Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? Breaking Up With the Story

The Storm Before the Calm: Why Chaos Means We're Close to Breakthrough

TW: brief reference to emotional abuse and end-of-relationship dynamics. In this week’s episode, Elissa pulls back the curtain on a pattern most of us feel long before we can name it: the moment right before a system collapses — when it spikes, panics, and lashes out in a final attempt to survive. Drawing from her own deeply personal transformation, Elissa traces the pattern through her marriage, her career, and now the collective stage. She reveals how, in every era of her life, the same energy showed up: when she stepped into her power or started to leave a dysfunctional dynamic, the system intensified - right before it broke. This episode weaves together:  • The psychology of extinction bursts  • Why things feel more chaotic right before they clear  • The nervous system’s thaw → shake → release cycle  • How toxic power structures (personal or political) behave when they sense their time is up  • Historical examples of authoritarian regimes collapsing almost overnight  • What this means for you, for us, and for what’s coming next This isn’t an episode about fear. It’s an episode about pattern recognition, self-trust, and relief. If you’ve been seeing chaos, conflict, or intensity rise around you - personally or globally - this conversation reframes it through a higher lens: This is not the beginning of the end. It’s the end of the end. The storm before the calm. Elissa also shares how dissolving a lifelong pattern around visibility opened the floodgates - for her intuition and the work that is now pouring through her. You’ll leave with a clearer sense of:  • why big shifts often come with one final “flare” of the old energy  • how to read the signs when something is truly ending  • how to stay grounded when the field around you is shaking  • and why this moment, for all of us, might be more hopeful than it looks Leave Elissa a Voice Note! http://www.speakpipe.com/shesletherselfgo

Blowing Bubba: Sex, Lies, and the Levels of Consciousness

The veil is thinning—and some veils are filthier than others. In this solo voice memo, Elissa explores the rising tide of revelations—from the release of Epstein’s long-buried emails to whispers of high-level humiliation—and offers a spiritual framework for what we’re really witnessing: not just scandal, but collapse. Using the Levels of Consciousness map, she tracks how the collective moves from denial and shame into courage and truth. Why do some people still worship power while others are cracking open? What role does courage actually play in awakening? And how do you hold sovereignty when the world feels like it’s spiraling? This isn’t about politics. It’s about energetic thresholds. And we just crossed one.   If you want to know more about Hawkins's Levels Of Consciousness, check out his book, Power vs. Force Here [https://www.amazon.com/Power-Force-David-Hawkins-M-D/dp/1401945074]. Or check out Elissa's pinned video here [https://www.tiktok.com/@elissaspeaks].

Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? Breaking Up With the Story

Is having a boyfriend now… embarrassing? That’s the provocation at the heart of a viral Vogue article, and in this episode, Elissa goes deep—not just into the article itself, but into the cultural, emotional, and spiritual programming that got us here. ✨ And stay to hear her paint a hopeful vision for the future of relationships—as men awaken too, and we co-create something better than anything we’ve inherited. 🌹 Ready to return to yourself? The Soul Recode is open now—a six-week, one-on-one experience for awakening women ready to shed outdated roles and reconnect with their true frequency in leadership, love, and life. 👉 https://www.elissalansdell.com/service-page/soul-recode-6-week-program?referral=service_list_widget

Unsubscribe: The Quiet Exit That Shakes Empires

What if the most powerful protest isn't loud at all? In this episode, Elissa explores the quiet, radical act of unsubscribing - from emails, yes, but also from systems, beliefs, and algorithms that feed on our attention.    From a viral revolt against Disney to the invisible contracts we never agreed to, she asks: What are you still subscribed to out of fear, habit, or the illusion of relevance?   You'll hear: * Why attention is the real currency of control * The myth of missing out, and what we actually lose hint: it's not connection) * How unsubscribing can regulate your nervous system * And the soul-deep truth: When I stop consuming, I reappear. This one isn't about digital hygiene. It's about digital sovereignty. Let go of one algorithm - and watch what returns.

Family Holidays: The Final Frontier

This one might hit close to home—literally. In this episode, Elissa explores the quiet rebellion happening inside so many women right now. From coaching clients to comment threads, a pattern is emerging: we’re done performing tradition at the expense of our peace. What happens when the emotional labor stops? When we pause before buying the gifts, planning the meals, or smoothing over the tension—just because it’s “what we’ve always done”? Elissa names the invisible cost of being the keeper of everyone’s comfort and the unspoken grief many women feel around family holidays. And she offers both a powerful mirror and a vision—what holidays could become when women reclaim their time, energy, and inner truth. This is not a call-out. It’s a call in. To inner discernment. To rest. To reclamation. And to a new kind of holiday where nobody disappears to make magic happen. The final frontier is here. You’re not alone in stepping into it.