Romance Novelist Reveals How Steamy Love Scenes Are Really Written

Romance Novelist Reveals How Steamy Love Scenes Are Really Written

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/fan_mail/new] How do romance novelists actually write steamy love scenes that feel sexy, believable, and impossible to put down? In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan sit down with a romance novelist to talk about what really goes into writing chemistry, attraction, tension, and unforgettable love scenes on the page. We get into what inspires her, how writers create emotional and physical tension that actually lands, and why the best romance scenes are about so much more than just spice. From romance novels to the art of writing desire, intimacy, and fantasy, this conversation is funny, smart, and full of insight for readers, writers, and anyone obsessed with a good love story. We also talk about: * What inspires steamy romance scenes * Why readers are so drawn to romance and fantasy * What makes a love scene feel believable and hot If you love romance novels, spicy books, writing, BookTok, love scenes, and behind-the-scenes conversations with authors, this episode is for you. Topics include: romance novelist, spicy books, romance novels, steamy love scenes, writing romance, chemistry in fiction, BookTok books, romance author interview, and what inspires writers. Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time. Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence. + Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes. + Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify. Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross Produced by: Missy Greenberg Edited by: Charles E. Becker Follow on: IG: @thenotfromheremedia Merch: www.notfromheremedia.com TikTok: @notfromheremedia   Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/support]

How to Feel Sexy in Your Clothes | Fashion, Confidence & Dating Energy

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/fan_mail/new] On this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan talk about how to feel confident in your clothes, dating confidence, and modern relationships with fashion curator Janet Mandell. Based in Chicago, she is the founder of a luxury fashion rental showroom that she built from scratch — and later expanded to Los Angeles and New York, dressing celebrities for major red carpet events. Janet shares how she launched her luxury wardrobe business, why vintage designer fashion is having a massive comeback (with help from Kim Kardashian), and how the right outfit can completely change how confident — and sexy — you feel. They also get into: • why vintage fashion rentals are exploding right now • the psychology of feeling confident in your clothes • the outfits that actually work in the bedroom (and the ones that don’t) • and how Janet navigates an unconventional relationship dynamic that works for her. If you’ve ever wondered how style, confidence, dating, and sexuality intersect, this conversation will change the way you think about your closet. Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time. Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence. + Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes. + Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify. Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross Produced by: Missy Greenberg Edited by: Charles E. Becker Follow on: IG: @thenotfromheremedia Merch: www.notfromheremedia.com TikTok: @notfromheremedia   Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/support]

Botox, Skincare & Sexual Wellness: Confessions of an Aesthetic Nurse

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/fan_mail/new] What really happens behind the curtain of med spas, and aesthetic treatments? In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with an aesthetic nurse who has worked both in the operating room alongside plastic surgeons and in the world of med spas. She shares what it's actually like assisting in procedures like revision rhinoplasties, facelifts, and Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs)—including the risks, scarring, and the techniques doctors use to make them safer. They also break down Med Spa 101, from Botox, filler, microneedling, chemical peels, laser hair removal, and skincare routines to the latest beauty trends and viral treatments like snail mucin, beef tallow skincare, salmon DNA facials, and “glass skin.” The conversation also gets into the world of regenerative medicine and sexual wellness treatments, including P-shots, O-shots, and other procedures designed to improve libido, sexual function, and confidence. And because this is Slut in Training, there are plenty of wild stories from the treatment room—including the most unusual patient requests and a truly unforgettable penis filler story. If you’ve ever wondered: • what an aesthetic nurse actually does • which cosmetic procedures are trending right now • the truth about Botox, filler, and skincare myths • how sexual wellness treatments like PRP injections work • and how beauty and confidence are connected This episode pulls back the curtain on the world of modern aesthetic medicine. Happy skin! Timestamps - Episode Highlights 0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – The Everything Shower 3:42 – Gabby (Anonymous) and her background – from Aesthetic nurse in the operating room - working with small dick energy surgeons – to Med Spa and all things beaty 5:10 – Experiences working with plastic surgeons on revision rhinoplasties, facelift deep planning, BBL (Brazilian butt lifts), etc. 6:30 – BBL, dangers, and scarring explained – cannula versus traditional incisions 7:20 – Silicone gel – you best friend when dealing with surgical scarring – especially Asian/ethnic scarring and keloids 8:42 – Med Spa 101 – Botox, filler, microneedling, laser hair removal, facials, chemical peels, sexual health, wellness IV’s and vitamin shots – best of inner and outer beauty 9:27 – Regenerative medicine – treatments using your own blood to help rejuvenate the skin and improve libido 9:57 – Expert advice on skincare 101 – confidence regimen – adult acne, wrinkles, glowing – less is always more!!! Gentle cleanser based on skin type – dry, combination, or oily skin 11:20 – New and weirdest skincare trends – Beef Tallow! Snail mucin, Salmon Polynucleotide DNA (Salmon sperm), Glass Skin treatments 13:35 – Beauty myths – Botox, Xeomin, & Disport injected into your masseters can’t really change your face to get a snatched jawline 15:20 – Most popular sexual health request for women – Vaginoplasty or labiaplasty - Face lift for your vagina! Got popular after Secret Life of Mormon Wives (Season 1, Episode 6) –– 19:47 – P shots (Priapus Shot) - penis filler to enhance girth with hyaluronic acid 23:37 – O shot (Orgasm Shot) – vaginal, labia, and clitoral injections of PRP (Platelet rich plasma) from your own blood 29:18 – Crazy client story about Penis filler! 31:43 – what advice would you give your younger self? Don’t take everything so seriously! Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time. Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence. + Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes. + Follow the show so you don't miss ep Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/support]

