answer the call, accept the hug, sit with the conversation you've been avoiding. Or go to Confession and answer God's call to closeness.💬 Share your experience in the comments below.We read every comment and lift up your prayer intentions. 🙏👍 LIKE if this spoke to your heart🔔 SUBSCRIBE for weekly homilies from Father Alfonse📤 SHARE with someone who needs to hear this📱 CONNECT WITH US:🌐 Parish Website: https://www.maryimmaculatechurch.org/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryimmaculatechurch🖋️ Blog: https://fralfonse.blogspot.com/📚 Substack Newsletter: https://fatheralfonse.substack.com📺 WATCH NEXT:Feeling Alone? This Is What God Wants You to Know Right Now — https://youtube.com/watch?v=P9VyTKGDhmgWhy Are We Mean to Family But Nice to Strangers? A Priest Explains — https://youtube.com/watch?v=df-5JRD1W-MThe Truth That Freed Me From Shame: God Already Knows and Still Loves Me — https://youtube.com/watch?v=tSE2ngUi88U#FatherAlfonse #CatholicSermon #SundayHomily #CatholicFaith #Forgiveness #SpiritualGrowth #Redemption #Family #FaithJourney #ChristianLiving #LifeLessons #Inspiration #PersonalGrowth #Hope #Trust

Why Good People Are So Annoying

Good people make us jealous. They challenge us. They raise the bar just by walking into the room — and honestly, it can be maddening. But Father Alfonse says that irritation is hiding something holy: the people who annoy you may be God's way of growing you. And by the end, a mother's funeral reveals what that really means. ✝️ Why the good people in your life get under your skin — and what God is doing through it ✝️ The one habit that quietly makes you better: who you surround yourself with ✝️ You were anointed at baptism — priest, prophet, king — and most of us forget it ✝️ "Who is Jesus to YOU?" — and why your words carry more weight than you think ✝️ A grieving mother, her three sons, and the four words that changed everything: "you are mine forever" ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Good people can be so annoying 0:26 – "Is it a sin to find a priest attractive?" 1:31 – Surround yourself with better people 2:54 – The Lord removes those who won't give their all 4:12 – "Who do you say that I am?" 5:12 – Your words have tremendous impact 7:21 – A mother, three sons, and "you are mine forever" 9:36 – God isn't here to annoy you. He's here to raise you. 🙏 PRAYER REFLECTION: Lord, when the goodness of others exposes what is small in me, keep me from resentment. Make their light an invitation, not a wound. Inspire my words today, so that someone hears exactly what they need — and meets You through me. 📖 SCRIPTURE REFERENCES: - Isaiah 22:19–23 — "I will thrust you from your office" - Romans 11:33–36 — "For from him and through him and for him are all things" - Matthew 16:13–20 — Peter's confession, "Who do you say that I am?" - Alluded to: Acts 20:35 · John 15:13 · Matthew 18:22 (forgive seventy times seven) 🎯 THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE: Before you speak to someone this week, pause and pray four words: "Lord, inspire my words." Then say the true, kind, or encouraging thing you'd normally hold back. Do it once a day. Watch what God does through an ordinary sentence. 💬 Who is the "annoyingly good" person in your life? Tell us in the comments — we read every one and lift up your prayer intentions. 🙏 👍 LIKE if this spoke to your heart 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for a new homily from Father Alfonse every week 📤 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it today 📱 CONNECT WITH US: 🌐 Parish Website: https://www.maryimmaculatechurch.org/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryimmaculatechurch 🖋️ Blog: https://fralfonse.blogspot.com/ 📚 Substack: https://fatheralfonse.substack.com 📺 WATCH NEXT: Stop Overthinking the Holy Spirit — It's in THIS Everyday Moment → https://youtu.be/z7A4Jo3fBUo Feeling Alone? This Is What God Wants You to Know Right Now → https://youtu.be/P9VyTKGDhmg Death Doesn't Separate Us, It Brings Us Closer Together → https://youtu.be/ME1Oq5i3ba0 #FatherAlfonse #CatholicSermon #SundayHomily #CatholicFaith #HolySpirit #SpiritualGrowth #FaithJourney #ChristianLiving #Homily #Inspiration #LifeLessons #Trust #CatholicChurch #Motivation

Suffocating Under the Weight of Life? A Priest's Simple Tip on How to Breathe Again

