13: navigating friendships in your 20s pt 2

16: control, you dont need it! (all the time)

besides the control you have over what you do, say, wear, eat, etc. leave control at the door. The first mistake we can make is making ourselves believe that if something doesn't go the way we want, everything else is doomed. Allow yourself to believe everything is workout-able. So what the sun didn't shine and now you cant read your favorite book at the beach? Now you can catch up on your favorite show and read a chapter in between episodes. So what someone decided to cancel and not hangout with you? Thats okay too! In fact, now you have more time to work on that new hobby or call your mom. I guess the purpose of this is, you'll be okay once you do your part and let the world do theirs. as always, please let us know your thoughts/topic suggestions by leaving a review or messaging us on @somethingsoff.la on IG <3

15: insecurity, womp womp

yeah, its normal but lets not entirely normalize it. Insecurity can stem from a variety of different places whether that be upbringings, comparison, or embarrassment. Either way, it doesn't define us. It's a little voice in our head we can choose to ignore. Insecurity can ruin the self we have worked so hard to build up. So post that picture, send that text, wear that outfit, go for that thing you so want. Be as authentically you as possible so when you're 90 something reflecting on your life, you can proudly say you were wholeheartedly yourself and everything else was simply out of your control. as always, please let us know your thoughts/topic suggestions by leaving a review or messaging us on @somethingsoff.la on IG <3

14: end of year anxieties

Ending the new year with a list of things you haven’t done is not the best feeling in the world, in fact its one of the worst feelings that can come with being a human with no blueprint. Setting your goals in the beginning of the year does not always mean you have one year to complete them. Some goals can follow through the next year and the next, depending on not only their complexity but also where you are in life. Everyone is at a different point in their life and comparison is at the tip of our finger with social media consumption. Scrolling away can lead one to a never ending loop of feeling bad for ourselves. May this podcast serve as a reminder that it is okay to have unfinished goals at the end of a year, goals that maybe don’t align with who you were on January 1st, or goals that will take a bit longer as we all run our own race. Where you are is a crucial step to where you are going to be. As always, please let us know your thoughts/topic suggestions by leaving a review or messaging us on @somethingsoff.la on IG

13: navigating friendships in your 20s pt 2

In this episode we wanted to jump back into a previous topic. Navigating friendships in your 20s. We covered a more in depth description on how the authenticity of oneself is all that matters when finding your place in not only stable friendships but also in the world. Staying true to who you are will allow space for what you desire to come to fruition. People will come and go but the ones meant to be will always stay. With that in mind we hope this message will bring you peace of mind as you go through life and experience the highs and lows that friendships bring. as always, please let us know your thoughts/topic suggestions by leaving a review or messaging us on @somethingsoff.la on IG

12: your power to create

this episode is your reminder to CREATE! whatever that means for you, take this episode as a sign to stop putting it off and start prioritizing your creative pursuits and dreams. we hope this episode helps you realize that everyone is an artist and everything is an art. as always, please let us know your thoughts/topic suggestions by leaving a review or messaging us on @somethingsoff.la on IG