EP497 - Can You Be Spiritual and Sexual?

EP500 - What 500 Conversations About Sex Taught Me

Welcome to Episode 500 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by some of my most memorable guests, who speak to me about the biggest lessons on pleasure, desire, intimacy, and connection from the past nine years. In this special milestone episode, I revisit conversations that challenged common assumptions about what fulfilling sex is supposed to look like. We explore why foreplay often begins long before anyone enters the bedroom, how every human body experiences pleasure differently, and why there is no single correct way to orgasm. We also look at what research can teach us about sexual positions, pelvic floor contractions, stimulation, and the importance of adapting sexual experiences to our individual bodies. I also reflect on the deeper lessons these 500 conversations have taught me about becoming a more attentive and connected partner. We discuss moving beyond sexual autopilot, questioning techniques learned through pornography, understanding our fantasies without shame, and keeping desire alive in long-term relationships. Thank you for making these 500 episodes possible and here’s to the next 500! In this episode, you will hear (In Order Of Appearance) * Sebastian Harris [https://open.spotify.com/show/3KmVNhWYNnqa5oYySTymte] * Emily Nagoski [https://www.emilynagoski.com/] * Lauri Mintz [https://www.drlauriemintz.com/]  * Amir Marashi [https://getcere.com/] * Anna Lee [https://www.instagram.com/annaisaverage/] * Miranda Houston [https://www.youtube.com/@PleasureBhabie] * Jason Julius [https://www.jasonjulius.com/] * Justin Lehmiller [https://www.sexandpsychology.com] * Ian Kerner [https://www.iankerner.com] * Peggy Kleinplatz [https://optimalsexualexperiences.com] Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moali https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me [https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me]   Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast] Podcast Produced by Vaudeo Productions [https://vaudeoproductions.com/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

EP499 - You Don't Have a Low Libido. Here's What's Really Happening

Welcome to Episode 499 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Michelle Sands [https://www.glownaturalwellness.com/], who speaks to me about the connection between hormones, stress, the nervous system, and women’s sexual desire. In this episode, Dr. Sands explains why a loss of desire is not always a libido problem. We discuss how changes in estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, circulation, sleep, and vaginal health can affect arousal and sexual comfort, particularly during perimenopause and menopause. We also talk about why pain during sex can naturally reduce desire and why women should not assume that they are broken or failing their partners. Dr. Michelle Sands, ND, is a #1 bestselling author, licensed naturopathic physician, speaker, female hormone expert, and epigenetics coach. She is passionate about helping women harness the power of nature to elevate their genetic expression and live vibrant, fulfilling lives by supporting their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health. In this episode, you will hear: * Libido As A Vital Sign * Hormonal Changes During Menopause * Understanding Painful Sex * Stress And Cortisol Dysregulation * Advocating For Hormone Care * Rethinking Hormone Replacement Therapy * Scheduling Intimacy Without Pressure * Supporting Arousal And Blood Flow * Restoring Nervous System Balance * Sexual Health And Longevity A Woman's Guide to Reviving Sex Drive https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ [https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/] Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moali https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me [https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me]   Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast] Podcast Produced by Vaudeo Productions [https://vaudeoproductions.com/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

EP498 - What Women Really Mean When They Want a Man to "Take Charge"

Welcome to Episode 498 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Amanda Dames [https://www.amandadames.com/] who speaks to me about soft dom dynamics, masculinity, and communication in kink. In this episode Amanda and I discuss what it really means to be a soft dom and how this style of dominance is different than the harsh, controlling stereotypes often associated with dom-sub dynamics. We talk about the basis for soft domination, on care, attunement, emotional safety and the desire to bring out the best in a partner, as opposed to control, punishment or ego.  As a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach and Certified Sexologist, Amanda helps clients uncover a holistic and balanced relationship with intimacy. She understands that there is no one-size-fits-all approach, which is why she developed her own consulting method to support each person in discovering their unique path to fulfillment. Amanda’s work as The Kink Consultant is rooted in the path she took to embrace her own sexuality. Understanding the source of her kinks and core desires was the first step in her journey toward self-acceptance. She now uses this same approach to help individuals and couples embrace their kinky side with curiosity, confidence, and compassion. In this episode, you will hear: * Understanding Soft Domination * Healthy Power Exchange * Care Versus Control * Masculinity And Safety * Toxic Manosphere Culture * Emotional Attunement * Foreplay Outside The Bedroom * Building Erotic Polarity * Communication And Safe Words * Aftercare And Feedback How To Be The Man She Desires: A Guide for Men https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/be-the-man-she-desires-guide [https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/be-the-man-she-desires-guide] Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moali https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me [https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me]   Podcast Produced by Vaudeo Productions [https://vaudeoproductions.com/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

EP497 - Can You Be Spiritual and Sexual?

Welcome to Episode 497 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Shoshanna Blanca [https://linktr.ee/shoshannalovesjesus] who speaks to me about bridging sexuality and spirituality, healing sexual shame, and reclaiming the body as sacred. In this episode, I speak with Shoshanna about her provocative and deeply personal project, Jesus Christ Pornstar, and the spiritual journey that inspired it. She shares how psychedelic experiences helped her reimagine the relationship between the body, pleasure, faith, and divinity. Together, we also discuss how sexuality and spirituality do not have to exist in opposition, especially for people who have grown up with shame-based messages about desire, pleasure, and the body. Shoshanna Blanca is a feminist writer, sex educator, performance artist and model who deconstructs shame-based narratives around sexuality through body liberation, spirituality and visual storytelling. Through her work, she inspires audiences to reject limiting ideas of beauty, modesty and self-expression and reclaim confidence, authenticity and ownership of their bodies. In this episode, you will hear: * Bridging Sexuality And Spirituality * Healing Sexual Shame * Reclaiming The Body As Sacred * Jesus Christ Pornstar * Psychedelics And Spiritual Awakening * Religion And Erotic Freedom * Women’s Desire And Empowerment * Sexual Repression And Pain * Reinterpreting Biblical Messages * Finding Sex-Positive Faith A Woman's Guide to Reviving Sex Drive https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ [https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/] Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moali https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me [https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me]   Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast] Podcast Produced by Vaudeo Productions [https://vaudeoproductions.com/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

The Biggest Lies Men Are Taught About Sex

Welcome to Episode 496 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by David Chambers [https://www.theauthenticman.net/], who speaks to me about male sexual performance anxiety and creating more connected sexual experiences. In this episode, David and I talk about the pressure many men feel to perform during sex. We discuss how focusing on erections, penis size, orgasm and technique can disconnect men from their bodies and partners, turning intimacy into something they must successfully deliver. David Chambers, known as The Authentic Man, is a UK-based dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. With more than a decade of experience, he helps men build deeper relationships, develop healthier masculinity and create more fulfilling sexual lives. His approach centres on self-awareness, emotional intelligence, authenticity and self-leadership. In this episode, you will hear: * The Pressure To Perform During Sex * Why Sex Is Not A Competition * Anxiety Around Penis Size * How Shame Affects Male Confidence * Overcoming The Fear Of Losing An Erection * Communicating Sexual Anxiety With A Partner * Moving Beyond Penetration * Building Greater Sexual Presence * Maintaining Intimacy As Men Age * Co-Creating More Connected Sexual Experiences Stress Reduction Toolkit https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/opt-in [https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/opt-in] Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moali https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me [https://oasis2care.clientsecure.me]   Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast] Podcast Produced by Vaudeo Productions [https://vaudeoproductions.com/] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]