Curious about Sex Therapy? | Intimacy, Desire Gaps & Keeping Sex Alive

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/fan_mail/new] What really happens inside sex therapy sessions? In this episode of Slut in Training, we chat with Los Angeles sex therapist, Moushumi Ghose, to talk about intimacy, desire gaps, sexual confidence, and the conversations couples avoid but desperately need to have. From dry spells and mismatched libido to dirty talk, surrogate partner therapy, and reclaiming sexual power, we break down what people are actually struggling with behind closed doors — and how to communicate better in relationships and the bedroom. We also discuss why Los Angeles has become a hub for surrogate partner therapy, why many couples struggle to talk about sex openly, and practical tips for keeping intimacy alive in both new and long-term relationships. If you've ever wondered how couples navigate awkwardness, reignite desire, or talk about what they really want in bed — this episode goes there. You're welcome! Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to the show + Slutty Word of the Day: Rainbow Kiss 03:39 – Becoming a sex therapist 06:58 – Why most couples seek sex therapy: desire disparity & dry spells 08:58 – The first question therapists ask: whose problem is it? 09:31 – Identifying what couples actually want to change 10:36 – Different types of practitioners: sex psychotherapists vs surrogate partners 11:20 – Why Los Angeles is the hub for surrogate partner therapy 13:41 – Surrogate partner therapy in Israel 14:08 – Why sex workers often do the “front line” emotional labor 14:27 – The most popular service in Nevada brothels: the girlfriend experience 14:56 – Reclaiming the word “slut” and sexual empowerment 15:49 – Overcoming awkwardness when sleeping with someone new 18:25 – Keeping sex exciting in long-term relationships 20:18 – Talking openly about attraction and fantasy 23:43 – Getting aligned on what you want your future to look like 25:44 – Creating a shared sexual vocabulary with your partner 27:00 – A real couple’s dry spell: rebuilding intimacy step by step 28:07 – Why dirty talk feels awkward (and how to get better at it) 30:50 – Pushing past shame and stigma around sex 32:45 – What a sex therapist would tell their younger self about relationships Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time. Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence. + Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes. + Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify. Resources and mentions: Visit the Moushumi Ghose’s website and get connected! www.pleasurepsych.com [http://www.pleasurepsych.com/] www.moushumighose.com Instagram: @moshumighosemft Facebook: Moushumi Ghose Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross Produced by: Missy Greenberg Edited by: Charles E. Becker Follow on: IG: @thenotfromheremedia Merch: www.notfromheremedia.com TikTok: @notfromheremedia   Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/support]

Bet on Yourself: LADY PARTS

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/fan_mail/new] Join Missy, Jordan, and Tania as we chat with Bonnie Gross, award-winning screenwriter/executive producer whose personal journey became a full-on movie: LADY PARTS.   In this episode, she reveals how she took on her inability to have intercourse, her diagnosis with Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction, her journey to sexual health, and took the big risk to share her lived experience with the world.  The result of betting on herself is a script that captured audiences and won awards, including Austin Film Festival. Whether you connect with Bonnie on her health challenges or are into storytelling, or just want inspiration to start your own creative leap…this interview is gold.   Enjoy! Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time. Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence. + Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes. + Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify. Timestamps - Episode Highlights 00:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the day - Butter Churner 01:10 – Introducing Bonnie – vaginal healthcare and sexuality comedy writer 03:59 – Turning personal experience into the film “LADY PARTS” 05:30 – It all started with a blog post 07:57 – Crafting the film: from opening scene to executive producer role 08:50 – Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and dealing with a tampon 10:31 – What it’s like to be the writer, screenwriter, executive producer & so much more 12:15 – Vestibulectomy – the only one on set with that experience 12:22 – Common link to director with Vaginismus and the use of dilators – 2 perspectives 13:47 – Mantra - if there is no seat at the dinner table – bring a damn folding chair! 14:02 – Dildos versus dilators (the Russian dildos) and taking care of your pelvic floor 15:48 – An orgasm a day keeps the PT away! 16:28 – Bring toys to the bedroom – we love them – if it brings you pleasure then do it 17:54 – Tell us about casting yourself in a movie and reliving your experience on set 23:10 – How filmmaking transformed Bonnie’s dating life and intimacy 27:15 – What did you learn making this movie that you can now take into the bedroom 30:30 – Beauty of their set – leaning in – not making it awkward even in the sex dungeon Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross Produced by: Missy Greenberg Edited by: Charles E. Becker Follow on: IG: @thenotfromheremedia Merch: www.notfromheremedia.com TikTok: @notfromheremedia   Resources and mentions: Visit the LADY PARTS website and connect with Bonnie Gross! https://bonnie-gross.com [https://bonnie-gross.com/] https://bonnie-gross.com/lady-parts/ [https://bonnie-gross.com/lady-parts/] Instagram @shake_ur_bonbon Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2526597/support]