'Will you go out with me?'  How do you date off the apps?

Looksmaxxing - a dangerous trend or just a bit of filler babes?

Looksmaxxing - a dangerous trend or just a lil’ filler, babes? Christine gets lost in the dark with the Hotmess Hotline, plus, should you be putting a sunset clause on your situationship? At what point does “we’re just seeing where it goes” turn into “this has gone way too long”? The duo also dives into the messy world of micro‑cheating — what counts, what doesn’t, and why they’re absolutely not on the same page about it.

Is doing boring little life tasks together actually the ultimate dating hack?

Award-winning romance novelist, Sophie Gravia and TV personality, model and fellow author Christine McGuinness discuss whether doing boring little life tasks together is the ultimate dating hack. Sophie and Christine dive into the chaos of real‑world dating so you don’t have to. On the Hotmess Hotline, they stumble across a… let’s just say very unconventional intimacy technique, and in this week’s Drama Drop they unpack “attraction hobbies” — the things people suddenly take up just to impress a crush. So the real question is: how far are you willing to go to get someone’s attention...

We are gathered here today... to talk about marriage. Do people still want to say 'I do'?

Award-winning romance novelist, Sophie Gravia and TV personality, model and fellow author Christine McGuinness talk about… marriage. Christine is down for a big, gay, sparkly blessing — but… are people even still saying 'I do'? Then the Hotmess Hotline dives straight into polyamory and non‑monogamy. Is it something Sophie and Christine would ever actually try, or would they simply combust from the admin alone? They discuss being childfree by choice after Charlie XCX spoke about having children not being right for her right now, and should people maybe stop asking women about babies like it’s a personality quiz? Probably yes.

To sex or not to sex? Sophie and Christine talk celibacy

Award-winning romance novelist, Sophie Gravia and TV personality, model and fellow author Christine McGuinness discuss celibacy and the benefits of abstaining from sex - the peace, the clarity, and the surprising perks of hitting pause. The Hotmess Hotline is looking for advice on how to deal with a curveball in the bedroom and Sophie reveals all when talking about spicy books. When do you take it too far, Sophie?!

'Will you go out with me?'  How do you date off the apps?

Also Sophie and Christine discuss if your first love be your true love?