7 Signs You Were In a Toxic Relationship & Why You Missed Them- EP. 2 | She's A GEM

7 Signs You Were In a Toxic Relationship & Why You Missed Them- EP. 2 | She's A GEM

Have you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered, "How did I not see that?" In this episode of She's a Gem Podcast, Lynnet Perez breaks down the 7 signs of a toxic relationship — and more importantly, the real reason why most of us don't see them while we're living inside them. This isn't about being naive or weak. There's actual science behind why toxic relationships are so hard to spot, and by the end of this episode, you'll understand exactly why you missed the signs — and finally release the self-blame. Whether it's a romantic partner, a close friend, or a family member, these patterns are the same. You are not stupid. You were targeted. And your healing starts here. ---------------------------------------- Timestamps: 00:05 – Welcome & Introduction 01:11 – You Are Not Weak For Staying 02:45 – 🚩 Red Flag #1: Love Bombing 05:33 – 🚩 Red Flag #2: Gaslighting 07:22 – 🚩 Red Flag #3: Isolation 09:31 – 🚩 Red Flag #4: Intermittent Reinforcement (the hot & cold cycle) 11:44 – 🚩 Red Flag #5: Criticism Disguised as Jokes or "Concern" 13:24 – 🚩 Red Flag #6: Walking on Eggshells 15:03 – 🚩 Red Flag #7: Making Excuses for Their Behavior 17:21 – The Science Behind Why You Missed Them- Trauma Bonding Explained) 20:55 – What to Do Now: Steps Toward Healing 23:48 – Questions to Ask Early in New Relationships 25:22 – Join the GEM Society Community 26:31 – The Return to You Retreat (October 2026) 27:04 – Closing Thoughts & Encouragement ✨ Welcome to She’s a GEM Podcast, where healing meets confidence, growth, and becoming HER. 💎If you’re on a journey of self-worth, leaving toxic patterns, and stepping into your power… you’re in the right place. ______________________________________________________ 🎧 Listen on your favorite platforms: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1wgMYez [https://open.spotify.com/show/1wgMYez]... 📺 Watch full episodes here on YouTube, don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE + turn on notifications! 💎 Join the GEM Society (Beta Waitlist): https://lynnetperez.myflodesk.com/gem [https://lynnetperez.myflodesk.com/gem]... 🌐 Visit the website: https://lynnetperez.com/podcast [https://lynnetperez.com/podcast] 📲 Connect with me on Instagram: / shesagempodcast 🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the podcast? Apply here: https://www.honeybook.com/template-pr [https://www.honeybook.com/template-pr]... ✨ FREEBIE: Return to You Starter Guide Start your healing journey here: https://lynnetperez.myflodesk.com/pod [https://lynnetperez.myflodesk.com/pod]... 💬 Let’s stay connected: Drop a comment, share your biggest takeaway! I’d love to hear your story. ⚡ New episodes every Thursday Make sure you’re following so you never miss a GEM.

I Almost Lost Myself in a Toxic Relationship — Here's How I Found Her Again- EP.1 | She's a GEM

Have you ever looked in the mirror and not recognized the woman staring back at you? If you've ever lost yourself in a toxic relationship, struggled to rebuild your confidence, or felt like you've forgotten who you are and what you're worth — this episode was made for YOU. She's a Gem: Embracing Your Power in the Midst of the Mess Are you tired of feeling lost, broken, or unseen? This episode is a fiery declaration that YOU are a gem — yes, right NOW, in your mess, in your healing. Join me, Lynnet Perez, as I break down my raw, real story and share powerful truths about surviving, thriving, and shining despite the storms. IN THIS EPISODE: * Why your pain is not the end but the beginning of your purpose * Shocking stats on domestic violence and why you're not alone in your struggle * How I turned my darkest moments into a mission to help YOU * The true meaning behind being a GEM — growth, empowerment, manifestation * Why community, spiritual tools, and aligned action are non-negotiable in healing * How to find courage when you're scared to leave toxic situations * The upcoming Gem Society community and retreat — your safe space for transformation TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Welcome to She's a Gem: Your space for healing and shining 00:36 – Why your pain is part of your purpose 01:03 – You are a gem, right now, in the middle of your mess 01:31 – The real stats on domestic violence and why this matters 02:30 – You're not alone — your story is shared by millions 03:58 – The power of surviving and embracing your strength 04:57 – Building community: Healing doesn’t happen alone 05:25 – My story: From heartbreak to transformation 06:22 – The respectful pursuit that turned into a nightmare 07:53 – Recognizing red flags and losing yourself in a toxic relationship 08:50 – Staying too long and the revelation that changed everything 09:49 – The moment I left and what I learned from that crisis 10:48 – Facing fears and choosing yourself, even when it’s terrifying 12:18 – The power in walking away and trusting God's plan 14:13 – The birth of She's a Gem from my chaos 15:12 – What it truly means to be a GEM: Growth, Empowerment, Manifestation 16:12 – The journey of healing and finding your light 17:41 – What to expect from the podcast: Real talk, spiritual tools, and sisterhood 20:24 – The Gem Society: Your community of fierce, healing women 21:53 – The Return to You Retreat: Disconnection, rediscovery, transformation RESOURCES & LINKS: * Gem Society [https://lynnetperez.myflodesk.com/gem-society-news] – Join the community that heals together * Return to You Women's Retreat [https://app.flodesk.com/form/69cdc2a30dc1342678582ffd] – Sign Up for Our Newsletter CONNECT WITH LYNNET PEREZ: * Instagram [https://instagram.com/shesagempodcast] * TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@shesagempodcast] Remember, sis — you are a gem. Shine, grow, heal, and manifest the life you deserve. This is only the beginning. You got this! Always.

She's A GEM Podcast Trailer

I'm your host Lynnet Perez — Empowerment & Confidence Coach, certified by Jay Shetty, and the woman who decided that healing out loud was more powerful than suffering in silence. This is She's a GEM — the show where we talk about finding the strength to leave a toxic relationship, to believing in yourself again, and thriving after.  Where you rediscover your purpose, your confidence, your self-worth, and find your way back to yourself.  No filters. No judgment. No topic off limits. We break through our fears, embrace our vulnerabilities, heal from within — and yes, we even find the humor in the unexpected. So lock in, because new episodes drop every Thursday — starting April 23rd. Follow the show today on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify. Welcome to She's a GEM —  where your healing era starts now.