Bobby Minor: The Cost of Chasing the Dream

Bobby Minor: The Cost of Chasing the Dream

What is the youth sports dream really costing families? In this episode of Surviving Youth Sports, Rhett Parker sits down with Bobby Minor, a former Division I player, coach, recruiting evaluator, organization director, and father who has spent decades around the game of baseball. Together, they unpack the rising costs of travel sports, the pressure created by rankings and invitations, the reality behind scholarships, and why being a standout athlete at 12 doesn’t guarantee success later on. Bobby shares lessons learned from coaching, recruiting, and navigating the journey with his own sons, including mistakes he made early and what he would do differently today. The conversation also explores how social media fuels comparison, why transparency matters in youth sports organizations, and how parents can make decisions that align with their child’s long-term development rather than short-term recognition. One of the most powerful takeaways comes from a simple mindset shift: learning to celebrate other athletes’ success instead of measuring it against your own child’s journey. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re spending too much, worrying too much, or chasing the wrong things, this episode offers a thoughtful perspective on what really matters. IN THIS EPISODE * The true cost of travel baseball * Why rankings and invitations can be misleading * Questions every parent should ask before joining a team * The difference between winning and development * Social media, comparison, and youth sports pressure * Supporting young athletes’ mental and emotional well-being * How to enjoy the journey without constantly looking sideways 🎙️ Subscribe to Surviving Youth Sports on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube for weekly conversations helping parents, coaches, and athletes navigate the realities of modern youth sports.

Justin Furtado: Are Parents Protecting Kids Too Much? Lessons, Failure, and Playing Time

Justin Furtado, founder of BTG Basketball and host of Beyond the Scoreboard, joins Rhett for an honest conversation about one of the most uncomfortable parts of youth sports: not playing. From playing time battles to overinvolved parents, Justin and Rhett explore how the lessons kids learn through disappointment often matter more than the scoreboard. They discuss why being on the bench isn’t always a problem to solve, how parents can support without rescuing, and why youth sports should prepare kids for life beyond the game. This episode challenges some of the assumptions that drive modern youth sports culture. What happens when we stop chasing the highest level and start looking for the right level? What if development isn’t about exposure, rankings, or circuits, but about resilience, confidence, and learning how to advocate for yourself?

Michael Saunders: The Pressure to Make It Is Changing How Kids Play

Former MLB All-Star Michael Saunders knows what it’s like to chase the dream. From representing Canada in the Little League World Series to spending nearly a decade in the Major Leagues, baseball has been a huge part of his life. But today, he’s navigating youth sports from a different perspective: as a dad. In this episode of Surviving Youth Sports, Michael shares why none of his kids play baseball, why he’s a strong believer in multi-sport athletes, and how the fear of falling behind is influencing the decisions many families make. He and Rhett discuss identity, specialization, pressure, and what youth sports can teach kids beyond wins, losses, and statistics. Michael also shares the philosophy behind Saundo Athletics, a new venture focused on helping young athletes grow as people first and players second. If you’ve ever wondered whether youth sports are becoming too focused on performance and not focused enough on development, this conversation is worth a listen.

Deven Morgan: The Problem Youth Baseball Has to Solve

What if the biggest threat to youth baseball isn't a lack of talent, but the system surrounding the game? This week, Rhett sits down with Deven Morgan, Director of Youth Baseball at Driveline Baseball, for a conversation about athlete development, pitch counts, multi-sport participation, overuse injuries, and the growing pressure families face in modern youth sports. Deven shares why "kids are not small adults," why the best young players are often the ones most at risk of being overused, and how a lack of communication between leagues, tournaments, and organizations may be creating unnecessary risk for athletes. The conversation also explores a proposed solution: universal pitch counts and reporting across youth baseball. Not to limit opportunities, but to better protect the kids everyone depends on. This isn't just a baseball conversation. It's a conversation about development, process, parenting, and whether the systems we've built are serving the kids they're meant to support. Topics include: • Multi-sport athletes and early specialization • Driveline's approach to player development • Why athletic development matters more than most parents realize • The difference between development and validation • Pitch counts, overuse, and injury prevention • Universal pitch count reporting • Raising athletes who love the process, not just the results If you're a parent, coach, or athlete trying to navigate the realities of youth sports, this episode is for you.

Jason D’Rocha: Are We Rushing Kids Into Sports They Never Chose?

What if the biggest youth sports decision isn't which team your child joins, but whether they ever had the chance to choose for themselves? This week, Rhett Parker sits down with Jason D'Rocha, Vice President of Sportball, to discuss early specialization, parent expectations, and why exposing kids to multiple sports may be one of the most important investments families can make. The conversation explores physical literacy, social development, competitiveness, and the pressure many families feel to pick a lane earlier than ever before. Jason shares why he believes specialization should come after confidence and competence, not before, and why giving kids a voice in their own journey matters. Along the way, Rhett and Jason dive into the realities of modern youth sports, including rising costs, fear of missing out, and the challenge of balancing development, enjoyment, and long-term success. Whether you're raising a highly competitive athlete, coaching young players, or simply trying to navigate youth sports without losing perspective, this episode offers an honest conversation about helping kids discover what they love before the pressure takes over.