Love the Dog in Front of You (A Shy Dog Diary Entry)

Using Nose Work to Build Confidence with Nancy Reyes

🎥 This episode is also available in video format on Spotify.  When I first introduced nose work to my anxious dog, Nessie, I thought it would simply be a fun enrichment activity. What I didn't realize was that it would become one of the most powerful confidence-building tools in our journey together. In this episode of Shy Dog Diaries, I sit down with Nancy Reyes, founder of For Your K9 and certified nose work instructor, to explore how scent work can help fearful, anxious, reactive, and behaviorally sensitive dogs feel safer, calmer, and more confident in the world. Nancy shares why nose work is uniquely different from other dog sports, how it taps into a dog's natural instincts, and why allowing dogs to solve problems independently can create profound emotional growth. We discuss the fascinating brain-nose connection, practical ways to start scent work at home, and why "going slow to go fast" is often the key to helping anxious dogs succeed. We also talk about real-life success stories, common mistakes handlers make with sensitive dogs, and the role medication can play in helping dogs learn and feel safe enough to engage with the world around them. About Nancy Reyes With more than 30 years of professional experience, Nancy Reyes, CNWI, is a dedicated dog trainer whose work spans both dog behavior and dog sports. Her path began with a lifelong interest in animals and has evolved into helping dogs and their people navigate a wide range of challenges. In 2004, Nancy founded For Your K9, Inc. in Elmhurst, IL, creating a training center that offers behavior-focused programs alongside dog sports such as Agility, Barn Hunt, Rally, and Nose Work. She has extensive experience working with complex behavior issues, including aggression and separation anxiety. At the core of her training philosophy is a commitment to strengthening the human–dog relationship through clear communication, thoughtful training, and mutual respect. Nancy is deeply involved in the canine nose work community, serving as a Certified Nose Work Instructor (CNWI), Certifying Official, and Judge for the National Association of Canine Scent Work (NACSW), as well as a CPE Scent Work Judge and CWAGS Judge. She has mentored scent work instructors both locally and internationally, in person and online. An international speaker and presenter, Nancy has taught dog behavior and nose work across the United States and in Japan. She has written for multiple breed publications and regularly presents webinars for professional and owner-focused audiences. As a Certified Mental Management Instructor, she also coaches dog–handler teams to improve focus, resilience, and performance across dog sports. Connect with Nancy Website: www.foryourk9.com [http://www.foryourk9.com] Email: info@foryourk9.com [info@foryourk9.com] Business Facebook: ForYourK9 [http://www.facebook.com/ForYourK9] Personal Facebook: NancyQReyes [http://www.facebook.com/nancyqreyes/] Instagram: @for_your_k9_training [https://www.instagram.com/for_your_k9_training/] Sniff & Solve Quiz for Dog Anxiety: https://go.foryourk9.com/sniff-and-solve-qui [https://go.foryourk9.com/sniff-and-solve-quiz]z Connect with Shy Dog Diaries Instagram: @shydogdiaries [https://instagram.com/shydogdiaries] Email: pod@shydogdiaries.com [pod@shydogdiaries.com]

Love the Dog in Front of You (A Shy Dog Diary Entry)

🎥 This episode is also available in video format on Spotify if you want to see some of Nessie’s recent progress. What if the biggest breakthrough with your sensitive dog isn’t fixing them—but finally understanding them? In this episode of Shy Dog Diaries, I’m sharing a deeply personal reflection on what changed when I stopped trying to turn Nessie into the dog I imagined… and started loving the dog right in front of me. I walk through some recent wins—from a surprisingly smooth vet visit to a bath-time recovery using “touch,” to our very first treat-free walk during the day—and how these moments helped me see progress differently. Then we dive into something many of us quietly carry: the gap between the dog we expected and the dog we actually have. I talk about: * Why that expectation gap creates stress (and even grief) * What it really means to “lower expectations” in a healthy way * How to work with your dog’s nervous system instead of against it * Why progress with sensitive dogs often looks microscopic—but matters deeply This episode is about shifting perspective, finding peace in the process, and recognizing the quiet, meaningful ways our dogs grow—and trust us. Connect with Shy Dog Diaries Instagram: @shydogdiaries [https://instagram.com/shydogdiaries] Email: pod@shydogdiaries.com [pod@shydogdiaries.com]