Going through a hard time? When you've done everything right and still feel like you got slapped in the face, Father Alfonse Nazzaro gives the one shift in perspective that turns despair into endurance. "No good deed goes unpunished" — we've all felt it. But there's a key that changes how you carry it.In this short, powerful Friday homily, Father Alfonse points to the lives of the martyrs — including St. Boniface, killed while preparing people for confirmation — and shows why your suffering isn't a punishment or a detour. It's the very path Christ walked, and it's how the saints found the strength to keep going.If you're carrying something heavy right now, this is the encouragement you needed to hear today. 🙏👉 Subscribe for weekly homilies that meet you right where you are — and share this with someone who needs strength today.✝️ KEY POINTS FROM THIS HOMILY:✝️ Why "no good deed goes unpunished" feels true — and what to do with that feeling✝️ The marks of a true apostle: faith, patience, love, endurance, and perseverance (St. Paul to Timothy)✝️ The story of St. Boniface — cut down by pagans while doing God's work✝️ The simple practice that resets your perspective in any hard season: read the lives of the martyrs✝️ Why suffering with faith is not a detour from the Christian life — it is the way of Christ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 — The marks of a true apostle0:28 — "No good deed goes unpunished" — the grievance we all feel0:55 — St. Boniface: faithful to the end1:30 — The practice that resets your perspective2:00 — Faith, patience, love, endurance2:25 — Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life🎯 THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:The next time you feel discouraged, unappreciated, or "slapped in the face" for doing good — before you give in to self-pity, read the life of one martyr or saint. Just one. Let their story put your trial in perspective, then carry your day with the same faith and patience they showed. Tell us in the comments which saint you chose.🙏 PRAYER REFLECTION:Lord, when my burdens feel unfair and my good is met with hardship, lift my eyes to those who endured far worse and stayed faithful to the end. Give me the perseverance of the martyrs, the patience of St. Paul, and the courage to walk the path You walked. You are the way, the truth, and the life. Amen.📖 SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:2 Timothy 3:10–12 — "You have followed my teaching, my way of life…" (faith, patience, love, endurance, persecution)John 14:6 — "I am the way, the truth, and the life."💬 Who is one saint or martyr whose story has carried you through a hard time? Share it below — it might be exactly what another viewer needs to read today.📱 CONNECT WITH US:🌐 Parish website: https://www.maryimmaculatechurch.org/=📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryimmaculatechurch🖋️ Blog: https://fralfonse.blogspot.com/📚 Substack: https://fatheralfonse.substack.com/#CatholicSermon #SundayHomily #SpiritualGrowth #Catholic #CatholicFaith #FatherAlfonse #MaryImmaculate #Perseverance #Martyrs #StBoniface #Homily #Faith #ChristianEncouragement #Suffering #PrayerLife #CatholicChurch

Darkness Won't Win: A Priest's Call to Courage This Father's Day

Are you afraid to fail? Afraid to take the step, say the words, or admit you were wrong? In this Father's Day homily, Father Alfonse Nazzaro takes three readings that sound like bad news — "terror on every side," sin, death, things hidden in the dark — and shows that every one of them is secretly saying the same thing: Be not afraid. God has your back.Using a Jane Austen film about love almost lost to silence, the grit of his own immigrant father, and a healthy dose of humor, Father Alfonse makes the case that fear is the real thief — and that the greatest gift any father can pass on is the courage not to panic. He also shares the top way to keep your children in the Faith, even after you're gone. If you've been waiting, hiding, or holding back, this one is for you.👍 If this speaks to you, give it a LIKE — it helps others who need it find it.🔔 SUBSCRIBE for a new sermon from Father Alfonse every week.💬 Comment below: What's one thing fear has been keeping you from doing?🗝️KEY POINTS IN THIS HOMILY🗝️✝️ The three readings sound like bad news — but each one carries the same hidden command: do not panic.✝️ A Jane Austen movie becomes a lesson on the words, feelings, and steps we're too afraid to take.✝️ Fear of failing — and fear of looking imperfect — is what keeps us from love and from truly living.✝️ "God has your back": not trying is the real failure, and second chances are always offered.✝️ A father's greatest gift is to imitate our Father in heaven — teaching by sharing his story, not by being perfect.✝️ The quiet power of a father who admits his mistakes and goes to confession: his children will follow him.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – The readings: "Terror on every side"0:50 – Happy Father's Day? The "unfair" readings1:30 – A movie about the words we never say4:00 – Why the English aren't afraid to fail5:40 – Every reading says the same thing: don't panic6:40 – A father teaches by sharing his story7:30 – "Remember where we came from"8:40 – God has your back — what's worse than failing?9:50 – Don't take yourself so seriously10:30 – "I am not perfect"11:10 – Second chances and the witness of confession12:20 – A blessing for every father🙏 PRAYER REFLECTIONHeavenly Father, when terror presses in on every side and I am afraid to fail, remind me that You have my back. Give me the courage to take the step, to speak the words, and to admit my mistakes without shame. Help every father to reflect Your love, and heal all those wounded by the imperfections of their own fathers. Be not afraid — for You are with us. Amen.📖 SCRIPTURE REFERENCESJeremiah 20:10–13 — "Terror on every side… but the Lord is with me, like a mighty champion."Psalm 69 — "For your sake I bear insult, and shame covers my face." (Responsorial)Romans 5:12–15 — "Through one man sin entered the world, and through sin, death."Matthew 10:26–33 — "Fear no one… nothing is concealed that will not be revealed… do not be afraid."🎯 THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGEDo the one thing fear has been stopping you from doing. Make the call. Say "I love you." Apologize first. Go to confession. And if you're a father, tell your children one true story about where you came from — so they learn from you that they can get through anything, and that they never have to panic.📱 CONNECT WITH US🌐 Parish website: https://www.maryimmaculatechurch.org/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryimmaculatechurch🖋️ Blog: https://fralfonse.blogspot.com/📚 Substack: https://fatheralfonse.substack.com/#CatholicSermon #SundayHomily #SpiritualGrowth #BeNotAfraid #FathersDay #Catholic #Faith #FearOfFailure #Perseverance #HopeInDarkness #FatherAlfonse #Homily #ChristianMotivation #DontPanic #GodHasYourBack