The Red Flag Was Me 🚩♊ | Who I Became for Love | EP 27

The Red Flag Was Me 🚩♊ | Who I Became for Love | EP 27

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471880/fan_mail/new] Sometimes the biggest red flag isn't the person you're dating—it's the version of yourself you become to keep the relationship. In this deeply personal episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, Leka reflects on four defining relationships and the different versions of herself each one created: The Ride-or-Die, The Cool Girl, The Martyr, and The Compromiser. Through storytelling, humor, accountability, and an astrological lens, she explores how survival strategies can quietly become relationship patterns—and what it looks like to finally meet yourself underneath all of them. This conversation is about ownership, healing, and asking a difficult question: Who have you become in your relationships...and is that really who you are? Production Credits: 🎵 Original Theme Music by Robert Williams 📍Hosted by: Leka  Astrology ain’t therapy…but it's close. #SisterSignsPodcast

Love You to Death: When Love Exists in Separate Realities 💔♊ | EP 26

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471880/fan_mail/new] Every relationship is built on a shared understanding of reality—but what happens when two people are no longer living in the same one? In this episode, Leka examines the tragic case of Pastor Brodes Perry and Latoshia Daniels. What began as pastoral counseling evolved into a secret relationship shaped by hidden conversations, conflicting expectations, and profoundly different understandings of the future. Using Gemini energy as a lens, this episode explores communication, competing narratives, and how people can experience the same relationship in entirely different ways. This conversation includes discussions of infidelity, emotional manipulation, homicide, and intimate partner violence. Production Credits: 🎵 Original Theme Music by Robert Williams 📍Hosted by: Leka  Astrology ain’t therapy…but it's close. #SisterSignsPodcast

Drake, Kendrick & J. Cole: The Contradiction at the Heart of Hip Hop | EP 25

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471880/fan_mail/new] What do we really mean when we say we want authenticity? In this Gemini Season episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, I explore Drake, Kendrick Lamar, and J. Cole through a lens that goes far beyond rap beefs and album releases. What begins as a conversation about hip hop quickly becomes a conversation about identity, performance, public image, and the stories audiences tell themselves about the people they admire. Why do some people trust Kendrick? Why does Drake inspire such different reactions? Why did J. Cole's apology feel so disruptive? And what happens when performance becomes so convincing that nobody can tell where the character ends and the person begins? Along the way, we explore wrestling's concept of kayfabe, the expectations placed on artists, and why women in rap may have understood performance culture long before the rest of us caught up. Because maybe authenticity and performance aren't opposites at all. Maybe they're partners. Production Credits: 🎵 Original Theme Music by Robert Williams 📍Hosted by: Leka  Astrology ain’t therapy…but it's close. #SisterSignsPodcast

Gemini Rising: Is It Real Connection or Just Elite Customer Service? ♊🚩 | EP 24

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471880/fan_mail/new] People fall for Gemini Rising because they know how to make you feel mentally and emotionally engaged. The problem? Relationships can't survive on stimulation alone. In this episode of Sister Signs & Red Flags, I break down the blessing and the curse of Gemini Rising in relationships: from the curiosity and adaptability that draw people in to the communication patterns that can leave people wondering where they actually stand. Plus, I examine Will Smith as a real-life example of Gemini Rising relationship energy and explore the difference between feeling engaged and feeling secure. Because communication is a beautiful thing. But communication by itself is not the same thing as stability. Referenced Source: Will Smith Interview (WAMU) https://wamu.org/story/21/11/10/will-smith-says-he-crafted-a-joyful-image-to-cover-the-pain-of-the-past/ [https://wamu.org/story/21/11/10/will-smith-says-he-crafted-a-joyful-image-to-cover-the-pain-of-the-past/] Production Credits: 🎵 Original Theme Music by Robert Williams 📍Hosted by: Leka  Astrology ain’t therapy…but it's close. #SisterSignsPodcast

The Devil I Knew: Loving Potential More Than Reality 🚩 | EP 23

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471880/fan_mail/new] Sometimes we don’t stay because something is good… we stay because it’s familiar. In this deeply personal Red Flag Dating Story, I open up about a years-long situationship with “Stephen” — a relationship built on history, emotional attachment, loyalty, chemistry, and potential… but never true growth. This episode explores: *  emotional breadcrumbs  *  loving someone’s potential  *  self-abandonment in relationships  *  familiarity as a trap  *  astrology and attachment patterns  *  and the painful moment clarity finally arrives  This conversation is funny, emotional, reflective, and painfully honest. Because sometimes the red flag isn’t chaos… Sometimes it’s comfort. Apologies for the random background noise in parts of this episode 😭. I realized it after recording, but the conversation was too good not to post. Production Credits: 🎵 Original Theme Music by Robert Williams 📍Hosted by: Leka  Astrology ain’t therapy…but it's close. #SisterSignsPodcast