Helping Fearful Dogs Build Confidence with Dr. Kelly Lee

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kelly Lee, founder of Dogkind Training, to talk about what it truly means to support fearful, anxious, and traumatized dogs. Dr. Lee holds degrees in Zoology, Applied Behavior Analysis, and Ecology & Evolutionary Biology, and she’s an honors graduate of the Academy for Dog Trainers (CTC). But what makes this conversation so powerful isn’t just her credentials — it’s her lived experience with her own deeply fearful dog, Pancake. We talk about: * What to do when your dog simply refuses to go on walks * Why “just push them through it” can backfire * The power of agency and safe spaces * How to know if you’re stretching your dog… or overwhelming them * Why participation isn’t enough (and what to watch for instead) * How enrichment games build real confidence * The role of medication — and why it shouldn’t be a last resort * How to recognize and celebrate tiny victories that are actually huge If you’re raising a sensitive dog who isn’t a “café dog” — if you’ve questioned yourself, felt overwhelmed, or wondered whether you’re doing it right — this episode will meet you exactly where you are. Because progress with fearful dogs isn’t flashy.  It’s slow. It’s subtle. And it’s worth celebrating. Connect with our guest, Dr Kelly Lee Website: https://www.dogkindtraining.com/ [https://www.dogkindtraining.com/] Instagram: @dogkind_training Facebook: Dogkind LLC YouTube: @Dogkind Connect with Shy Dog Diaries Instagram: @shydogdiaries [https://instagram.com/shydogdiaries] Email: pod@shydogdiaries.com [pod@shydogdiaries.com]

Understanding Anxiety in Dogs with Veterinary Behaviorist Dr. Karen Sueda

What if your dog isn’t “difficult” or “stubborn” — but anxious, overwhelmed, and trying their best? In this episode of Shy Dog Diaries, I sit down with board-certified veterinary behaviorist Dr. Karen Sueda to talk about what’s really going on behind fear-based behaviors in dogs — and how we can truly help them thrive. Dr. Sueda explains what a veterinary behaviorist does, how anxiety can show up as fear, reactivity, or shutdown, and techniques for helping fearful dogs improve. Together, we explore desensitization and counter-conditioning, trigger stacking, rest days, latent learning, and the often-misunderstood role of behavior medications. Using my dog Nessie as a real-life example, this conversation offers hope for guardians of fearful and anxious dogs — especially rescue dogs who missed early socialization windows. We talk about why guilt is common but misplaced, why medication is not a failure, and how helping an anxious dog can change both ends of the leash. If you’ve ever felt alone, judged, or overwhelmed while loving an anxious dog, this episode is for you. Connect with our guest, Dr Karen Sueda Website: https://ksvetbehavior.com [https://ksvetbehavior.com/] Connect with Shy Dog Diaries Instagram: @shydogdiaries [https://instagram.com/shydogdiaries] Email: pod@shydogdiaries.com [pod@shydogdiaries.com]

Training with Dog Genie: From Fearful to Flourishing

In this episode, I’m joined by certified dog trainer and behavior consultant Genie Tuttle of Dog Genie to talk about helping shy and anxious dogs build confidence. Together, we revisit Nessie’s early training days and explore how choice and agency play a powerful role in behavior work. We also talk about how nose work and scent-based enrichment can transform fear into curiosity, giving sensitive dogs a way to engage with the world on their own terms. This is a warm, hopeful conversation for anyone navigating life with a “big-feelings” dog — and for those looking for compassionate, practical ways to help their dogs feel safer and more confident. Connect with our guest, Genie Tuttle Website: https://doggenie.com [https://doggenie.com] Instagram: @doggenie Connect with Shy Dog Diaries Instagram: @shydogdiaries [https://instagram.com/shydogdiaries] Email: pod@shydogdiaries.com [pod@shydogdiaries.com]